Love Connected in Social Networks.

I have dealt in some content with the topic of couple relationships. Talking about love in couples is a very broad topic. It involves many factors where emotions, feelings, maturity, trust, and even risk come into play. If it is a long-distance love through social networks, the risk is even greater.

The solidity of love in the relationship does not depend on age, because age does not refer to the maturity that a person has, they are two different aspects. Love between young people is a fiery and passionate love, that is, age is also an important factor to take into account between people who fall in love. Two young people with maturity and mutual commitment can maintain a solid couple relationship for more years in comparison to the love between two older adults who do not assume with responsibility a couple commitment.

Now if we talk about love between adults with the responsibility to assume a couple commitment, we would not necessarily be talking about elderly people, because remember that age is not an influential factor, but the maturity as they face the relationship. I am referring in this content to a mature love after 45 years old. Where a person, whether male or female, after having closed a chapter in their life of a first marriage decide to give themselves a new opportunity to live as a couple in a new relationship.

That romantic love after 45 is a more calm, serene and reflective love. The expression of love changes as the years go by.

Remember that maturity makes the expression of that love to be taken in that way, it is no longer as fiery and passionate as in youth. At the beginning of the relationship, it is more reflexive. Love at that mature age arises from the friendship and affinity between two adults, where circumstances, interests, and concerns are shared.

Now, what happens with that love that connects in the distance through social networks. We are talking about a new reality of love in social networks. It is impossible to ignore this new reality in the "online" generation where the search for "true" love has boomed in Internet groups, especially in the last two years with the covid19 pandemic. Health and social confinement have changed the lifestyle of people around the world and also changed the way to connect with "true" love.

The search for a long-distance love through social networks is an arduous and difficult process, I mean exactly crossing paths with that person and discovering the other being who is thousands of miles away. To find the right person who connects and that we could love in the near future is something difficult but not impossible. It is a new experience where you have to dare and trust in yourself and in the other person who made that first contact. Both people must be clear about the risk that exists when looking for that friendship that begins and that with time can turn into love. It is at this point where the risk is, because there have been cases of fraud and other interests that have nothing to do with love and feelings, much less with that true and pure love that you are trying to find.

Once you have started that friendship in the distance that gives you confidence and that drives you to dare, that makes you reflect that you want to re-experience a beautiful love, where you challenge the geographical distances that separate you, where you expose your feelings openly without prejudice, and above all you assume that there is a risk of a possible failure by basing the entire relationship on the only connection through social networks, you can after all, dare to live that adventure. If you overcome all those barriers it is worth having that love. But always keep in consideration that it could be a suffering love, because of the geographical barrier that separates you.

"Tell me about a love that does not drown in sorrows, that does not decay, that does not die. Speak to me of a love that does not wither with time. In the end it dried my tears and I say to myself: love without pain does not exist", This beautiful poem is not mine, I came across it some time ago and I was captivated by the emotional charge that its lyrics contemplate and today I share it because I think it could summarize what a love in the distance is. It is suffered. To assume the geographical distance is a great challenge between two people who decide to start a friendship and then let the feelings flow to accept with maturity and responsibility that a love arose..... The same distance can cause suffering and impotence ... this is where maturity comes in and says quietly in your ear: remember that "love without pain does not exist" Go ahead!

In times of pandemic, in the distance, through social networking groups, a true love can arise, like the one you are looking for, a love that drives you to start a new adventure in life, where even in the distance you feel the closeness. Where the two loved ones are filled with illusion and desire to move forward, overcoming barriers, fighting, enjoying at the same time that distant love and if all goes well someday they can see each other face to face without any technology between the two. It is worth a love like this, because it is proven that mature love fills couples with life, a longer and fuller life. In the end, if it is true love, Love Triumphs!

The love that connects through social networks, is it a true love?

Do you have the maturity to face with responsibility that love that is born in social networks?

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