Speak out!

Normalize exercising your power of choice, moreover its your life and its you who should be dominating it not anyone or anything else. Choice is the one gift of life given to us to express our supremacy and will power, the moment you cannot say no to things or people out of fear its no longer you in control, and that's not a live worth living. Every step you take should be one you can boldly beat your chest and defend, yes I did that, yes I said that or No I won't do that, No leave me alone, every and any decision you make should be a you concluded action and not triggered by fear of anyone or anything. People use fear as a means to control a situation or a foreseen occurrence, if you can control the person, then you can control the action. Fear can have its positive side when channeled to the right course, similarly fear can be used negatively to suppress and oppress someone, to make them do ones biding, we no longer live in a military regime, and we thank God for that improvement to life, but yet many have found ways to instigate fear so that they can stay on top. Fear is the forerunner to failure, failure in great aspect of life, failure to stand, failure to be bold, failure to come out, failure to do it, all because of fear. Come on say no to fear today. Say No to fear, think with me on this pattern, what's the worst that can happen? Most of your fear should be gone once you can ask that question and reason the response being true to yourself. Funnily most people fear is to be laughed at, can you believe that, you don't want people to laugh at you. People laugh at you for no good reason, you can't stop them from being amused, same way you see something amusing in a person from just close watch, your focus rather should be in the pursuit of your dreams rather than the shame of people's response. If you can see where you are headed to, then you will care less about the bad road. Rather than fear the humiliation, you should fear coming into this world and living for many years and not once did you actualize your dreams, that is the real failure. Imagine an award is to be given at the end of every life spent (which I believe would be so) what would your reason be for not grabbing one? Fear that someone would laugh at you, how absurd it is to be shy in the era of life, the fear that someone would fight you to it, seriously and its not a military regime., the fear of failure, but then you have officially failed and can't make amends. There's no logical reason to allow fear take over your life and judgement, there's a lot to offer and take from life, life on its own isn't smiling nor is it angry, so we shape it the way we want to see it, make a step today. Say No to fear. There are some occurrences we have permitted in our lives and they are only raising sadness and anger in our hearts, how long would it be allowed to continue, I feel its time to take full control over the happenings in your life, remember I always say, life doesn't give you what you desire, rather it gives you what you demand, its about time we start placing demands on what we want and how we want it to be, enough of handing over the control pad to someone or something else, control what gets to you, since you can't control what happens around you, you can very much be in control of what happens within you. Learn to say No to people and events you don't want. It's your life remember. To mention but a few, below are quite a number of things we must learn to say No to. *In a bad relationship say No, I won't continue. *In that regular pattern that steals your joy, say No, this has to stop. *In that habit or addiction that makes you a mockery to others say No, today it ends. *To that Person you love so much, but keeps hurting you say No I deserve better. *To a world of poverty and lack, say No I must be wealthy. *To that bully that makes you cry constantly, say No, One day must end everything, today is that day. Create the world you desire by making no fear be seen in your words. Thank you for reading, please don't forget to subscribe as more life transforming articles would be written regularly. Okay guys, thanks for reading through, hope you enjoyed it, please do not forget to like and subscribe, also your comments are very welcomed!🥰