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7 Rules of Life
Just a while ago, I went to the beach and breathe some fresh air like I always did. The thick layers of dark clouds occupy the sky which seemed to indicate that a heavy downpour is looming. as I gazed upon the horizon I saw a fascinating flash of a lightning in the middle of the ocean. A thought suddenly awakens my lame imagination, "*If I were hit by those dangerous lightnings am I going to be a superhero like Thor?"*. Nah! I'm dead for sure lol. *My point is, "****Life is not a Fantasy****" because not everyone has happy endings. We cannot just imagine things and expect it to happen.*
Nevertheless, I encourage you to ponder and reflect these so-called seven rules of life so that we could guarantee a meaningful life that is worth living. 1. LET IT GO *Our past issues can weigh heavily on our shoulders and somehow holding us back to move forward. If we keep on refusing to let go of the past, it surely prevents us from living in the moment. If you manage to bury all those struggles and start accepting things as they are instead of how you'd like them to be, you'll definitely find true joy and you'll suffer less from the stress, emotional ties to the past or future, frustration and disappointments with others, loss, and succumbing to fear. Letting go the bad yesterdays will break all the chains of pain and sufferings. Be free and start new beginnings.* 2. IGNORE THEM *Ignore those people who try to manipulate, judge, and discourage you. You are the master of your fate. Live your life and get rid of all the negative people and things that causes you to stumble*. *Pursue your dreams even if others contradicts to it, as long as it will not ruin you as a person and you find true happiness and satisfaction from it, just keep on living that desires because you don't need other's approval to succeed in life.* 3. GIVE IT TIME *Everything has it's own watch. Dont rush things. If you are deeply hurt, don't pretend that you're already healed and recovered from it, so please stop deceiving yourself for the reason than time heals everything. In short, give yourself time to heal, don't ever tell ourselves to hurry up and heal faster because we don't have the power and authority to control the time we are just mere humans living in this world where the word "change" is the only constant.* 4. DONT COMPARE *We are all wonderfully and fearfully made by God, therefore we are created equally but uniquely special. We can't deny the fact that sometimes we try to criticize and belittle others just to make ourselves look or feel better to feed our pride*. *If you always want what others have, you will never get satisfied and the feeling of emptiness will always haunt you. You may have everything yet it will never lead you to happiness and contentment.* “To love is to stop comparing.” – Bernard Grasset 5. STAY CALM *We all get weary and upset from time to time. It’s a normal part of life, right? But what happens when that anger and anxiety takes over, and you'll become emotionally unstable? One thing that could mend it is to stay calm at all times. Take a deep breath and meditate, think before you react, and slowly release all those negative emotions. See? It may sound difficult to apply but just give it a try and you'll see.* 6. IT'S ON YOU *Happiness is a choice, so take control of it. This is perhaps the most significant realisation that you need to ponder in order to achieve true joy in life. If you are relying on others, to be happy then you will likely never achieve it. We have a choice so always choose to be happy.* 7. SMILE *Wear a smile because life is too short to frown. Smiling could be our best way to fight and overcome every uncertainties we used to face everyday in our lives and it is out greatest weapon to crush every fear and worries that comes along the way. Lastly, a person who always smile is more likely to have a long life.* There you have it! Don't forget these 7 rules of life, because through these we can have a life filled with success and satisfaction. Life is full of challenges and surprises so brace yourself and be ready for the possibilities, of course don't forget to acknowledge that without God we can do nothing. God bless everyone, and thanks for dropping by!❣️ Thank you dear sponsors!❣️ Images are taken from facebook.com
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I try to forget everything and smile. However, my smile is like fuck the world.
Hahaha that was ridiculous bro😅, just keep smiling and everything will be fine.
Each & every point is valuable and worthy. Just wipe out your tears. If you want to survive in life & deal with problems, if have to follow these. Well said dear.
Thank you so much Bro🥰, you got it all right! These 7 rules should be our greatest weapon to survive in life.
Yes, love this.. If I only have 5$ im going to tip this
Thank you lance panghatag be
I always like to smile. I don't compare myself to others either, except when I do it in a healthy way, to improve myself. And above all, I always try to stay away from defeatist people who only think negatively.
That great to know friend🥰, I am pretty sure that you will have a victorious life if you keep on practicing that❣️
The 7 Rules is a really a great help langga in facing our lives. Yes let it go, you need it and accept. It's something like a freedom to your mind. Ignore those things that can ruin you. Let it flow with positivity. Stay calm. Don't stress yourself. Just relax and go with the flow to have a healthy mind. Smile always it brings out a positivity in life.
Absolutely, ate ganda hindi lang pera ang makakabigay satin ng successful and meaningful na life, the 7 rules will make us overcome and survive every trials sa buhay natin🥰
Beautiful article... Where I like most is, Smiling could be our best way to fight and overcome every uncertainties we used to face everyday in our lives and it is out greatest weapon to crush every fear and worries that comes along the way. Up you👍 keep it up for your writing friend.
Thank you so much for appreciating 🥰, yeah that's keep smiling❣️
I don't compare myself with others and I don't listen to what people have to say about my life, I ignore them every time because they can drain one's energy to move forward.
Absolutely, Gaft🥰 just continue what you are doing i am pretty sure that you'll succeed in life.
Amen ooo, thank you dear❤
Ganito naman talaga dapat ang gagawin ee. Pero minsan di rin talaga maiwasang nag compare tapos later maiinsecure. Parang loka, yong gusto mong mag let go pero ang hirap din kasi di pala ganoon kadali. Welk I can smile about everything pero minsan just to calm yourself kailangan mong mag pretend na okay ka kahit masakit na talaga. Aigooi, I wish madali lang amg lahat. Pero kaya pa namaj. Lavarn lang 😁💪
Haha the feeling is mutual ate ruff kahit anong gawin natin ang hirap talaga gawin laht ng rules pero kahit isa man lang sa 7 na iyan nagagawa natin hehe great pretender karin pala ate ruff minsan talaga kunh sino yung laging tawa ng tawa yun yung sobrang lungkot😌
Tama tama, kahit isa lang hanggang sa maging dalawa at magtuloy tuloy pa. Talent na natin yang pagiging great pretender natin haha
Grabe kang Need Kaayo nako ni karun, thank you for the reminders. Self Discipline mao juy pinaka importante
You re welcome as always jie🥰
Well said. Grabe ka power sa mga words, sakto sab kaayu sakong sitwasyun.
Thank you Cocs haha i'm glad you like it🥰
Hawdes kaayo maginenglish ba maulaw man sad ta ani haha