@nheng 23 July 2021 more from that month

Preparing for Mom's "Pasiyam" or 9th days after death. "For 9 days after the death, the family recites prayers. ... According to ancient beliefs, the deceased's soul stays on Earth for up to 9 days after the death. During this time, the family gathers for prayers and a celebratory meal in honor of the deceased." Source: https://www.joincake.com/blog/40-days-after-death/#:~:text=For%209%20days%20after%20the%20death%2C%20the%20family%20recites%20prayers.&text=According%20to%20ancient%20beliefs%2C%20the,day%2C%20a%20rosary%20is%20said. It's been 9 days since she's been gone..oldies said this is the day she'll find out that she's already dead.. ..don't know how long for me to get over this pain losing her..i guess it's a forever pain that i need to endure everyday of my life.. 😔