The fox that plays the game;
Once upon a time, there lived a fox🐺 far far away from here🏞;
That clever Fox was not much talented:
But He knew how to make other fool and how to get their Advantage; Hunt was not a difficult job for him as His sweet sugar-coated words helped him to get close to the victim .....
He knew everyone living in that jungle no-one was unknown to him; He used others to convey his thoughts♞......He was behind every unusual happening......He was the master of the art to play others feelings🎭 ...
He showed He was sincere but internally He was not🗡; He preferred his matter and wanted everyone to do his work🗝🔓.....
One day He decided to become the king of the jungle👑......
He attracted Tigress 🐯 for this purpose. ...
To be continued as this story contains ethical lessons.
Mid age crises;
Many of the women at the age of 35_50 years are reported to have a female mid-age crisis...
◾But what is this?
Due to menopause ;
the departure of kids (as many of them become self-dependent and they to leave their homes)
loss of physical attire
aging
psychological stress
The physical disease (related to bones )
all these factors cause the mid-age crisis.
◾Result;
many females done suicide due to stress and anxiety.
Divorce rates increase during these circumstances.
and due to psychological pressure chances are there that one will suffer mental health problems.
◾Solution for mid-age crises..... To be continued
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◾The second image;
At first, I indicated the mismanagement of ladies who are not enough delight to fulfill their dream why because the rest of their family matters for them but now see the typical girl who can't fight with the system but at least trying to survive;
I have showcased the diligent ladies but some are still there who murder their dreams with their own hands. Without making effort or struggle they just surrender themselves. They are well aware of the outcomes of raising their voice so in the fear of opposition they don't struggle.
◾Conclusion;
In both cases, you will see the dreams are being murdered so who is responsible for this? Our society, norms traditions, or, we? Why do ladies have to confront the barrier after the marriage? Are the marriage papers contract that women will be bounded in the barriers of responsibilities?
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Achieved dreams but;
◾I knew a girl named Pakeeza she joined the Pakistan Airforce before her marriage but her family supporter her a lot. Now as the marriage time appeared each guy demanded for the lady who can give full time to family. It was the luck of Pakeeza that her husband supported her a lot but the problem she encountered was the less time for family and kids.
Each aspect can be compensated except compassion and love. At an instance, she felt that interest in flying the fighter plane was lost so she decided on for purpose to spend time with family.
I do favor these passionate girls but what if they don't decide about their future; jobs are not easy to be accessed. In the case of military or medical; the whole time, money, and effort are being invested in a single person and when they decide to left the job in the midpoint.
◾Don't you think such a lady will take the seat of another deserving person?
I strongly oppose this point. If you have decided to perform something, be patient, consistent, and courageous to encounter all the hardships which will oppose you.
Wait for the second part I will indicate the second image of this society.
Not the fire, not the liquid; neither I will ignite not will melt will flow but where am I?
I am neutral hehe random thoughts I guess can boost them if I gave plenty of time.
Taken this before during a born fire but seems like it's relatable to water lol.
What's your opinion?
Is it tough to formulate a cooking blog for me it's not difficult hehe because I do both works often lol?
The second day of eid was hectic as I existed there lol spent half of my day in studies and finally late-night bbq shish will be describing the scene in the next blog.
Don't crave if you want then I am sending all this family enjoy and don't fight it's being prepared in
enormous amount hehe.
No matter if there is loneliness if one is willing is exist he/she will surely have favorable outcomes.
My hands are tired and my mind is stuck in genetics so just found this image to indicate my presence hehe hopefully many will have a hectic routine but if laziness is haunting you get up and have green tea or lemonade.
If you found a description least do add your contribution in the comment section below.
Ambitious ladies carry their dreams but the scenario for some shuffles. Glancing the society, of my inhabitance I found many ladies who fortify all their dreams as they were unable to accomplish the responsibilities. Reason;
◽After marriage:
Ladies face pressure for showcasing the perfect side of their housewives. They have the responsibility to perform all the chores and after sweating day in the kitchen she has less time to think about who she was and what was her previous version. In South Asia, the working lady is not a common trend unless the one is compelled to perform it. Ambitious ladies are still here who haven't bow before society and cherished their dreams.
