8 Bad spirit that delays guys from getting married
Marriage is a wonder and most fruitful thing when you're young because it's not just that, marrying young, you both have the opportunity to share their young age and old age and share their stories with one another. Getting married is one of the most exciting for any couple. However, certain spirits are.
1.FEAR OF COMMITMENT :
This is one reason some guys are afraid to get married. They think this way, "how can I give one woman all my love and affection for the rest of my life?" "I can't eat just egusi soup for the rest of my life." "Variety is the spice of life." Some say, "I can't imagine waking up every morning next to the same woman in bed." Let me have some more loving life alone. But a few guys instantly became "Manchelors." People are now confused about whether you should be in the fellowship of churchmen or the fellowship of youth.
2. I'M THE FIRST BORN IN THE FAMILY:
The status of becoming a family firstborn obviously comes with obligations, no doubt. Some guys believe they must be the family's Lord and Savior by fixing all of their family problems. My brother, you can't fix every problem with your dad. When you fix one, there's already another one in the queue waiting for you.
3. FREE SERVICES/MINISTRATIONS:
Some guys don't think about getting married as they're already enjoying the marriage benefits. They say "Why should I get married now when I have a friend of mine who offers me s3x free? She 's coming to my house to cook for me and she's doing all my laundry work." "Why should I buy all of Cow if I get steady supply of cow's milk?" I blame the lady who offers such free ministries in an effort to prove 1000 yards of wife material. May that milk not purge you, my brother, like you drink it.
4. BEING OVERLY SELECTIVE:
No Lady is ever good enough for some guys. She is not educated enough. She speaks scattered English. She has tribal marks. She has k-legs. I want a lady that has pointed nose, flat stomach, long legs, massive waist, and golden eyes like that of a bird. She has an OND, I'm a masters degree holder, she's not my class. Bro, hope you know you are not some other person's class too? She must be a working class lady when you are jobless.. "OLE"..you are not working, yet you want a working class lady that will be footing your bills. she will foot you down my brother.
5. MUMMY'S CHOICE:
Some guys are not yet married or find it difficult to get married because they want to meet the specifications of their mother. If his mother doesn't approve of the lady, he calls it a quit with the lady. Such guys have moms that insist they must marry from their village. The girl must be from the same tribe with you. We were born into Assemblies of God Church, and the lady must come from Assemblies of God, so we remain assembled. Well done, brother. It's your scattered mind you need to assemble, my brother.
6. I MUST BE A MILLONAIRE FIRST:
It's not by your power and strength that you become a millionaire, it's by God's favor. If you have waited for the money for long and it's not coming, will you keep waiting? Not everyone is destined to be a millionaire as a bachelor. Some become millionaires after they got married. So choose your choose, my brother.
7. THE LADY'S MAN:
You are feeling young and fresh because of your good looks. You feel you are doing any lady that comes your way a favor by dating them. They are the ones chasing you, and your shoulders that have puffed up 50 50 shoulder pads are almost exploding with pride. All of a sudden, you wake up one morning to realise you are 40 years old and still sagging trousers feeling young. Bro, you need to have a meeting with yourself and by yourself. You will not always be a bobo forever.
8. LORD OF THE RINGS:
This spirit tells you to engage ladies with rings here and there, and they hold on to the rings for 10-15 years, yet no marriage. You even know the family of the lady, but you know in your heart of heart that You are not ready, yet you scare away other suitors from her. You make the ladies feel you have made a commitment through the rings, alas those rings are nothing short of key holders and handcuffs.
You are that spirit husband people are talking about..
Stop giving people's daughters handcuffs and key holders in the name of engagement rings.
We loose every chain holding marriages from taking place at the right time in Jesus name.
May you recognize true love when you see it in Jesus Name
Inspiration of the day - Everything happens for a reason
ANYTHING THAT ANNOYS YOU
is teaching you patience and calmness.
Anyone that abandons you is teaching you how to stand up on your own feet.
Anything that offends you is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.
Anything that has power over you is teaching you to get greater power from the source of all powers.
Anything that you hate is teaching you unconditional love.
Anything that you fear is teaching you courage to overcome your fears.
