What will happens if your words contradict your actions? Are you aware that someone or everyone might doubt you always? Don't say anything if you can't commit. Don't make people longing for your words. What people needed the most are actions and efforts.
"Action speaks louder than voice"
The logic here is very obvious. Sometimes you don't need to say anything. Just do it. We trust actions more than words.
What will happens if your words don't match with your actions?
*SUSPICION EVOLVES
When it comes to a relationship your partner tends to start doubting you. They might assume you are lying or hiding something from them. You might say you love her but you kept ignoring and abusing her. You will begin to call out as a liar. Everything about you will consider being fake and you are a pretender. They will constantly feed up their mind with the opposite sides of the story.
*THE EXPECTATION vs REALITY MINDSET TOWARDS YOU
They are aspiring for something they will not have. You just give them false hope. In the end, they will never believe in you.
*TRUST ISSUES
You will be having a difficult time convincing people for not completing a certain effort to justify your words. You begin to create a borderline between trust and doubt.
*INTEGRITY REVEALED
Your integrity is revealed when your words match with your actions. But if you do it vice versa people think of you as a liar. They will always have a second thought.
*CONCEITED THOUGHT
People think you are conceited. You are sending out words to form out the image you are not.
Is it a form of cheating?
What do you think? For me, kind of. Why do you keep on saying words like "I love you" but you are not proving that you love that person? Why are you making promises and did not keep it? When you start giving your words to people make sure to show it towards frequent movements. Conveying false hope just to makes you look good to others was a bad habit. Be a man of your words. When you say something and you did not commit we might assume you are working out with someone else.
"Honesty is the best policy"
Whatever you do and where ever you go keep that in your mind. This is very significant when laying the first stone for a relationship. The more honest you are the more people will count on you. You must tell the truth if you can't keep the words popping out in your mouth. Don't hide your true complexions because people can spot the difference at one glance.
People tend to trust you easily if your words match with efforts. Being honest and sincere will bring positive feedback to you. When someone lays their belief you should rectify with compassion. People get easily deceived when they put too much reliance on humanity.
Formulating measures to establish your declarations will strengthen both of you and the people around you. Carving a relationship with trust and honesty ends with prosperity.
We can admit guilt every time we made an error but if you do it again and again your utterances will become meaningless. We can ask for forgiveness and a second chance but we should work it out with sincerity and reversals at the same time.
I get this a lot. Integrity really is important so just do what you say or better yet,don't say anything. Just do