I have a true story of a young lady stay tuned
Sometimes editing gives you more pain than injection lol. Yes the person like me who is not habitual with computer language. I feel bad for this. So it took an hour to completely post this blog on the hive.
I wrote this last week while I was in the waiting room hehe I have become less social and the ladies around me were all married and they were sharing their gossip about daily routine it tortured me literally. So I kept myself busy in this way hehe I am much smart.
Why this editing took much time😁
I was preparing for exams and also enjoying the music, I know it's crazy but some topics of ecology give me boredom.
So the day was being spent in books, hahaha not exactly lol.
◽For paying gratitude I demonstrate my acknowledgment by saying thanks; I type long messages and acknowledge the fact that how valuable they are for me.
◽but rather than just saying thanks I use to call them and tell them how much I am grateful to them.
Apart from this in my practical love exchange of flowers and gifts. This is the best way to reflect your affection and the place of the special one. Although I have limited people for this purpose, all of them are loyal and credible. Jewelry stuff is presented and received by me. Hehe yes, I am a conservative person so there is no guy with whom I have presented gifts except my brothers.
◽For receiving gratitude;
As I described earlier all these are my favorite ways for this intention so the texts indicating love are touch my heart no matter how much bad mood I have they always make me smile.
But not in all the cases I want the gratitude to be indicated I just perform the activity for sake of goodness and if you are grateful no issue at all as I have done this for the will of Almighty.
◽But after all, I am a human being if you will present gifts to me especially chocolates I would be dancing. Hehehe
So these all are my favorite ways to show and receive gratitude hopefully you will find my writing special and interesting;
It appeared first on the hive
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Ways of paying gratitude ;
Before answering this question let me define why I have to be grateful to anyone;
First of all, I am grateful to Almighty for blessing me with this life and all these blessings including my life; my parents, and all the luxuries.
Showing gratitude;
◽How I pay gratitude to Lord;
I indicate my thankfulness by praying five times a day; I have the intention to perform such activity which will make Him pleased so in this way I believe He blesses me with more.
◽To my parents,
We all are blessed if we have parents with us; I don't know how I should show them my love and gratitude but I just do all the stuff which would make them happy to me when I am exhibiting my gratitude.
◽Next category;
Stay tuned for the next.....
Surprises from live ones are special; today I have discussed the birthday party I had in my recent blog. Afterward, I received best wishes but now I have opened my discord I was surprised to see the message from my Philippian sister Cherry Harryianne. After reading and learning about the best wishes and love she indicated I was out of joy.
On a serious note I never had such a sincere and true friend in my life who notices your absence; makes messages to know about your well-being. Do you experience such feelings hehe literally I was much enthusiastic to jump from the screen to hug her🥰❤
I don't have enough words to pay gratitude and feelings of delight but almost I was jumping? Hehe also she has uploaded a video for me wouldn't you believe this but this has happened;
Here is the link if you want to listen to her sweet and soft voice;
https://youtu.be/XvqSqWK620U
Smart and dumb;
◽In a previous post, I have described some philosophical thoughts but to simplify it here is a story; how to wilder dog took and advantage of an innocent soul.
There was a wilder-made best playmate with a monkey as the condition of the Wilder dog was a bit reluctant; got injured while an attack. Now puffing up to attain food through taking the benefit of monkey; doing gossip and chat about the environment of the jungle; monkey told him objectives of entering the city of Rio Di Janeiro; where they had the liberation of life just because of visitors.