Anything you can't control is teaching you to let go.
Any NO you get from human is teaching you to be independent.
Any problem you have is teaching you how to get solution to problems.
Any attack you get is teaching you the best form of defence.
Anyone who looks down on you is teaching you to look up to GOD.
Always look out for the lesson in every situation you face in every phase of life
Forex or Day Trading - A better Option
Online trading is great way for serious investors to make money, but inexperienced traders often wind up with big losses. A good set of instructions can minimize the risks and save months of expensive trial-and-error learning.
Day Trading
Day Trading had its heyday during the bull market of the 1990’s. All the amateurs have since dropped out, but day trading is still being practiced by professionals. There are fewer opportunities in the current market, but skilled investors can still find them if they know what to look for.
FOREX Trading
The Foreign Exchange Market (FOREX), the world’s largest financial exchange market, originated in 1973. It has a daily turnover of currency worth more than $1.2 trillion dollars.
Unlike many other securities, FOREX does not trade on a fixed exchange rate; instead, currencies are traded primarily between central banks, commercial banks, various non-banking international corporations, hedge funds, personal investors and not to forget, speculators. Previously, smaller investors were excluded from FOREX due to the huge amount of deposit involved. This was changed in 1995, and now smaller investors can trade alongside the multi-nationals. As a result, the number of traders within the FOREX market has grown rapidly, and many FOREX courses are appearing to help individual traders increase their skills.
As a matter of fact, it’s advisable to take FOREX training even before opening a trading account.
It is vital to know the market mechanics of FOREX, leveraging in FOREX, rollovers and the analysis of the FOREX market. Due to this fact, potential FOREX traders would do well to either enroll in a FOREX training courses or even purchase some books regarding FOREX trading.
There are pros and cons to enrolling into a FOREX course. For beginners a FOREX course is a rapid method of learning the basics of FOREX trading. Not much time is spent on history of the market or arcane economic theories. Often, on-line or phone support from a skilled FOREX trader is available to answer any questions. Also, the information is condensed and practical, often with graphs and charts.
The disadvantage is the price, as courses are more expensive than a paperback from the bookstore. Also,
the course may just teach the approach of the trader who wrote it, and individuals have different trading strategies. The student may grow accustomed to the logic and focus of the teacher without coming to realise that nothing is predictable in the FOREX market, and many different strategies will bring profits in varying market circumstances. Also, knowledge of practical applications may not be enough, as the FOREX is highly unpredictable and there are many external factors, such as political issues, affecting the flow of finances in the market.
The best advice would be to do some background research on the FOREX market first, and then enroll in a course.
How to treat panic attacks
Before I get into the treatment of panic attacks, we’ll go over some of the basics as to what causes panic attacks to occur. Excessive anxiety is on of the main reasons why panic attacks occur, in fact, all a panic attack is a sudden spike of fear/anxiety that comes unexpectedly and without any obvious reason. If you are reading this article, however, you probably are well acquainted with panic attacks, and probably know more than you want to about them.
There is no need to worry if you suffer from anxiety, or panic attacks. Nearly 1/3 of American adults have at least one panic attack, but don’t develop repeated attacks. Surprisingly, with all the talk about OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), bipolar disorder, PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), etc, panic attacks actually surpass those in terms of emotional disorders.
If you think you suffer from panic attacks, but are unsure, listed below are the most common symptoms of panic attacks:
– difficulty breathing/shortness of breath
– very fast-paced heartbeat
– excessive nervousness, shakiness, or stress
– paralytic terror every once in a while
– choking or chest pains
– dizziness, nausea, or feeling light-headed
– sudden chills and/or hot flashes
– excessive anxiety or fear
– “pins and needles” on your fingers and toes
If you suffer from a significant amount of those symptoms, there’s a good chance that you suffer from panic attacks. There are many ways to find information on how to treat anxiety attacks, unfortunately, there is no one set way to teach so I won’t be able to go over all of them in this article. You can contact local agencies to get you the help and/or the prescriptions you need to get over this problem. Don’t fret, however, it is a curable disorder and shouldn’t be left alone.
