Unspoken Social Rules

1. Dress Well

No matter what the occasion is, you should always dress well and properly. Clean yourself up to show that you are in good condition. As the popular saying goes "always dress as if you're going to see your ex." hmmm. That sounded a bit strange, I think I forgot how the saying really goes. Anyway, we should really mind how we dress and how we present ourselves to the world.

I do not mean that you should dress well above your means. I am not saying that you should dress like you are participating in a gala or going to do a catwalk. Just dress well. Even a plain white shirt and a clean pair of jeans would look really presentable if carried well.

2. Eye Contact

When communicating with other people, gestures play a big role when it comes to it. Sometimes non-verbal communication can say things more than any amount of words can.

Active listening and nodding are some gestures that could really aid you in connecting with people. The most important gesture to master is eye contact. Having a good sense of how to make eye contact can really amplify whatever you are trying to convey to your audience. It can emulate sincerity, anger, seriousness, and many more emotions. It all depends on how you make it.

3. Anger Restrain

Never let your anger control you. You need to always keep your emotions in check. I don't mean that you should be a robot with limited emotions but you should never let your anger take over your decisions and manners.

4. Ask More

People hate know-it-alls, generally. So it would do you more good when you ask more questions than you answer. If you do this, you will make the other person a bit more comfortable because asking questions will make you seem more interested in your conversation.

But be mindful of your questions, if you just keep on asking questions without even listening to what the other person is saying, you are just wasting both of your precious time.

5. Proper Grammar

Using proper grammar can get you far. But of course, perfect grammar is only achievable from years of studying and practice. Even Grammarly suggests wrong grammar at times. You may be bad at grammar at the moment but you can be better at it if you decide to be. Don't just accept that you are bad at grammar and be done with it. You can always try to be better at it every single day.

You don't have to be a grammarian but being good at it will surely bring you good things. It definitely would not hurt to be good at it.

6. Handshake

As I said before, gestures play a tremendous part in interpersonal relations. And a lot of those relations begin with a simple gesture, a handshake. Although it is not practiced every single time with the current situation of the world, handshakes can be a very effective tool in discerning what kind of person you are talking to.

Firm and steady handshakes are said to be the best kinds of handshakes.

7. Please and Thank You

These two are what we call magic words in our society. From a very young age, we are taught how to use them, properly, only when we grow old, we make use of them in our own sarcastic way.

Using these words and phrases in our communications the right way brings class to our everyday conversation.

8. Don't Swipe Left or Right

Our phones are now tangled with our lives more and more every day. Our memories and our precious moments are there. Sometimes we would like to show someone a picture or a photo that is saved on our gallery to somehow share the experience with them.

If a person shows you a photo on his or her phone, never ever swipe left, right, up, or even down. If they want to show you another one or the next photo, they will do it. Don't overstep your boundaries. I know that you wouldn't like it if someone else does that when you hand them your phone.

Author's Note

These are just some guides for classy and tasteful interaction. But above all else, just be a decent human being and you are halfway there. It would sometimes help to place yourself in the shoes of your audience.

And with that, thank you for visiting and spending time with me. Until we read again...

Cheers!!!

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Series    : Random Articles
Title     : Unspoken Social Rules
Published : 24-Jan-2022
Author :  © RB