No limitation of enjoyment in that city; wilder fog for the time sake acknowledged the aims of monkey; days went on and soon dog was ready to track down; they both planned to shift that city of Brazil; ravines between the broken bridges halted them; monkey decided to show altruistic behavior to lay down to assist as cord and the wilder dog will drag monkey after approving the bridge; but, unfortunately, the dog couldn't suppress his behavior of deceiving and didn't rescue the monkey instead made a laughing statement by saying you are much dumb than my thinking.
I took an advantage of your kind nature. He chose his way and went straight but the monkey was left there in loneliness and mercy of others; soon monkey will fall into the torment of death just because of the wilder dog's ridiculous nature.
Beware the wilder dog before they shouldn't take an advantage of your mercy and kind nature.
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The most wearisome work;
How often do you reply to the comments for me it becomes tiring when all are regarding my birthday; when I woke up the morning I haven't touched my phone yet my mum appeared and gave me the phone to attend calls of dad; grandmother and friend who all were vocalizing happy birthday in full tone hehe felt like they are with me
The party was big enough almost everything was special; passing the smiles Literally I am feeling pain in my jaws and the phrase thanks you hahaha I said it even my brother asked for water lol; afterward taken a nap and then I am here to type lengthy messages to pay gratitude to all those who have shared their delights on these delightful moments they all are special moral of the story is... Stay happy Hehehe as it's all about spreading love and sharing delights.
P.S I am thinking to make a whole blog about this party, mmm but you have to wait for it hehe.
Moving in the desert lonely and assuming that someone will magically appear there, will help out in finding the way across this loneliness and abandoned place; you are the mistaken dear;
compare this with your practical life:
◾firstly you are introverted and then someone makes entry there and you start becoming convinced that he/she will lead your way; will assist you in beating loneliness and will lead the way in the straight toward success this may none feasible to me;
what you have to achieve should be committed by yourself not by laying the gun on others shoulders; wait for the story I am going to narrate in the next part ;
Entering my life Moana firstly remade the setting of my room, who is Moana and why I am narrating this story, hehe I attempt to respond to the question being asked; which is;
What funny or cute pet story do you have,?
Let me show you how cute Moana looked like;
I know you will name her adorable but she is naughty too, I am a massive fan of jewelry and she remembers it very well; once I was getting prepared for attending a marriage function and I realized my golden bangles, not in the box; I was in hurry so left this matter; recently when I was straightening up her home I found something shiny I garbed it out and these were my missing bangles Oh my God Moana you steal it; meanwhile, I bestowed this to her to check her reaction to my surprise she wears it in her hands laughed to see this. How quickly she recalled my actions.
Now if my jewelry and make-up stuff are omitting I headed to her home for scanning them out. Interestingly I have bought some items for them as I comprehended she prefers them a lot. She studies with me and I found her chewing few pages and all of them were about the experiment performed on dogs including classical conditioning hehe seems like she doesn't like it. Also, I felt she wants to sleep too while I am studying haha
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Deed ^° the final part;
Feeling Pain to remember what was the voice and what affliction he had with it. Noting came into his mind. Day's went on, someone came daily to his room, kisses his hand, say thanks, and went away. Nomi was in pain he remembered nothing. Neither he had the energy to ask anything. A living carcass on the bed. But that day he starting sweeping loudly when the girl came into his room. Gathered energy to ask who are you and why serving this dead man?
A soft voice replied; the girl for whom you wasted your money 10 years ago in the library. I needed books urgently but can't afford them; after dealing with exams I sold them to buy a bicycle as I have to continue tutoring to earn money. I achieved everything because of my struggle but not without your help. I paid the first payment when you had a road accident but no able to pay gratitude as I thought maybe your family wants you more than me. But now I can't restrict myself to pay my thankfulness to you each day for giving me new life. Thanks, Baba she mumbled while kissing his hand. Nomi forgot everything but this second payment will remain memorable for him as it's long-lasting.
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Hobbies are more vital to relax one's soul; while my routine is giving me a tough time, art is bestowing to soften me; hehe it's random but yet I took 15 minutes to draw it. What's your view about this costume?
Mmm, maybe I should design it too.