Do an internet search on some of the following agencies: American Counseling Association, American Psychiatric Association, American Psychological Association, Anxiety Disorders Association of America, Association for Advancement of Behavior Therapy, Freedom From Fear, NAMI, National Anxiety Foundation… the list goes on. After finding websites to some of those different organizations, you can either call or usually write an Email and they will get back to you with some questions on your panic attack “level” and tell you the best possible way to treat your panic attacks.
Panic attacks can alter our moods, our perception, and ruin some of the many moments in life that we would otherwise find breathtaking. Nobody should have to deal with panic attacks when there is help available
21 Advice to men on relationship
1. Don’t dress shabby, even if you don’t have expensive clothes, dress well. Always look presentable.
2. Don’t be extremely possessive: don’t monitor
a lady (checking her phone messages, calls, her where abouts),you are putting yourself under unnecessary pressure, you’ll die young. Don’t stress and die for a lady you have not yet married.
3. Only give 100% of yourself to God, not a lady you have not married because he won’t Break your heart.
4. work on friendship first, when friendship is sorted she will eventually see no other friendship that is relevant.
5. Appreciate a lady’s effort to please you. (e.g. She buys a tie; don’t say I don’t wear ties or I don’t like the color)
6. Hygiene is vital: shave your beards, don’t be like a terrorist from Afghanistan. Even Joseph when he came out of prison he shaved before going before Pharoah. Smell well.
7. don’t date a girl because of her image and status: most girls from rich families can’t cook and are most likely not to appreciate your efforts to please them, they are hard to impress (e.g. you surprise her with a car, she be like where is the surprise?). But someone from a humble family will appreciate gifts.
8. Don’t be moved by physical appearance: true beauty is her character. A foolish lady thinks everything about herself is her body.
9. Develop yourself: continue being educated…etc.
10. Never rebuke a lady in public, in public she won’t see a rebuke but an embarrassment : call her to a corner or private place and tell her(“what you doing is embarrassing me”). Because women don’t think with their brain but with their emotions; use the right words.
11. Prove a lady’s character before committing, don’t hurry to commit or talk about marriage. Make sure she really has a good character, if she got something you can’t cope with, don’t hope, leave today.
12. Don’t marry a lady for cooking or sex: nothing brings dignity like moral sanity.
13. Have a goal for your life, no one plans to fail, they fail because they are not prepared.
14. Don’t price love with money/materials. You can’t buy it.
15. Don’t abuse her.
16. Don’t look for a perfect girl, none is perfect: the person you are admiring, you don’t know their baggage or rather their garbage.
17. A real man: talks less, is an investor, is firm, has a mind of his own, he loves God, sets for excellence, respects parents. When you are firm you are not pushed around.
18. Before meeting parents make sure you are grounded in prayer.
19. the worst kind of pride is spiritual pride, a lady even tells you on your face she is spiritually matured more than you. She will never listen to you.
20. Its only when you can’t correct things that you leave the relationship: but try to fix things first. If a year passes and no change at all, not even small change stop hoping, leave!
21. make sure you know her family: any lady you don’t know her family members you don’t know her (if she don’t want you to meet any of them, something is wrong, she is hiding something).
How new beginners can make profit from crypto-currency
If you are recent in the Bitcoin world, you may have been quite confused by the methods and Terminologies associated with crypto-currencies.
If you have traded, want to trade Bitcoin or want to buy Bitcoin, DO NOT make another trade until you read this!
I will show you the safe ways to trade and give you some great lessons on how to do it safely.
*WHAT IS BITCOIN?*
Basically cryptographic currencies are digital forms of money, which means that they
are scarce, valuable and transferable (primary characteristics of money) as well
as effective but with distinctive property that they are easy to transfer and are not controlled by any body.
*METHODS TO EARN/GROW PROFITS*
Each of these investment options requires that you at least own a Bitcoin wallet and already bought some Bitcoin in your wallet.
Services from where you can buy Bitcoin are:
https://neutcoin.com blockchain.com,Luno.com, remitano.com, localbitcoins.com and coinbase.com
*(1). INVESTING (BUYING & HOLDING) – AKA “HODL”:*
This one is actually pretty easy to understand and about as straightforward as it gets (though it can be really stressful and quite hard to force yourself to do at
times — an internal battle ensues).
