My Say: "Girls, Huwag naman Abusado!"

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How do you treat your partner? Is it in a way that he or she can tolerate it? Or in a way that he/she might explode because of your inconsiderate acts?

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A wonderful day to one and all! How's everybody? Doing great? Probably, not all. I really just hoped that you are in a good state my family. ("You know what I mean.") So, please do take care of yourselves, okay?!

For today's article, I mean blog. I wanted to share, again, my own opinion/s regarding to a societal issues, (Did I use the correct word? Societal?) that maybe some of you here had experienced. Considering the fact that I am not an expert when comes to love and life advices, I will be very open for your suggestions on how to improve my pace, with regards to this matters. "Charriiisabble!"XD. I will use Tagalog-English language, so that I can emphasized some points.

As I was scrolling in my FYP (For you page), in my Tiktok account, I came across a Tiktok content about a boy and girl that were arguing.

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/can-die-broken-heart-emotional-questions/amp/

There conversation goes like this; ("Tagalog lang para mas ma-emphasized ko:-)")

Boy: "Ang sabi ko bilhan mo lang ako nang Bio-flu."

"Tapos ano ha!? Kung anu-ano pang binibili mo!"

(may lagnat yung guy)

Girl: "Please calm down babe, maraming tao dito."

Boy: "Pinag-antay mo'ko dun, ilang oras akong nag-antay."

"Hindi mo ba maintindihan yun."

"Alam mo'ng Bio-flu lang, diba?"

"Hindi mo man lang inintindi yung mararamdaman ko, sa kaka-antay sayo."

"Alam mo'ng wala tayong enough na pera para diyan tas sige ka pa rin."

"Alam mo nakakapagod ang attitude mo."

(Naputol yung video...)

I really want to rant or something like give a negative comment, not for the people involved, but to the content owner. I really just forced myself not to. Its kind of personal thing, and the video was a stolen record. And yes! It really gained a lot of reactions, let's just say, it went viral.

"A little respect man lang sa mga nasa video."

And for those who were involved in the video, "You can talk about it at home naman eh, or some private place, hindi yung sa public talaga." But anyways, "Nangyari na ang nangyari."

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MY SAY:

"As for the girls, parang naging natural na lang talaga sa'tin yung maging pa-girl. Yung, alam mo yung mas gusto natin na tayo lang yung laging iniintindi, inuuna, at yung laging tama pagdating sa relasyon. (I know hindi naman lahat ganun.)"

At sayo naman girl na nasa video: "Girl, huwag naman abusado." Alam mo namang may sakit pala yung boyfriend mo, inuna mo talaga yung pagiging materialistic mo. Aguy! Inisip mo man lang sana yung safety muna nang partner mo diba? Very wrong ka dun.

As for my side:

"I am not saying I am a perfect partner towards MGD. At some point, umaandar din yung pagiging materialistic ko towards something, lalo na kung gusto ko talaga yung isang bagay. But, when MGD said, "Mamhie, we don't have enough money to buy that for now." Well then, bakit ko ipipilit ang hindi pa pwede, diba? I can understand that. "Grabe naman kung hindi natin ma-gets agad yung sinabi." Kaysa naman umabot pa kami sa puntong, mag-aaway lang kami dahil sa isang bagay na hindi naman ganun ka-importante, especially when MGD felt sick. I see to it that, I will set aside my own wants for his safety. "Ganun ako eh."

I am not bragging it, but I am proud, how I treated my partner, lalo na talaga kung may sakit siya. Lumalabas yung pagiging praning ko, lalo na kung may sakit siya tas hindi ko siya maalagaan kasi nandun siya sa bahay nila. Ang layo pa naman. Imagine, San Ricardo and Hilongos. Sino ba'ng hindi mag-aalala niyan? Same goes to my parents.

CLOSING THOUGHTS:

Sa isang relasyon, huwag sana natin isipin na we are superior over our partners. Hindi ganun yun. Its should be fair for the both of you. Ano ba't pinasok niyo ya'ng estado'ng yan kung hindi niyo man lang iisipin yung kapakanan nang isa't-isa, diba? "Give-and-Take." Hindi yung ikaw lang yung, take nang take at siya lang yung give nang give.

At tandaan din natin, na hindi sa lahat nang panahon, makukuha natin kung ano ang gusto natin.

