Why do I work hard?
Article #131
November 06, 2022
Hey, how are you feeling right now my dearest virtual friends? Tomorrow is Monday again and a good start to grinding into the real world and also our online hustle. It would be a new life that begins to start over. Have a break for a while and then after refreshing, focus on the goals and what so ever you want to achieve every day just be patient and dare to continue whatever hardships you will encounter in your day.
Let's have a short story,
Way back when I was a kid, I was already aware that our kind of life is not what others could have. We came from a poor family, my parents are uneducated so as we expected we don't have a good and permanent income due to a lack of work that fits them accordingly. We are just renting a small room, not a house, and could you imagine? We are 7 siblings at that time in just a small space. There are times that I see my mom crying silently at night because she didn't know where we can get money to buy rice in the morning. I felt sorry for my parents because I don't have the strength to help them in times of hardships in raising us but I see how they tried.
*They both worked hard to send us to school and finish even in Highschool but suddenly I make them disappointed. After I graduated from high school, I got pregnant at the age of 18. Even though they do not get angry in front of me I know I made them sad and disappointed. I feel guilty about them because I am useless and all I gave is a burden.*
**Having a child at a young age was Unplanned but it was never a mistake, my daughter is always been a blessing to us. New hope to start again in life and believe in a better future.**
Always take chances.
If we get it wrong, then make it right for our family. Our parents always give their understanding to us because even if they do not say **'I love you** Deep inside we are already forgiven for whatever mistake we did. Always have a chance to make them feel they are worthy and loved.
Why do I work hard?
My parents are not getting younger anymore, my father was already at the age of '62 by the next month and my mother is weaker now. They live in the province and when I visited there,
They do corn planting, and it was very tiring. I can't help seeing them as no one cares. My siblings are now with their families so, I do not tend to ask them to ask for a favor for our mother and father to give any amount for their living. I want to help them, changing life into a better and a comfortable living even in a simple way.
A feeling of Guilt..
Many what If's in my mind and until today it keeps me bothered because of the situation about my parents. I wish I finish my studies and become professional so they could no longer to work on their age like this.
The reason why I do multiple works to earn is that I want to help them and give support as they could no longer need to work. I save money to build a small business someday. I want them to rest and it's about time to repay them for all their sacrifices from the beginning. I want them to be happy even it is simple atleast deserved.
I wish God will grant all my desires and protect me and my family in whatever disasters will come .I know, I will be facing a lot of struggles and challenges before I will end up with victory and a smile of success.
That's all for today guys❤
The lead image is originally mine.
@maria_23
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Good morning friends! Im very much happy about the unexpected blessing coming from one of our beloved co_writers in read dot cash. Yesterday I was busy on my hustling in the real world, I do not have time to check on my Phone but after my work, I opened it immediately to see what was new and this was what I saw in my notification😯❤
He mentioned me in one of his articles and he tipped me with a huge amount so unexpectedly it happened but I am very much happy, I hope he will stay longer in the site and continue giving hope to those who tend to lose a courage to be a writer like on what happens to me.
Cravings for pizza and halo_halo!
Today is Saturday and it's payday so I decided to order a pizza from Alberto's and thankfully because the delivery was very fast and arrived only 30 minutes after I texted my order. It is also our bonding moment with my family. we're very happy and contented even just like this.
Unexpected blessing coming from a famous writer!
Article # 130
November 05, 2022
Hello, read dot cash family! It's Saturday again and many activities keep me busy all day long. After my work, I need to roam around our working place to collect the amount from the debtors in my store. every week is our payday so I had to ask for a payment from them and tomorrow I will go to the market to buy some stocks for them.
Sorry guys for a long start and the truth is, I don't have the guts to publish an article today because I am exhausted and demotivated to write since my last published article was zero upvotes.
Lol, anyways I'm not disappointed instead I'm shy and a little bit embarrassed about this. I believed my topic is indifferent and did not appreciate but on the other side of the story, It is not good to give up so easily, and I'm, not the only one who experienced this.
Every time I feel demotivated, God is always at the right time to fill up my lacks. Our Almighty is the only one who knows when or where we need backUps.
When I came across this thought of giving up being a writer here, @Coolmidwestguy suddenly appeared and give me a tip like this.
He's not only a giver but also a good supporter to me and also to other writers here. He is appreciative of everybody and like a big brother to me. One more thing is that His words were very meaningful and I know it is coming from the heart.