You buy bitcoin and hold it for an undetermined amount of time while waiting for the price to go up until you are ready to sell at a profit.
This is a very passive way to make money from bitcoins.
The obvious risk here is that the price tanks and never recovers, thus leaving you with a loss. The upside here is that the price continues to climb and you end up selling for a huge profit at some point in the future.
Now, you never know what is going to happen, so there’s always a risk with investing in anything.
Buy and hold can be a great strategy for making money long term with Bitcoin
(assuming the price continues primarily rising over time).
However, a big issue with buying and holding is that, even though you are technically earning money, you can’t spend it. As soon as you cash out, you no longer own it, so you have to buy more at a higher price if you want to continue investing. But that won’t really matter if you have already made a huge profit and are content with the amount.
The simplest way for you to buy bitcoin right now — and the way most beginners
get started investing — is through coinbase.com or luno.com . Another popular option is LocalBitcoins where you can buy and sell bitcoins near you and often times get them at a better price than you can elsewhere.
*(2). INVEST INTO ALT COINS/INITIAL COIN OFFERINGS(ICO’s):*
Another great way to make money trading bitcoins is to buy altcoins or invest into ICO’s that seem to have a promising future. Then, once the coin takes off (assuming it does) you sell them for Bitcoin at a profit.
This can actually be a great strategy on how to make money with cryptocurrency in general. However, once again, I do caution this if you don’t have much experience in digital currency overall, or at least have a good mentor to get advice from on which coins to buy, and even then it’s risky.
*(3). NEUTCOIN STATELESS WALLET:*
https://neutcoin.com
Neutcoin is a crypto wallet just like blockchain, luno, coinbase etc. But in this case, it is Stateless, meaning that it can hold many different types of crypto-currencies at the same form and at the same point in time, including bitcoins, Ethereum, litecoin etc.
Stateless wallets are different from static wallets because they are able to swap your cryptos to the most progressive form at every point in time.
Your cryptos can only appreciate and can not depreciate because all the crypto-currencies do not depreciate or appreciate at the same rates.
A fall in one triggers a rise in another.
Hence by interswapping them correctly you can key into this volatility to make profits off them.
"Mathematically, let's say Bitcoin worth =$7000 and Ethereum worth=$200. If you have 1btc in possession, swapping it for Ethereum will give=(7000/200)=35ETH. now 35ETH will still be worth $(35*200)=$7000 so nothing is lost nor gained. Now let's say ethereum actually increases in worth such that 1ETH now worths $250 while bitcoin did not increase in worth or may have even depreciated at that particular instant or even appreciated at a lesser rate, then that means your 35ETH you got by swapping 1btc for 35eth now worths=$(35*250)=$8750. That means you have converted your earlier $7000 to $8750 by intelligently swapping the right currency for the right currency at the right time."
Of course these instances are simplistic.
However, Neutcoin does much more than that. Neutcoin automates this process by auto-swapping these currencies accurately with up to date and precise market statistics.
The idea is to store most of your bitcoins in a Stateless Wallet so that they are constantly inter-swapped hence appreciate in value;
Stateless Wallets are used just like regular bitcoin wallets and can be used to receive and send bitcoins.
In practice you make profits in the range of 9% to 15% weekly and 1% to 2% daily depending on the market conditions. But it will always be profit.
The downside to Neutcoin is that they don't offer direct purchase of cryptos with cash so it's users tend to buying from other popular exchanges such as luno.com, remitano.com, paxful.com, coinbase.com etc and then transferring to their Neutcoin wallet.
GET STARTED WITH NEUTCOIN
https://neutcoin.com
Get 200% of your investment in 10days on 200Tron
200TRON is a fully decentralized investment platform built on a smart contract in the TRON network. The smart contract is open and verifiable, it can’t be corrupted or tampered with. Blockchain technology ensures 100% fairness and transparency of the fund. 200TRON is the smartest, simplest way to multiply your assets in just a few days.
