No one tells you this. So let me be the one. No one really cares about you. The last ones to truly care about you unconditionally are your parents, some people aren't lucky to have that care in their lives as well. The care you get from your partner is reciprocal in nature, they care for you as long as you care for them. If it becomes one way then the giver takes the pain until they break. Everyone else (except a very few if you are lucky) does not care for you even though they pretend as they care. When people try to get what they need, they pretend to care and try to be nice but this one disappears as soon as you stand in the way of what they want. Why do you have to know this now? Because only by knowing almost no one cares about you, you will realize that you are the only one you can rely on. Learning to be self-reliant and self-sufficient is going to be the most important skill of this decade. Weep as much as you need to and when you are done work towards getting stronger.
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Not sure I agree, Britsh people are very empathetic and give massively to overseas charities on one hand and get constantly called racists by political lobbies. Our very nature is being used against us to give up our culture, land and traditions as we are depicted as supremacist. Now indidgenous people of Britain take second place to immigrants for jobs, especially state jobs, housing and benefits. I was homeless for over a year and never got any help from the state while immigrants walked straight into a house and money.
I am really sorry about your situation, I am not saying that nobody in the world cares for others but I am saying that very few people are in the position to care for others, the rest of them just want stuff. By being homeless you might know this, there would have been very few people who you can fall back on when you have nothing but when you do get stuff to share suddenly there are a lot of people and I am sure you understand the importance of self-reliance now that you've fought through homelessness. And I am always skeptical about big charities. I don't know the money is used for the cause or it is just a cover to further the interests of wealthy people.
I agree, charities are a scam. I like to donate directly using crypto. Thanks for your concern but I am considerably better off now thanks to Satoshi. I did have good friend who let me and my son sleep on the floor until I got sorted out, no thanks to the effing govt.
Wow good for you. That good friend really cares! I never count on the government. Thanks for sharing your story.