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That's it for this blog my read.cash fam! I know some of you here didn't understand it all, especially because I used Tagalog words upon writing it. You can translate it naman, Hehe, would you mind? :-)

Lead Image source: Edited using Canva App

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/can-die-broken-heart-emotional-questions/amp/

Thank you for reading!📖😊

TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY!😇

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Published on: 10/26/2021 @ 5:06 pm

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Ahhh nakakita ko ani na video Te, maluoy ko sa babae that time pero pag basa nako sa insa juy nahitabo murag aksyon kog panig sa lalaki. Tama jud ka Te dapat sa relationship equal jud dapat ang standing ninyo dili kay naay mang under. Dapat jud respect and understanding ang dapat mag prevail. 💕

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2 years ago

Mao lagi, nakatawa pa ko's ubang comment kay nag-away lagi daw tungod ra's Bio flu.😅 Pero, very wrong naman jud ang babaye dong uie. Ahw hinuon iyaha man pud lagi to'ng gusto, di man ta makabuot. Pero mao lagi, sinabtanay jud dapat unta. Natawag pa mo'ng partners kung di man lang sabton ug i-respeto ang usa'g usa, diba?..

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2 years ago

The general context was understood, although I didn't understand most of it, I like your new photo, you look very pretty. In a good relationship we always give and receive, although you should not focus on giving to always receive, when we give something we should do it from the heart and not expect to receive something in return, if love is maintained, be sure that you will always receive something good in return.

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2 years ago

Thanks sir Frank.. :)

Hmmm...You said right, giving good should be payed with good also. ..

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2 years ago

I am not that type of girl. Hindi ako komportable ng ginagastusan ako ng lalaki Kasi mas work Naman ako at mas mataas din sweldo ko Kay hubby that time. Nasanay na ako na kapag may cravings ako e ako magyayaya kumain at treat ko hehe pero syempre nabawi din Naman sya . Give and take nga.

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2 years ago

Naks naman, lakas makayaman feels niyan Ms. Yen.. Sanaol. Libre naman diyan..Hehe.. Kidding Aside..

Ayy naku, totoo. Dapat naman talaga nagtutulungan kayonh dalawa, hindi yung parang ginagawa mo lang sunod-sunoran yung partner mo..

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2 years ago

Nan! Maayo rag dili ni magbulag sila Sis. Makatawa nalang gani ko sa Facebook anang mga babae nga grabe maka pangayo sa ilang partner, murag gi career man gyud pagka materialistic. Give and take gyud dapat sa relationship

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2 years ago

Mao lagi sis...Ay dah, di lang ta magpaka-stress ug marites sa ilang life sis uie, maangin pa ning mga tarung.. Hehe ..

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2 years ago

Napanuod ko yang vedio na yan sis..sa Facebook..medyo nakakahiya din nmn talaga ung ginawa nila, public scandal kumbaga, pero hndi din nmn cla pwedeng husgahan..as we have heard may sakit c boy tapos c girl nmn kc pabebe.. dapat sana nilugar nya pagiging pabebe nya.

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2 years ago

Yun nga sis.. Kahit man lang sana, inintindi niya yung kalagayan nung bf niya. In the first place, alam niyang may sakit yung partner niya, inuna pa niya yung mga kagustuhan niya.. Aguyy! Very Wrong talaga si ate girl dun.

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2 years ago

True jud na mamsh. Di man gud sa tanang panahon sabton tas atong partner. Muabot pud ang panahon nga mapuno sila. So, us, girls, we need to consider their side also.

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Gajud mamsh.. Maong ako bitaw, na hinay-hinay jud ug pugong sa kaugalingon uie, mas maaju man jud ning tinabangay mo's usag-usa.

Mao bitaw sauna, maghinilak ko kay si MGD laman permi gahatag naho, kay lagi wa pa ko'y kita nga ahung kaugalingon jud. Maong dako jud ko'g pasalamat aning read.cash kay karun, makahatag napud ko nija bisan ginagmay.. Maikod pud ta uie.. Hehe.. Abi palang gipangwartahan ra nato..

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2 years ago

At kapag napagud na sa kakaintindi dyan na magsisimula ang pagka cold mo sa partner mo at ma fa fall out of love na di ba sis hihi dapat give and take talaga sa isang relasyon .

