Lots of millenials are settling with the so called "NO LABEL RELATIONSHIP" and every individual has different perspective about this, some are okay with it and I guess majority does not want the idea of having like this kind of relationship.
If I were to ask if I've settled to be in this kind of relationship, I can say that "no, I didn't" but if you will ask me about my opinion on this one, then it is just okay to settle first with this kind of relationship. Just do not invest so much time with it.
Here are the PROs of dealing in a No Label Relationship
1. A NO LABEL RELATIONSHIP can give you the opportunity to know the person well and both of you can have a mutual understanding in a commitment then that will be the time that you can level up your relationship.
Why do lots of people do not like to engage in this kind of relationship?
Lots of people does not want to be in this kind of relationship because we tend to assume and we tend to fall in love first. We easilly fall for someone without knowing totally who the person really is.
If you are dating someone or constantly talking to someone, then you should make a set up wherein you only give what you are receiving. For example, if he is not messaging you then do not also make a move to talk to them, you need to mirror them.
But if this person says "hi" then you can reply him / her, "hi" or "hello" or to whatever you want them to say.
We must test the waters first, bacause what happens is that, the person who hurts the most during this kind of relationship is the person who have high hopes in this.
Do not put so much hope in this, not everybody survives a No Label Relationship, but if ever you do, you will be able to find true happiness. Because when you come to think of it, if you are in a No Label Relationship, you have the means of not making it formal but if you both agree to make it formal then that, that is something special.
People ask if what gender is unfavorable in this kind of situation, is it girls?
Well, I think, is never depends on the gender. It is just that most women are more emotional about this. We have to be strong that before we enter in any form of relationship, we must make sure that we are complete. We need to make sure that we are complete because we should not let that our source of happiness is our "partner" and when that person left you behind, you shouldn't care at all becasue you know what you bring in the table, you know exactly yo your values. And if you truly know your worth, you do not have to be scared if he / she left you. You will never lose someone if you know your values.
It is so much fulfilling if you have the kind of attitude wherein you just focus on yourself ang know that you are happiness with or without anyone becasue you know that you yourself alone is a happy individual
Some people will also say that NLR is just a waste of time and being coward, not being able to take risk.
NLR is not a waste of time because this are the moments wherein to really get to know the person.
No label relationship usually do not work, yes that is true but most best relationship are found in this kind of relationship. Why? Becasue in this stage, it will make you know the person more.
It is not a waste of time also beuase you have the opportunity to be with the person be ssue you like him / her and if ever you find out that it did not worl then it is not a waste of time, becasue nowadays as we can observe, it is now very easy to enter into a relationship. Some people's perception is that when they both like each other, then they make their relationship official real quick and if did not work for 2 to 3 months, they will finally decide to end their relationship.
We should make our relationship sacred just like marriage because being in a relarionship is a trial in marriage. We can not say that, "okay, let's give it a try to marry each other. Let's just see if it will workout." When we get married to someone, we must make sure that he / she really is the one.
The waste of time is when you put yourself in a relationship for 3 to 4 or more years and did not work out then that is wheb you call it a waste of time.
Before entering in to a relationship, make sure that you are sure about it. Be serious when making decision. It is not a game.
And if you think that you need to level up your relationship officially but feel that the other person does not really want commitment then better end your no label relationship. Know your worth whether you are a boy or a girl. Do not let yourself be taken for granted.