To start investing users must be logged in to a crypto wallet that supports Tron (TRX). The most popular Tron wallets that have the most users are TronLink, TronWallet. You must fund your wallet with TRX coin and then invest.
*SMART CONTRACT*
200TRON smart contract generates 20% of the investment amount daily and guarantees a final profit of 200% in 10 days.
*INVESTMENT PROFIT*
The profit (dividends) accrued to your account on a daily basis and in real-time. You can withdraw the dividends at any time.
*REFERRAL REWARD*
Every investor provided with a generated referral link and promo tools to attract new users to 200TRON. The two-level referral program allows earning 7% + 3% from invited investors.
HOW TO START INVESTING
To start investing, you'll have to download Tronwallet from Google play store, create your wallet and and you passphrase secured; then fund your wallet and TRX of any amount you wish. But note: Minimum investment is 10trx and maximum investment 100,000Trx.
After funding your wallet your TRX, copy the link below and paste in your Wallet DApps and then allow the site to load, then proceed with your investment.
https://200tron.com/?referral=TD8BE4dQjPVNMjjWVhYf5UGks3di3Dx118
The virtuous woman
Oh thou virtuous woman,
Blessed is the womb that begets thee,
Proud is the breast that feed thee,
The Woman that nurtured thee, Nations shall her blessed.
Thou art a Virtuous Woman,
Thy worth is Far above Rubies,
Thou art precious & Valuable than Gold & Silver,
Thou art expensive than costly ornaments.
Thou art a Majesty Woman,
Thy Clothing is Honor & Humility,
In thy Right hand is integrity,
In thy left hand is Prudence.
Pride & Arrogance are far from thee,
Hatred, wickedness & evil thou desist,
Thou shun & avoid dishonest schemes,
Thou thread not the crooked & perversed path.
Thou art compassionate & kind
Thou seek for wisdom & understanding,
Thou work to attain Excellency & success,
And thou art diligent & passionate with the work of thy hands.
Many daughters have done well, but you Excel them all,
Charm is deceitful,
And beauty fades,
But the beauty of a woman that never fades is her virtuous attitude.
Give her of the fruits of her hands,
And let her own works praise her in the gates,
For she has proven her worth,
A Virtuous Woman she is.
Becoming a legend
Most people who are considered legends may never had in their lifetimes considered their actions legendary. Very likely to them they were simply doing their thing. But at their passing away, when looking back we realised that their actions were nothing short of legendary.
Also hardly does any legend started out planning on becoming a legend. One thing led to the other and their lives were transformed by the actions they took overtime.
This is to let you know that those simple actions you take daily might not seems to amount too much in your eyes. You may think they don't play any significant role. Never underestimate the power of taking little actions in the direction of your dreams and goals.
Focus, determination, continuous and persistent actions/efforts are the stuffs legends are made of! Emulate them.
"Every human being has a personal legend to be fulfilled, and this is our reason for being in the world. This personal legend manifests itself in our enthusiasm for the task" Paulo Coelho.
"You are the storyteller of your own life, and you can create your own legend, or not." Isabel Allen
"Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together." George Eliot.
"Build yourself!
"Become a legend!
Don't focus on your challenges
"And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me." 2 Corinthians 12:9
In often times when Christians face tough challenges , they tend to pay more attentions to their problems than they do to their faith in Christ. The Devil might tempt you with evil so that you will compromise your faith in God. You might pose this question to yourself; ‘is God still with me or has he forsaken me?’ The Devil does this often to shift your focus from the faith you have in Christ to the present problems you’re facing. paul for instance was challenge with infirmities that He had to pray unto God for deliverance. The Devil actually tempted Him with infirmities so that He will fall from grace. 2 Corinthians 12:7 "And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure. The lord told paul that His grace is sufficient for him. Since then paul never focused on his infirmities anymore but glorified God for the grace upon his life.
Dear reader, It is about time you focused on the grace of God in you and not your problems, to focus on your problem wont make you triumph but God’s grace alone.
conclusion:
Don’t focus on your challenges, but rather focus on the grace the lord had bestowed on you of which your victory is guaranteed.
