@vaske75 6 April 2022 more from that month

In adulthood, there is more to it than just falling in love. You only have that - someone likes and someone doesn't like. You have someone who knows you essentially. There’s no “I can’t live without you” because you’ve survived so many times when you thought you wouldn’t. No, "I can't study because I keep thinking about you", because you are no longer in school or college, but you have been at work since you paid your bills and food. There is no insomnia, because you know that whatever the problem, tomorrow is a new day and you know that the morning is smarter than the evening. And when something goes wrong, don't keep quiet, but say loud and clear, "I want this, and this, I'm sorry, I don't want." And if something can't, then nicely say "thank you" and leave or stay. From the will ... I'm just saying. U zrelim godinama, postoji nešto više od pukog zaljubljivanja. Imaš samo onoga - neko prija i neko ne prija. Imaš nekog, ko te zna suštinski. Nema "ne mogu da živim bez tebe" jer ste već toliko puta preživeli kad ste mislili da nećete. Nema, "ne mogu da učim jer stalno mislim na tebe", jer više niste ni u školi, ni na fakultetu, nego ste na poslu od koga plaćate račune i hranu. Nema nesanice, jer znate da kakav god da je problem, sutra je novi dan i znate da je jutro pametnije od večeri. I kad nešto krene po zlu, ne ćutite nego kažete jasno i glasno, "ovo hoću, a ovo, izvini, neću". I ako nešto ne može, onda lepo kažete "hvala" i odete ili ostanete. Od volje... Kažem samo.