@mizuo 30 December 2021 more from that month

How would you answer this? ［Life Guide] Heartbroken... Please give me words of encouragement. 2021/12/30 05:00 I'm a female office worker in my 20s. I had my heart broken a few months ago. 　When we broke up, I couldn't even eat, but recently I've been able to get my life back to normal. I am so grateful that so many people have listened to me, comforted me, and encouraged me. 　However, I still feel sad and a little bit angry about his/her heartless attitude and cold words. This is the first time I have ever been deeply hurt or hurt in this way. I believe that no matter how talented and appreciated a person is, he or she should not hurt others. 　I have recently started something new. I have a sense of accomplishment that I am gradually improving. I want to be able to look at myself objectively so that I can make myself happy and live a little easier. 　I would appreciate if you could give me some encouragement as I am still a little off-axis at times. (H-ko, Kyoto) Response by Shinji Ishii, author 　Did you really "lose" something? Didn't you "gain" something important? 　What? The will to face the future. The person you are now, moving forward. 　You write, "I was deeply hurt and wounded. I think these words are filled with real feelings. However, since it is you now, I dare to say it. The other person may have felt the same way. 　As with encounters, parting with an important person is carried by a mysterious flow that goes beyond the intentions of the two people. The heart of the person to whom you gave a cold word or a heartless attitude is also creaking. Your heart breaks, and in response, the other person's voice tears open, and that voice in turn tears your heart deeply. 　Parting is part of love. You have taken it head on. You can be angry. You can be sad. The reason why people around you supported you is because you were sincere. 　The gentle writing and careful choice of words are imbued with compassion. You will walk the path that makes you happy, one step at a time. The straight and narrow path that seems to be wavering is a journey that brings smiles to those around you. A new year, a new you, a new encounter. Believing in you, the one who will make you happy, raise your head and move forward. https://www.yomiuri.co.jp/jinsei/20211229-OYT8T50005/