@Arif.12 2 September 2020 more from that month

Siblings Relationship

Brother-Sister relationship is the best relationship in this world. My close sister told about her brother and their relationship. I just share it.

Brother-sister relationship according to me is the most unconditional and attached relationship. We all know that the opposite genders get along well as “opposites attract”. Imagine having an opposite gender sibling, who’ll be your best friend and family throughout your life. You are really blessed. I’m blessed and lucky to have an elder brother in my life. He is responsible for my passion for sports and detective shows. My brother taught me how to hold a bat and how to bowl in cricket. My brother introduced me to some of the best shows like Castle and prison break which I wouldn’t have watched at any cost if it weren’t for him . I always considered myself the silent, shy person who wouldn’t step out of her bedroom without her barbie dolls, but my brother showed me a whole new "Me" by pulling me outside. From cycling till i fell, from climbing trees till i got scratched, from running till I got tired, every credit goes to him . Tyre swinging, gun shooting, WWF video games, Pokemon challenges, swimming in a bucket, everything was fun and joyful memories, only because of him .

Not only did he introduce me to wonderful things for playtime, but he was also great at teaching me. He was my first math tutor, and made numbers more tolerable when I was a child. He guided me through school and my education throughout, and also counselled me with some of the most important decisions I ever made in my life. He was always there by my side to make me laugh, to advice me in difficult situations, and to always push me ahead in life.

Times like these I’m grateful for, but let me not miss out on the times he irritated me. We used to and we still fight like cats and dogs even today. We still annoy and argue about everything, as we are both stubborn and opinionated about everything in our lives. He complains about all the silly things I do to my parents, and I’m pretty sure I’ve been over 1000 times in trouble with my parents only because of him. Sometimes we would team up together and be the best of friends, and sometimes we would be in a battlefield, starting a war with each other. I used to be so furious and frustrated with his behaviour, but now when I think of it, it makes me laugh and those are the memories I cherish the most. Right now, my brother is in the US and I’m currently in India. Although distance has separated us, we are not really separated. We always pick on each other over face-time calls and Skype. We always support each other during tough situations or family problems. We are always there for each other no matter what. Every single time he comes back to India for his vacation, times spent with him become more important and special, he also spoils me by bringing the best gifts and has always reached beyond my expectation levels. He spent his first salary buying me a phone that I loved and wanted badly, and he always fulfills every wish that I have. I feel so blessed and grateful to have an elder brother in my life.He’s my constant friend and supporter since day ONE of my life and has seen me grown in different phases, and accepted every phase of mine (even during the depressing and lost phase). I don’t think I would’ve learned, or discovered my interests and passions at such an early age if he didn’t exist. Being older, he finished his education or learned an activity before me so I got that support to follow behind him. Being a brother, he was able to advice me about what boys think or how they are, which made me bond with my male friends better. Showing care, affection and protection towards me instilled a sense of empathy in me. He makes family vacations and bonding so much fun. He makes me feel proud and happy with my achievements. In short, he is one of the greatest gifts I received from God, along with my parents.