The Lack of Viewing People's Soul One could have made closer friends in the past; but one confide, one felt scared. In fact, currently just started reading "How to Know a Person" by David Brooks, it reminds me of something one never saw. He said, to see another person in his/her *soul*, and that's something one lacked. Another is the feeling of afraid. Let's explain. Taking years to learn the skills to make friends, like listening attentively, opening up oneself to make…
@wabinab in August 2024
Rewriting Life Stories Now, another thing one read from the book *How to Know a Person* by David Brooks. He spoke of "rewriting your life stories to be coherent". This rewriting, in fact, is done in your **subconscious**. You never knew you rewrote your life story, that you rewrote history. When one was 16, one faced with a friendship crisis, and seek out self-help to "solve the problem". The ultimate problem wasn't totally solved, but things have been better, and one…