How to start affiliate marketing as a beginner
With the aid of the Internet, you can almost have everything right at your fingertips. With just a few clicks you get access to thousands and even millions of pieces of information and data on virtually any field of interest. As years pass by, the Internet continuous to effect radical changes in many facets of human endeavors, including commerce. Experts say that the information space, commonly known as the “world wide web,” grows by over a million pages everyday as more and more people utilize the Internet for information, education, entertainment, business and other personal reasons. It doesn’t take a business-oriented individual to realize that this phenomenon can bring about sky-high financial gains. The Internet’s fast-growing popularity in the recent years is surely an opportunity for business that any entrepreneur would not want to miss.
You might be thinking only businessmen can make much money out of the Internet, don’t you? Think again. You too can earn big bucks through the Internet even if you don’t have products to sell and high-profile and established company. How? That is through affiliate marketing. You might have come across these words over the net while surfing. Affiliate marketing is a revenue sharing between a merchant and an affiliate who gets paid for referring or promoting the merchants’ products and services. It is one of the burgeoning industries nowadays because it is proven to be cost-efficient and quantifiable means of attaining great profit both for the merchant and the affiliate and other players in the affiliate program, such as the affiliate network or affiliate solution provider.
Affiliate marketing works effectively for the merchant and the affiliate. To the first, he gains opportunities to advertise his products to a larger market, which increases his chances to earn. The more affiliate websites or hard-working affiliates he gets, the more sales he can expect. By getting affiliates to market his products and services, he is saving himself time, effort and money in looking for possible markets and customers. When a client clicks on the link in the affiliate website, purchases the product, recommends it to others who look for the same item or buys it again, the merchant multiplies his chances of earning. On the other hand, the affiliate marketer benefits from each customer who clicks on the link in his website and who actually purchases the product or avails of the service provided by the merchant. In most cases, the affiliate gets commision per sale, which can be fixed percentage or fixed amount.
If you want to be an affiliate marketer and make fortunes out of the Internet, you may follow the following three most basic and easiest ways to start an effective affiliate marketing program. First is to identify a particular thing you are interested in or passionate about so you won’t be bored and forced to develop your affiliate web site later on. Focusing on a specific area you know very well will help you bring out your best without much risks and effort. You can add a personal touch to your site and give your visitors who are possible buyers an impression that you are an expert in your field. In this way, you gain their trust and eventually encourage them to buy the products you endorse. Next is to look for good paying merchants and products or services related to your interest and create now a website. In choosing the products, you must also consider its conversion rate
How to quit smoking
There are numerous different smoking cessation methods that you can use to eliminate smoking from your being. From ordinary methods to alternative medicines, there are many ways to stop smoking. Nonetheless, even the best quit smoking ways are fruitless if you are not ready to discontinue. Once you have made the resolution that quit smoking help is for you, you will be well on your way to healthier and more energetic lifestyle.
Accept the challenges, so that you may feel the exhilaration of victory. General George S Patton
Ways to Quit Smoking
One of the newest quit smoking aids accessible is the quit smoking help laser treatment. Laser quit smoking help care involves placing a beam of light to a selection of energy points in the body. The laser induces the discharge of endorphins in the body, and these chemicals lend a hand to reduce the patient’s nicotine cravings. The treatment is comparatively cheap when it comes to laser treatments, but it does cost a bit more than alternate stop smoking methods. The treatments typically cost about one hundred dollars a meeting. Nevertheless, some patients find laser treatments effective after just one or two sessions.
Actions speak louder than words. But without thought and focus those actions are like a meandering river. Michael Ross.
Like laser smoking stop treatment, acupuncture is another natural quit smoking support aid. Although there are studies that have been conducted that have found acupuncture to be an ineffective stop smoking approach, there are many individuals who swear by the treatments. If you have an unclosed mind and are willing to try this natural quit smoking aid, it may in fact help you make it through those first hours of cravings. Acupuncture treatments involve sticking needles into predetermined pressure points on the body. This is finished by a trained acupuncturist who knows where the stimulus is required to effectively decrease a smoker’s cravings.
