Privacy jiggeum!!

November 29, 2021

I actually thought of this famous lines from NCT's rapper Mark when his private things were being touch by his co members .. Then he snatched his wallet and said these "privacy jigeum" and his fellow members kept on laughing at him but he just slid his wallet with him and doesn't let it out for the rest of the live.

What's the connection?

As I have said from my last night article that I attended a church meeting between communities. And I get to talk to my fellow members personally again. We were having fun talking about random topics especially on what happened during the pandemic that we didn't saw each other. Then some members congratulating the newly weds, and there were five of them who tied the knot just this year. So the remaining single asses of us and some of my closest were being bombarded with questions on when will we tie our own knot.

Good for some who already have partner because they can casually tell that "soon, when the budget is enough, when we are ready" but how about me and the rest whose still single. What made me piss unnaturally at that time was when one youth member teased my friend that she saw her with some random guy having dinner in a mall and they kinda look sweet. So my friend remained silent and awkwardly smiled at us.

I can tell that she's not comfortable with the topic but they kept on pestering about on whose the guy and he kinda good looking and that they look good together. My sister friend was not smiling at all but they couldn't get a little hint. So Mahal(my BFF) nudge me to defend her. I didn't get her at first but when I spot my friend not making a little smile that's when I realized that she's very close to burst out so I excuse myself from my facilitator and walk into their table.

"Guys, let's not pester Ate(older sister) okay, it's her life and whatever she's doing outside community is none of our business. We're not kids anymore and we are not taught to be naughty right?"

To Mahal also added "Yes, Privacy Jiggeum, your Ate's have personal life too. Just wait for them to share if they're willing. Don't tease us for we don't want that kind of behavior"

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"Without privacy there was no point in being an individual" - Jonathan Franzen

All of us needs some privacy but when that part of you crumbles also and other people know you'll be devastated as hell.

Keeping some privacy matters within oneself is normal and shouldn't be judge on for we live differently.

We all have secrets and we also wants some privacy for ourselves also, married or not. We want some things to be kept in private.

To some this is just a very little issue but to me or to my friend it is really a big issue for us. Hell, she even told me that she rather kill herself than talking about some private issue she doesn't want to share.

Respect is the key.

As always, I am tired and all and my son wants some love time. So I am posting this early and not on my usual time of publishing since after my call with my son I'm gonna do sleep. Gonna read some before exiting. Have a great day.

Thank you for reading!
Keep safe & God Bless!
Fin!