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Control your child's behavior.

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Written by   51
8 months ago

In everyday life there have been situations with children that are beyond the control of the parents. Sometimes their behavior has not been appropriate in the face of such activity and we feel bad.

An example of this may be a tantrum that the child did, because he was not given such an object ..., this could have been prevented by the parents, so that the child will not act with anger.

That is why the father must make his control known to his son, as a form of control over different events that occur in life.

It should be noted that the child can not act like this, you have to have control, this helps:

  • Resolve situations of daily life with prudence.

  • Be patient to fulfill our wishes.

  • Control impulses.

  • Conclude with tasks we don't like.

  • Think of others first.

It is important to keep in mind that there are children who can control themselves in situations that arise, while there are other children who have no control and are more likely to:

  • Be violent.

  • Suffer from sadness.

  • Fall into addictions.

  • Having eating disorders.

Therefore, it is convenient to give suggestions to parents on how to help the child to have control:

  • Every action generates consequences:

    Teaching the child that the actions cause effects, therefore, if she does not have control of her emotions, it can go wrong. Example, if the child reacts violently every time something bothers him, he will have few friends.

  • Guide them to recognize what's important:

Having self-control is not just stopping from doing wrong, it is also about doing homework, even if it is not an exciting example to do homework.

  • Reward and motivate:

    When observing that the child behaves and controls her behavior, in different situations, express stimulating words such as: "I am happy because you finished the task."

    You can give a gift to reinforce these actions ...

  • With example:

    Children see how parents react to problems, state that the domain is the one that produces good actions. Children must be given good examples.

    To finish, we must have patience to carry out any action in life, having control is learned as one advances in age. Controlling impulses allows us to have fewer problems, and socialize with others.

    If we observe that it is out of our hands to control our children, seeking help with a psychologist will guide us to seek alternatives for the stability of the children.

    Parents can also work on self-control in the different activities that the child performs, be it at home, school and other environments ... any time is a good time to learn.

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Thank you for your advice

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8 months ago

suggestions to help us as parents.

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8 months ago

Rewarding and you show a photo of a child receiving a present???

I assume the topic is parents are an example for children. Getting angry, sad, disappointed is common and normal feelings just like having a fight. If you ask me it's wrong to keep up appearances. If you really think children do not feel parents just had a fight or are angry or sad you are wrong. Even a visitor can feel it entering the house.

More important is to learn children it's normal, it doesn't mean the love is over. It should be reached how to handle those emotions. Me-time might be needed or a good talk with personal attention.

If your child already has an eating disorder you are a bit late with connecting to your child.

What I miss in this story is a clear storyline.

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8 months ago

The title of the article is Control the behavior of your son, regarding the photo I wanted to put a mother giving a detail to her son, I am sorry that you have perceived it that way, I am going to review, and change the photo.

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8 months ago

No, the title is: control your child's behavior, not your son (boy).

If it comes to the title I miss the content that fits it and I wonder what is meant by "control".

A text with this topic should more look like:

  1. Introduction... Children behave problematic plus signs of it
  2. Reasons why children behave problematically
  3. How to help a problematic child (yourself or professional help)
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8 months ago

ready, edit thanks for the suggestions.

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8 months ago

It's most important for everyone thanks for sharing dear 🥰

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8 months ago

so is.

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8 months ago

Parents should know how to discipline their children. Correcting their wrong doings or giving them punishment is still a gesture of love. Do not cover up your children.

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8 months ago

totally agree with you.

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8 months ago

Parenting is never easy. Takes a lot of patience to raise a child. But its also worthit and always priceless when they say they love you, kissed and hugged you. 💖

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