All personal breakthroughs begin with a change in beliefs. Anthony Robbins
One alternate favoured means of quit smoking help is hypnosis. Hypnosis is a proven method of reducing cigarette cravings. It is at least as effective as other stop smoking aids such as the patch or nicotine gum. However, ten to twenty-five percent of all individuals are not capable to be hypnotized, so this method may not be applicable to you. During a hypnosis session, the therapeutist puts the patient into a dreamlike state and advises him or her not to smoke. The therapist may repeat certain phrases discussing the unhealthy nature of smoking, and he or she may give certain cues that help the patient evade or deal with his or her cravings.
An obstacle is something you see when you take your eye off the goal.
In addition to alternative medicine methods of quit smoking help, there are also a variety of smoking free videos and aid groups for men and women trying to stop smoking. Rather than reckoning it all out on your own, you may be able to acquire some helpful support and guidance from your peers who are facing the same problems, setbacks and even successes. Having other individuals around you who are in the same battle to quit smoking can be encouraging and educational.
We have come to the end of this informational quit smoking article. It’s now up to you to take this information and do something with it.
Struggles
Man is entangled by the chains of life from different angles,
Life become unbearable & miserable,
Life become hard & difficult,
Day in, Day out, man works to free himself from the chains of life.
To and fro, the struggles for survival continuous,
Up he went to get things done,
To free himself from captivity,
To reach the highest peck he desires,
Despite the quagmire pulling man backwards,
Despite the tribulations & challenges,
Man keeps his pace upfront,
Man keeps striving & pushing forward.
Misfortunes become a stepping stone to fortunes,
Failure as a path to success,
Stumbling block as a stepping stone to greatness,
And challenges a means to gain experience.
Alas, after the rain comes the sunshine,
The impossible has become possible,
Man's struggles has yield,
The chains of life couldn't hold him captive.
He don't give up, but live up to the challenges life throws at him,
He don't go through, but grow through the difficulties that comes his path,
Alas, he reached the top,
Alas, he was victorious.
When you're too tired to hope
There are times in your life
when all that you could do is rest.
You cannot love,
you cannot dream,
you don’t know where to start,
and you don’t know where to go.
You want to change your life,
but you’re too weak to move,
you’re too tired to think,
too hurt to heal,
too numb to make amends,
too lost to even hope,
too tired to even pray.
Rest then O heart,
and rest then O soul,
for the journey has been too much for you,
and the world has left you wounded
and alone.
Sleep then for a while,
let go of all your woes.
Lie down in trust,
and let your tears flow down
as they should.
Somebody’s watching,
Somebody’s catching your every tear.
Fear not, for in the quiet of the night
you’re in the arms of Him
who loves you most.
Think not of your worries,
think not of your wounds,
for they shall be healed.
In time shall you find comfort,
and you shall find peace.
O blessed peace,
claim your portion and your strength.
May your soul know what stillness means,
and may the very marrow of your bones find ease.
Time has come to stop your restless wonderings,
and for all the useless work to cease.
Let God work while you are sleeping,
And in the morning may you find all things new and sweet.
The value of Life and What Matters
Life is worth more than man's mind can ever fathom. Life is not as cheap as what we've cheapened it to be. There's no equivalent comparison that can be made to Life.
Have you wondered why Life is one thing that only God can create?
Why did God give you Life? God never gives you anything that's without value.
Scientists have invented and created a whole lot; including human clones, but none has been able to invent or create Life. No man has created, none is creating and none will create Life. The world would have been in big trouble if man could create Life.
Because life is this delicate, it is expedient to have an understanding of its VALUE. When its value is not known, it'll be treated as worthless.
What on Earth makes a person pursue his desires at the expense of God's own desires?
What makes you defile and sell your body just for momentary pleasure and money? What makes you use you talents, skills and resources to promote worldliness? Why do you spend all your life chasing the world, forgetting that the creator of the world longs for you? Why do you get depressed and intimidated at your neighbour's 'success'?
I can summarize the answers to the very reason that, the Value of Life is not known to you.
Luke 12:23 GNB
[23] Life is much more important than food, and the body much more important than clothes.
Mark 8:36-37 KJV
[36] For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
[37]Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?