The image of God;
Today I had adequate time while getting bore in the waiting room, surprisingly I glanced at the books I have and the most recent was the Fehi man Fehi by Sufi Saint Rumi; I read this phrase and went into shock at once!
Where we are finding God; in the holy places or some form but did you noticed even He can exist in the living being you are watching, He has the form of Love and where it exists God is there for sure; I remember one of Punjabi Sufi poet quoted;
Don't find Him here and there, look inside your soul He resides in your heart
A worth read book if you want to look beyond religion, spirituality,y, and love.
Once a deed;
Finishing his favorite novel the happy prince he left the library but later Nomi saw a girl arguing with a librarian. Blond hair seized in a bun her voice was not polite. He thought to interfere but then left as his work waited for him. The next day he encountered the same controversy to his surprise now the girl was weeping. He couldn't restrict himself to solve the issue. Girl expected to purchase few books but wasn't able to pay the money. Nomi moved forward and paid the money. Leaving the library he neither looked back.
◾After 10 years;
White hairs and wrinkles made him older than his age. Expected a happy family but everyone lifts him as Alzheimer's attacked. From discharge to shifting to the new home he knew nothing will the voice gave him some clue.
Who was performing all these works for him to stay connected?
P.S I am formulating stories these days will be back to my previous routine of random thoughts.
Fireworks "the final part"
You are leaving your studies incomplete why you are crushing your dreams. Zaid Stop she yelled don't take that fraud name again. He is responsible for all this. I condemn the moment when he prevailed. Sara was in tears.
Fireworks happened, Sara looked in the sky and asked God why she had such miseries. In this moment of delights just before he was going to become the wife fiha uttered a word and Sara yelled Stop this marriage. The guest looked awkwardly at her yelling behavior.
She took away all the accessories she wore; moved to her Dad and asked do you know Zaid. His father expression changed rapidly. He was avoiding this name and person from the previous 23 years. Now his daughter asked it. After hesitation, he confessed yes I had a son, whom I didn't give the name of mine as it was the outcome of my mistake. The well famous personality was committing his sin in front of the whole world.
Fireworks stopped: the reason be sue of which Sara left Zaid was the fault of her father. A misunderstanding took the life of two.
P.S; some things are being restricted by each religion and such mistakes if have been done may give you guilt forever. Whom Sara was in love with was her.....
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Fireworks ❇️
Before starting this read the first part here;
https://noise.cash/post/1k7w26np
◾Days later;
She found zaid a much interesting guy; loyal; honest and passionate just like his external beauty. Their meetings extended and this time she was getting ready for dinner. Dressed up in black with white earnings and a ponytail she was ready to take the stage fire. Just before leaving the hostel, she informed Fiha that she is going outside, don't inform the family as she didn't want the mess. In lift she met a lady named Kainat, she uttered few words which made Sara furious.
Before she would leave the restaurant Zaid confessed her love to Neil down on the ground. She stood up and slapped his face so hard, everyone looked at these love birds. Nothing more happened, Sarah didn't respond to even single text or call. Fiha came to discuss her matter but she refused to hear it.
Her mom took her back into the world; she met the guest who came for the marriage proposal. She didn't want to see the guy as her trust was no more on this gender. After a while, Fiha came and appealed to Sara to stop don't ruin her life.
While she accepts his advice or not?
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Curling her messy hair and setting them into a ponytail; she stood to visit the guest. But what about the curls she had in her life, will she be able to love all the miseries. Sara with red swallowed eyes looked into the mirror, I am not Sara; I killed her two years ago. Tears slipped from my eyes. Who was responsible for making this delicate Sara depressed and frustrated.
◾Two years back;
For a moment her heartbeat stopped. The famous presenter of the university was in front of her. She was viewing his lips mumbling some words but what were they Sara was unable to understand. Focusing on his face cut and well-settled hair her eyes moved down oh my gosh he is fabulous. At this moment he was gone. All universe came into the previous position and she heard friends gossiping Sara you are lucky as Zaid wanted your notes for the seminar. What so came for this purpose she confessed.
