@Ayaan258 17 August 2021 more from that month

Signs: your parents are making you depressed...

Greetings How's everything my dear readers? I hope you all are fine and also had a good day. Those whose parents are alive obviously lucky. Having parents is God's mercy on us. Alhumdulillah I'm one of them. But there are some people who suffer from depression because of their parents. Yes you heard right, some parents cause depression for their children. Let me make it clear that I'm not saying all the parents are wrong. All parents are good but some parents make their children successful by their behaviour and some go depressed. Yes, some Children are afraid of their parents because of their behaviour. In this case, they prefer to spend their time alone instead to spend a time with parents. Here I discuss some facts... **They hold you back from your dreams:** At an early age, the parents told their child that you will become a doctor, an engineer, a pilot. They impose these things on them from the beginning. "Have parents asked children what you want to be?" Here I will take my example. When I was in matriculation, my father used to tell me that you have become a doctor. But my interest in art work. I was interested in drawing. I wanted to be an architect.

But... I knew I couldn't be a doctor coz I'm nill In science. My dream of becoming an architect did not come true. I'm not a doctor also. Today I'm a botanist, in which I was not interested at all. Parents should support their children in what they are interested in.. If a parents let their children become what they want them to be, I'm sure they will grow up and make a name in some field. **They put a lot of pressure in you:** If a child gets good marks in the test. Instead of appreciating. He is scolded for saying that other child got more marks than you. And said: Why didn't you get the whole marks. Seeing all this, the child who came from school happily becomes depressed. The child who want to heard some appreciating words from their parents has totally broken. His interest in study was low day by day. Coz he needs some appreciating words from parents. He is not able to give his study time as before. Because he's know that no matter how many numbers he scores, he will be scolded. It happens not only with children, but also with adults. **Bad environment depressed you:** Sometimes, the home environment has a great impact on children. If the home environment good, it will have a positive effect on child. But when the home environment is bad then it will have a bad effect on child. Sometimes parents are fighting with each other. And the environment of home is too much disturbed. In a house where there are daily fights,a person starts suffocating. And the biggest impact is on children. Seeing the home environment like this every day, the child stays in tension all day long. When he goes to someone's house and see's a good atmosphere,.instead of being happy,he's sad and he has many question in his mind. "Why isn't there such an atmosphere in my house?" "Their parents do not fight then why do my parents fight?" " If his mother does not scold him,. then why does my mother scold me?" At that thought of this, the child becomes inferior and depressed. Seeing all this will give the child a headache.

Closing thoughts: Just as people are irritated by the behaviour of others, some people are negatively affected by their parents. Children needs love of their parents. I have Observed these things and that is why I have written them. Children should be taught with love. If they do not understand with love, they must be reprimanded. Children understand the language of love quickly. Children are most affected by environment. Try never to fight in front of children. Provide them with a loving environment. We live in such era, if we don't pay attention to our children, they will turn to wrong activities. When they sitting together, they feel tired. They will start insulting their parents. So, give you children time and engage in various activities with them.