All our struggles in life are a result of the desire to make ends meet; but the funny thing is that we try to meet these ends at the expense of our lives. People don't care about what becomes of them, all they want are the temporary benefits of life.
The key to continuously enjoy the dividends of a thing, is to have that thing at your disposal and value it. You may have it but if value is not given it, you'll lose it.
You can't enjoy the full Potentials of your life if you don't give it the full value it deserves.
1 Peter 1:18-19 KJV
[18] Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with *corruptible things, as silver and gold,* from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers;
[19] *But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:*
In order for God to preserve the life of humanity, he gave up His son Jesus, allowing *His PRECIOUS BLOOD* to be shed on our behalves. This gives me a deep understanding of who I am to God; it tells me *I am one with, and equal to Christ.*
Jesus' life was taken so that I could have His life and when He rose up, I rose with Him and sat at God's right hand just as he did ( Eph. 1:20; 2:6; 1 Peter 3:22).
*Your life is as the life of Jesus Christ.* Just as Christ is, so are you on this Earth(1 John. 4:17). God's love for Jesus and You are equal (John 17:17).
Whenever you cheapen and devalue your life, you cheapen and devalue the sacrifice of Jesus. Your life has no material or immaterial equivalence, *except the blood of Jesus Christ Jesus.* The Gold and Silver of the world cannot buy you. God knew the value of those stones, "but they were and are no match for your Life."
They are perishables, "but Christ's blood is Imperishable." "What a Value!"
How have you devalued yourself?
You are esteemed, and exalted far above the principalities and offerings of this world.
"Nothing is equal to your life; not even the whole world (Mark 8:36, 37)."
How to overcome challenges: Change the viewpoint
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Normally and often times when calamities and misfortunes strike, when problems appears to be bigger you can handle or imagine, when things went the direction you never expected; People become depressed, sad and worried with so much anxieties in their heart.
At this point in time, it became rather impossible for one to move on. It appears as if the end has come and life isn't meaningful again.
But there's only one way out of such situation — CHANGE THE VIEWPOINT!
Yes, when problems seems to be bigger than you can imagine, simple change your viewpoint on how you see and react to them.
Because if you failed to change the viewpoint, it'll be impossible to move on and make progress and thereby remain stagnated and be in a mediocre stage.
How do you CHANGE THE VIEWPOINT?
Have it in your mind that, challenges are part of life, hence, they're unavoidable. Challenges ain't made to "break" us but to "make" us.
Misfortunes are nothing but a stepping stone to fortunes. For every pains is a lesson, and every lesson makes a person. Don't look at the circumstances,but look at what you can be out of the circumstances. CHANGE THE VIEWPOINT!
M.Scott Peck says "Life is difficult, this is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It's a great because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it; once we truly know that life is difficult, once we truly understand and accept It— Then life is no longer difficult. Because once it's accepted, the fact that life isn't difficult no longer matters."
This is the perspective you need you need to view every difficulties you might encounter. The moment you change the viewpoint on how you see your problems, you'll realize life will not have control over you inthe face of adversities, calamities and misfortunes. If you failed to control or ride life, life could rather control or ride you instead.
Try seeing possibilities In every negative situation. Don't let challenges limit you, but rather limit your challenges. If you don't raise above your challenges, your challenges will raise above you.
Have it in your mind that, those who encounter violent opposition and challenges are born to be great. Great minds encounter violent opposition. Every successful person you see has a painful story and experience. Difficulty roads often leads to beautiful destination.
You can't and will never get the best out of life without receiving its stings. Accept every negativity with a positive mindset.
Accept no one definition of you. Never you take to heart what ever people might say about you. They might underestimate, underrate, and belittle you; they might see you as a trivial creature, but that shouldn't cause any trouble within you — KNOW YOUR WORTH! Have it in your mind that you're great and your future will certainly make a difference.
After the rain, there is a brght sunshine. Morning follows after every dark night.
Don't allow challenges, misfortunes, predicaments, and every negativity of life to weigh you down. React to them in positive manner and simply CHANGE THE VIEWPOINT, at this point, you'll realize you're deriving strength and courage from it; you'll also realize all that's happening to you is making sense and there's something meaningful to it.
@Ambitious