My heart beats so fast while reading this a while ago coming from the article of sir Cool! He recognized me as "**Bishop".**
I never expect this blessings today, I jumped with a smile because of so much happiness when I saw my notifications with someone mentioning me in an article and when I see, it was sir cool Oh my God! One of the famous good writer in read cash😯
It's my first time receiving these kinds of appreciation. Am I deserving of all this? Since I started here in read dot cash, I never expect anything but to meet good virtual friends and it would never be failing because it really happens.
Now, I also want to say thank you sis @Jeansapphire39 for welcoming me at @noise.app earlier.🥰
You are one of the friendliest writers I ever meet here in the virtual world. thank you for all the good thoughts and uplifting words to continue on our journey. Love lots ❤
I appreciated all my tippers and upvoters.
`That's all for today and have a nice day everyone!`
`Thanks for dropping by!`
@maria_23
Have a blessed Saturday noisers! Finally, I got here now to explore and have fun with you all guys. Maybe I'm not too late lol. I guess many of you here were coming from the read cash community and I hope I can catch up on what I really missed. God bless us and more enjoyable moments to share.❤🙏
Money can destroy a good relationship, broken trust will never be whole again
Article # 129
November 04, 2022
**"******The problem is not loss of money or credit, it's a loss of trust".****
By:*David Perry*
I always frustrate myself when it comes to money, and the more I hate money the more I'm eager to have it!
I do multiple tasks every day just to earn some extra money for I have many plans and goals that I want to reach before this year's end. I work hard to save money for our future and we should prioritize this also. I am not content with the state that I facing right now. When it comes to my relatives and siblings, I am not greedy I am the kind of person who has a soft heart for others, when there is someone who will approach me to borrow money I lend them immediately even if it is just enough for my family at least I get to help.
*I never say no If I have the extra money in my wallet but there are times that I feel like taking it for granted. They treated me well if they have something wants from me like borrowing money or asking favors for them. I'm not counting on what I did for them but they bypass my off-limits. I always have the right to say no or reject them if I can't.*
The most hurtful feeling is when your family treated you for granted. If you don't give them what they need, they put you in a situation to make you feel that you are the worst and fight with you saying bad against you.
I experienced many times, some of my siblings are just good to me if they want to lend some money and if I can't let them borrow they will not talk to me like were not related. Yes, some reasons that I keep my distance from them are because if they have already money, they do not pay me back. Even though we are siblings, we should pay back what we lend or credit because it is not easy to earn money. Sacrifices and efforts are countable then why they are just easy to borrow but hard to pay?
***Not only the money I give to them but also my trust and love ❤️***
We cannot deny the fact that many of you here like me experience this kind of dilemma involving our family. So sad and that's the reality of life. For now, I choose to keep a distance to avoid more complications.
I agree that money can destroy a good relationship ***with the family.*** Instead of helping each other, some members are treated like enemies.
Money is just a material thing and a tool to buy our wants and needs but don't let them manipulate you to become worst and greedy. If you have credits, learn to pay and value the trust that is given to you. Once it is broken, it will never be whole again.
`To my dearest sponsors before you get out on my block , I want to take this privilege of saying thank you for supporting me all the way. It means a lot and is much appreciated 🥰`
`That's all for today my read dot cash family and thanks for dropping by, happy Friday!`
`The lead image and all the photos above come from the Google site`
`@maria_23`
You are now an Angel! My cousin's baby!
Article # 128
November 03, 2022
Hey, what's up my read cash fam? I know we have a lot of challenges and struggles we encounter every day of our life, but we should put it in a way that it all happens for a reason. Just have the courage and perseverance to continue living no matter what.
I am very exhausted today and I don't have the plan to write at this moment because I felt a headache due to the high temperature of heat in the afternoon.
While I was at work earlier, I received news that my cousin was giving birth last Monday, October 31 and I just knew it earlier. I messaged her in messenger and she replied that her baby did not survive.
She was admitted to a public hospital and mostly the patients there are not being treated well by some staff and nurses. she told me that after her operation via Cesarean Section (CS) she heard a cry from her baby but all of a sudden, her baby was struggling and fighting for life. Only her younger sister who is pumping her chest trying to revive the baby and all the staff in the hospital are just watching as nothing happens.
When we chatted, she tried to catch up with her baby before delivering the coffin into her grave. but they had to wait for the doctor for the signature on the release paper before going out. While she is not around I send her a picture where her baby inside the coffin.
I know it was very painful for her but everything in our life has a reason, I always say that to her. Moving on in this kind of disaster in her life is never easy and she needs a lot of understanding and support from her family.
*We're very close since before when we are at school elementary until we graduated from high school. We also have the same name we are "****TuKayó"❗***
I really pity her, I know the feeling of loss. I was once got a miscarriage 11 years ago supposedly my second child but I lost him/her. I find it hard in moving on but I had to be strong at that time because I have a child depending on me. I will always be positive to continue living a life that God preferred for me and my family as well.