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2 years ago

Mismo sis.. Yan yung nagiging sanhi talaga nang mga bagay na di mo talaga gustong mangyari. Kasi nga diba? Parang tine-taken for granted mo lang yung pagiging mabait at pasensyoso nang partner mo. Kahit nga sa simpleng lagnat, inuuna pa yung mga gusto..

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2 years ago

OMG, natamaan ako dun sa ako nalang ying laging iintindihin, ganyan ako non sa last relationship ko. Yong ang toxic ko din talaga saka pagiging materialistic. Uhaw kasi ako sa mga gamit noon kaya ayon tapos sa huli ako rin ang nang iwan ang bad ko doon I know. I'm not sure if ganon pa rin ba ako after kasi non di na nagkaroon, ayaw ko pa crushes nalang muna. Pero sana naman hindi na.

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Ayy hala ka marengs.. Hehe.. Bitaw.. At least ngayon hindi na, diba? Ako nga rin eh, may pagka-materialistic din naman ako, pero, yun nga kung alam ko'ng hindi pa kaya at pwedeng magkaroon, hindi rin muna pipilitin. ..

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2 years ago

All genders must be precisely treated equal. Dapat talaga, hiwalayan niya na ate yung babae haha. Suddenly remember Marinov's article about how she was toxic before in handling relationships. Yung Mama ko ate, laging napapraning por que hindi lang natawagan haha. Naalala ko nga po non na di lang matawagan papa ko kasi balak niya magsurprise, alalang alala na haha. Anyway, no one deserves to be treated unequal hehe

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2 years ago

Hehe.. Ang cute nang mama mo dong.. Parang ako lang din, praning din, pero paminsan lang naman. ..😅

Anyways, You're right, "no one deserves to be treated unequal."

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2 years ago

So true sis, minsan nasa girls then ung mali why ngsasawa ung guy, dapat tlaga balance, kawawa si guu may sakit pala dapat nga inaalagan si guy

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2 years ago

Indeed sis. Inuna pa talaga yung kagustuhan niya, keysa dun sa kalagayan nung boypren niya..

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Kaya nga sis, swerte nya nga sa bf nya, morning pala

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2 years ago

Mismo... Iilan nalang kaya ang ganyang lalaki ngayon... Wala na yata sa kalahati nang population.. Hehe

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2 years ago

True ahahhaha, nasa drama nlng sila sis hahhaha

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hahaha.. K-drama to be specific sis..🤣

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Ahahhaha tama sis, ag mga oppa ahahahha na lahing need pumila hahha

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Hahaha.. Baka naman sa totoong buhay sis, may kalokohan ding ginagawa kasi nga Oppa eh.. XD

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2 years ago

Yay ang importante baskog lawas charot! Bitaw maamsh okay ra ng ingana kung ija kwarta ija gigasto or nakanprovide na sija sa ija boyfriend ja naa sijay spare money. Kung wala very wrong jod.

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2 years ago

HAHAHA.. Mao gani na mamsh.. Nahh, ug wa jud sija'y ambag, aguyy, ka-minus kaajo...

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2 years ago

Yes mamsh from the word "Give and Take" it's really important in a relationship. Dapat magmeet kayo in the middle. Hindi pwede may isa sa inyo na superior. It's very wrong. The relationship will be treasure more if both of you may understandings and helping with each other.

Mali naman talaga si girl dun dapat pina prioritize niya yung boyfriend dahil may sakit.

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2 years ago

Yun nga mamsh eh. Pinairal niya talava yung pagiging materialistic niya keysa sa unahin niyang alagaan yung bf niya.. Hahay...

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2 years ago

Oo mamsh... Mali talaga siya dun.. dapat unahon yung mga importanteng bagay...

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2 years ago

Mao lagi mamsh..

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2 years ago

Kining mga babae pud usahay unahaon ng mga butang2 mamsh nuh ..

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2 years ago

Gajud mamsh.. Maskin ako, pero musabot pud ko's sitwasyon uie.. Hehe

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2 years ago

Mao gayud mamsh. Daghan man time anang mga butang2...

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2 years ago

Mao gajud mamsh.. Dapat jud unta ibutang sa lugar...

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2 years ago

Good storyline you have up there... Keep it up

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Thank you for appreciating it my dear.. :)

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