Unsuccessfull Man

I have a question for all Who is behind the Unsuccessful Man? I have been thinking about this for a while now..  “Behind every Successful man their is a woman”. But the question is, who is behind the Unsuccessful Man Who is behind the unsuccessful man? Since a woman is behind the successful ones,who is behind the unsuccessful ones??  Who ?  I'm curious now, please help me, I want to know the person behind the unsuccessful men.  Lets chat In the comment section