Yesterday was one the memorable days of my life. I came into a realization that there are just things that we cannot force in getting of. I received a lot of comments about it. It really helped me to make me realized that rushing things will really just make you disappointed at the end. As what it says, "Don't rush the process, Good Things takes time."
As I go on, scrolling out, looking and reading other articles, I came across with an article, entitled, "Intimate Questions: Here I am." It was written by one of my considered virtual friends in here, @JustMaryel , "My apologizes for the mention sis." Here's the link to her article;
https://read.cash/@JustMaryel/intimate-questions-here-i-am-d466790a . I read it, and left a comment in there. I also asked permission if I can join this prompt and thankfully, I was permitted to. :) Honestly, right at that moment, I can't think of a topic to write and publish the next day, which is today. "It was such a Blessing!" or something like, "A lucky day for me." <3 I clicked on the site;
https://www.teenvogue.com/story/21-questions-game , but I can't decide just yet on what questions to answer. There are just lots of it. My mind was acting weird again. Lol. So, later on, I get to decide that I'll just answer the same questions, but I chose only five out eight that my dear friend had answered and make another entry the following day or days, (if I'm not able to), I will answer my own chosen questions for my next entry.
As a kind of warm-up for myself, I made a TikTok contents before I started my piece today. "Para, sumigla naman yung araw ko." XD
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Moving on to our topic, let's do this!💪
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Who's relationship do you admire and why?
- "Lalayo pa ba tayo?" Of course, my parents' relationship. I would say, it is one of a kind. Even at their age right now, I still see them happy as ever. They hug each other even in front of me. The most special one, is when they teases each other. My father is somewhat like the ringleader of that teasing thingy moment/s they have together. (Sighs! Mapapasabi talaga ako nang, "SANA ALL!") Though there are also times that they argue, but they just resolved it right away. "Siguro, kasi pinapaglitan ko, para kasing mga bata. Lol."XD
You know, looking at my parents, I really wished to have that kind of relationship even before when I was still a single. Now, having a six years relationship with MGD, I hoped his the one. Well, only God knows. "Relationship is not being measured by how many months or years or even a decade you were together, if you are not meant for each other, I'm sorry to say, "Maghihilaway talaga kayo."
What's your idea of a perfect date?
- Perfect date? "Wala namang perfect." Lol. Anyways, for me, being with the love of your life is a kind of a perfect date. Whatever you do or wherever you go, as long as you are happy to be with each other, as simple that.
I'm not that kind of girlfriend that somewhat like a demanding one. I want a date that is simple, but at the end, it will be a memorable one for us. Even if we are just eating street foods or eating junk foods while watching movies or whatever it is we like. That's it. There's no need for an expensive date in a famous restaurant in town. "Sa panahon ngayon, kailangan na nating maging praktikal." I am contented to wherever my partner wanted to go and bring me, for as long as we're safe together, I am happy with that and that's a perfect date for me. <3 ;)
What's the wildest thing you've ever done to get someone's attention?
- Should I answer it? Haha. "Baka ma-intriga kayo XD." Well, I'll be honest with you. Of course, I kissed him.
One time, he was busy looking at his phone, scrolling and listening to music while putting a headset on. And I was like, "Bakit di niya ako pinapansin?" I felt so irritable to the point that I punched his shoulder. Then he just said, "Mamhie, stop it." (Naglalambing lang eh' -_-) After that, he just continued what he was doing. To get his attention, I grabbed his phone and suddenly I kissed his forehead and... Hehe.. "Basta yun na yun." XD So, because I was so naughty, he thrown me a pillow. (Magpapatalo ba ako? NO! NEVER!) At the end, we had a fun time together while throwing pillows at each other. HAHA XD
What's your biggest fear when it comes to relationship?
-"When we soon to find out that we are not meant for each other", that's the biggest fear I have in a relationship. MGD is the longest relationship I have so far. And I prayed almost every night before I sleep that, he should be my last. But as what I have said earlier, only God knows! :)
Being cheated is not new to me, I experienced it a lot of times before. I even cheated. And I learned, "Karma is just around the corner." Thankfully, it didn't happen again. Well, I am not hoping for it.
What's the best advice/s you've ever received?
-"Choose a partner who will love you for whatever you are and who ever you are."
"Don't beg for someone to stay if he really wants to leave you and go by himself."
"Don't lie out of love, because at the end, you will find out you are just fooling yourself."
These pieces of advice really hit me to the bone. My mother and my dearest friends said this to me.
("Thank you so much MAMA and to you my dearest friends."<3 <3 <3)
Before MGD and I, I experienced being cheated. And I was like, I just want to end it, to also end my pain I felt inside. But, I am Blessed for having these people who helped me to moved on and continue my life even I started all over again. "Hindi naman ako nabigo." Later on, MGD came into my life and I am very pleased and happy to have him. <3
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I think that's all for now my fam! I hoped you enjoy spending your valuable time, reading my piece today. And, my apologizes for my grammatical errors. Hehe :)
TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY!😇
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[Published on: 09/23/2021]
People are meant for each other if they do work it out. As you said, there is no such thing as perfect. It's a constant work for people involved in a relationship to keep things going.