If you don't have a plan, your life cannot go according to plan.
We should make a goal of our life and take steps towards our goal.
Too often we waste our time waiting for the ideal path to appear, but it never does, because we forget that paths are made by walking, not waiting.
And those who keep waiting for the way, they cannot achieve success or reach their destination, those who do not make their own way, wait for the way to come, those are the unsuccessful people who do not reach their destination.
And those of us who are successful are those who make our own way and set out to find our destination, and those of us who are successful are those who struggle to find our destination and move forward while making our own way.
Hopefully we all will take the path to reach the destination and not wait for the path because the victory belongs to the one who participates in the competition and works hard and never wins the one who participates in the competition. Keep waiting for the win.
If we plan our life we can succeed and if we live our life without a plan we cannot succeed and we even give up that we cannot do it. It is very difficult when We know that efforts solve problems.
The one who is defeated by the difficulties cannot do anything and the one who overcomes the difficulties is the most successful person in the world, he reaches his destination, so we should keep trying to become successful one day. Gone because the world is based on hopes.
All these are my own words These are all my own words and feelings and the most important thing is that I have experience, I have seen it happen and I have described these words that I have seen in my life. Thank you all for taking the time to read this.
You will definitely remember me in your special prayers and may Almighty Allah grant you all success and ease your lives and keep you all safe and sound, Amen.
Be happy and share happiness Be happy and share happiness. If someone is very happy because of you, then happiness is happiness in your life.
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Never give up without a fight.
The day I stopped writing (this would be almost 7 years ago) was with the deliberate intention of never putting a word to paper again.
Photo by Jeremy Perkins on Unlash I was tired of the stops and starts, mixed advice, "almost" projects, half-finished manuscripts, and my own sense of boredom. I felt there was never enough time to write. And the worst part is that I became convinced that writing was a frivolous waste of time.
Somehow I got the idea that I should spend every moment of my life building servers or learning about Cisco networking or studying for certification tests or, well , anything other than writing. Doing these tasks was more "real" than writing could be...
It was a difficult and quite negative moment for me. I've read enough other writers to know that many of us have been through even worse while building our careers. I mean, let's be honest, there are more reasons not to write than there are reasons to write.
Most "reasons" are excuses. Some are legit. A legitimate reason would be a job loss or a real family crisis. My experience tells me that anything else is doubt disguised as purpose.
I learned the hard way that if you're destined to write, the stress of avoiding or ignoring it will eat you alive.
How did I overcome this?
For years I ignored my feelings. I told myself all kinds of stories about how it didn't matter if I wrote or not. I thought no one expected me to produce anyway.
The great emptiness that invaded me sometimes MUST have another source, right? It certainly couldn't happen because I wasn't putting words to paper. It was too silly to think about it.
I think I mentioned before that depression is a problem for me. I assumed the void was just another fight with my old enemy. It took me a while to realize that not writing was eliminating one of my coping mechanisms.
The printed word (reading and writing) helped me defend myself. In a way, at least for me, writing is medicine. Each time I forget that I am suffering.
As I am stubborn, realizing the problem and then doing something about it was a real battle. The person I asked to be my mentor abandoned me. No one offered encouragement or even noticed. That meant that was my problem to solve.
I had to ask myself why I loved writing so much. I also had to overcome the internal argument that writing was a stupid waste of time.
Pro tip #1:
You can only ignore your feelings for so long. Eventually, your body will tire of the lies and do something mean to you to get your attention.
I won't go into what happened, but I trust and believe that my body's response caught my attention in a major way. It's time to pull myself together.
I made a deal with myself that went something like this: produce just one book this year, publish it, and get it into the hands of at least one reader. If I can do it, then I've proven that writing isn't a waste of time. I also promised that if I kept going around and not producing anything that year, I would give it up forever and do something else.
I am often scattered in my approach to solving my own problems. I tried to meditate on my own. I tried to write random bits and create a diary. I tried to join writing groups. I tried to get help from other writers I knew.
I didn't start getting traction until I found some stuff on YouTube that resonated.
Remember, I was looking for some kind of internal approval. My struggle was more than just the mechanics of creating stories and books. I needed to feel like it was "ok" for me to write!
Pro Tip #2:
All the pie-in-the-sky motivational BS on the planet means nothing if YOU don't believe in your own dream.
It took me a while, but I finally found videos that sink in and feel great. One of the first was a video with Les Brown, Eric Thomas, Will Smith and a few others. The other featured a speech by Sly Stallone.
Why these two?
If you think you are the most unlucky person.!!
Assalam u alaikum
There are many of us who say we are not lucky, we are the worst people in the world. We have never had happiness in our lives, we have always faced difficulties. And they have always complain with their lord & keep complaining or Allah why didn't you give me happiness in this world??
Of course, every human being wants his life to be full of happiness and he can live a quiet life. But it does not happen. Sometimes there are some accidents in life that silence a person. But this does not mean that. That we should give up hope.
or when we can't get something and we struggle a lot to get it. but even then we can't get that. so we get very frustrated and complain to God.
Which is totally wrong. Because I believe that what happens is for the good. Of course we wanted to get it. But even then we couldn't actually do that. So I must have thought of something better than that.
Never be discouraged and never feel bad about yourself. There are many people around us who can't even walk. And there are a lot of people who are sick and there are a lot of people who are tired of life. There are many people who get food in bed.
There are a lot of people who are spending the last moments of their lives lying on the bed. What if there are ups and downs in your life. Everything in the world is temporary. Never think of yourself as disappointed.
Every moment of life is beautiful. That is why you have always spent every moment of your life happily and always give thanks to your Lord.
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