While the romance will continue??
Wait for the next part;
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Showing gratitude;
Staying grateful is a significant thing; but how would like to illustrate and receive this gratitude;
I make lengthy texts and phone calls hehe my mom gives a statement ok now Ayesha will quit the phone only if the battery will be dead lol does phone calls makes you crazy?
Exchange of gifts especially chocolates and jewelry and yes I receive flowers too.
How you will answer this question? #RandomThoughts
Value the tenderness;
No one stays forever but the loyal and authentic person will make you realize at each step of your life that yes you are significant and unique. In today's world, the biggest aid that you can bestow to someone is words and time.
A moment spent from the busy life schedule asking for the wellness of a loved one is actual love, for if I encounter this situation I pay my gratitude to Almighty for blessing me with such people who care a lot for me. How often you encounter such moments? #RandomThoughts
Reasons for a smile;
Glancing at something or someone special will stretch your facial muscles for sure and the outcome you will obtain is a brilliant smile 😁 but how occasionally this transpires you should acknowledge the fact that more lively you will be if you expend more time in making yourself and making others smile. Please no laughter hehe
If you are smiling without any reason your family will glance at your phone for sure hehe;
In my case my mom watches me smiling brings in the suspected version and then oh please I let out her the reason and we both laugh together.
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https://unsplash.com/photos/1AhGNGKuhR0 #RandomThoughts
When the photographer is busy in the kitchen lol; if you want to get relaxation( please no more music as my ears are hurting now) just move to the kitchen and if you have an aggression issue what do you think chopping the vegetables will assist you hahaha.
In the downpour of thoughts;
Paralyzed to think further
Intention dare apparent
Motivations are isolated
Neither the past nor future bothers me
Instead, the existing duration is persecuting me
◾ just random poetry which hit my mind you can also contribute. #RandomThoughts
The dancing girl^° Final part;
She wasn't born a dancer by birth. Who altered her lifestyle? If she can't afford the dreams is this is the only way left? Why such places were created; none of the people inhabiting there has the will and choice to live there. Society and the environment pull them to this hideous place. But why the people enter there? Do they support the thoughts that women are just for entertainment? Why people infer her profession? Will the Lord accept such sinners' forgiveness? Along with all these questions she just did what looked better to her; as no one was there to give her answers she hangs herself with the fan as her wings were being slashed.
◾Conclusion;
We are the one who makes such society; our wrong judgments about the profession and religion are so terrible. If one is born in a religious home doesn't mean that he/she has the stamp of piousness. Just remember women are not entertainment,
This is the true story and the names have been changed, there are more other stories like that that are not being published as the people don't have the tolerance to hear them, I don't mean to harm the feelings of sectors who are not functioning well to give the equal rights to everyone but it's fact that each masked face the unusual reality.
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Story of dancing girls;
Not everyone is exact which we perceive, realities are several and sometimes brutal too. Watching the dancing girl may deliver the thought that they have embraced this field according to their will. But I guess the tale of Zaib will rewrite your viewpoints. She was ambitious, to fly high as she was inspired by one of the female pilots but her pursuits were crushed after the death of her mother.
His father was not competent to afford the young girl in his home so he traded it where he often pays his time; the environment she encountered aghast her; her mother doesn't authorize her to talk to colleagues and where she is now; receiving the money for her servings on the hight time. She murdered all her dreams of her; her spirit has not belonged to her.
Now she was the Zaib "the dancer ". She lost interest in everything; she listened to the ladies mumbling her faulty; making gossip about her life. She was not having relaxation; she headed toward the religious places and she heard the statements" see the dancer Zaib is here: the whole night she spends with other man and at day time came here to reflect the world her pious side. This shattered her heart: who was she, the lady who auctioned her body and dignity to others just for sake of money; but who made her this??
To be continued.
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