I messaged her," `don't be sad and you have an Angel now with our God, he has a good reason for all of this happening in your life".`
She needs a lot of support and Understanding from her family that's why I always make up to her to make her feel that I'm at her back all the time. I hope she can recover fast and move forward to a new beginning in her life.
*Sending hugs to all mothers*❤
`Thanks for reading!`
`The lead image and all the photos above were all mine unless it is stated`
@maria_23
Focus on goals, Fiesta, and birthday
Article # 127
November 02, 2022
I thought today was still October days but I got mistaken every time I type the month and date above. Time flies very fast and I can't help the feeling of excitement because of so much expecting some important events before this year's end.
*Hello, and how are you read cashers?*
How are you feeling right now? Maybe some of you are still overwhelmed after the long weekend vacation from different places with your loved ones. Having a vacation is random so, let's make the most out of it and build good memories together with families and friends.
For those who want to ask me what about my story during the weekend, let's say I am happy even though I am busy with my commitment lol. I should always put first my important matters before any other events because it depends on our source of income put at stake if we do not finish the said deadline from our boss.
But anyway I will close this ka dramahan now and proceed to my main topic for today's blog.
****Straight forward on aiming my goals******!**
By this November, I have two events that I need to be prepared for physically , mentally,but the most should be ready for is the budget hehehe. I need more money this time as ako lang din inaasahan pag may occasion. I hope and pray that the green bot will be nice to me this time. But If he is not ready yet I understand.
**Two important occasions that I must prepare for starting today.**
*Fiesta in my hometown, November 20, 2022*
This coming November 20, we celebrate the barrio fiesta in my hometown. My mother stayed there in our province since she got ill many years ago. We visit her every fiesta so that means once a year only we have a chance to be together so I try so hard to save money before the time of travel. I am the one who will buy for our handaan every fiesta that's why I feel pressured because I don't have the money yet for the said event.
Memories last year,I hope it will happen again this time. A simple celebration would be enough for us we don't need great preparation because every time we are together, things will go smoothly, and were just go with the flow.
*My Daughter's 13th birthday, November 23, 2022*
Last year, I prepared for her a simple celebration with our families and friends.I saw in her face how happy she was and I will try harder now to save money for her coming birthday. I tell her that maybe I cannot afford to buy her a cake and a Lechon belly this time because I find it hard to budget our expenses as our marketing continues to keep arising. She said, It was okay and she understand our situation no need to spend much on her birthday but as a mother,I want to make the best for my daughter but I should consider also our situation is not really in a good position right now.
I hope I can achieve this month and end with good memories,I will try hard and pray to God and he guide me in all my life plans.
`Good luck and God bless Self!`
`The lead image is from Unsplash.`
`Thanks for reading!`
@maria_23
A big blessing from BCH!
Article # 126
November 01, 2022
Yeezy! A happy new month to all of us my dearest readers and writers, I wish you all a good start to our journey, and may God bless us with more earnings as well and build a good relationship together. I hope everyone is in a good state in celebrating all saints and souls day with families and friends.
How was my day today?
I'm fine and I took a rest today since this is the only day that I don't have work. And tomorrow will be another day full of workloads. It's rare to have time to relax so I make sure everything is settled before I take a break. So, since today is the first day of November I want to share with you guys here about my outcomes from October.
`My Earnings`
I converted my BCH into pesos at the end of every month and I am very happy because, for me, It is already a huge amount and it gives a big help to my finances. Thank you so much for the tips and upvotes to all my generous friends, more blessings to you, and most importantly Good health and wellness. I cannot end up like this without your help and support even though the green baby is randomly visiting my write-ups I'm still thankful because You are all kind and I know we are all in need but you choose to give and share. You know who you are guys Thank you so much!
*****Buying load from my BCH*****
It's very convenient for me to purchase a load for my data connection from my BCH that I converted a while ago. I don't need to go to a loading station to buy a load because it is now available in our wallet account if you have savings there.
I didn't expect this notification this morning because I'm not a good writer like others who has excellent blogging. But I am so much thankful for recognizing my hard work. Another proof that I got improved over time passed charrizz!😂
*****Our viands and dessert from my BCH!*****
After I withdrew my BCH, my partner and I decided to buy these foods since today is our rest day then we plan to eat much hahaha! It's worth it to celebrate those simple things I received especially Good health and peace of mind. Many problems and Hardships we encounter every day so let's embrace all the complicated situations and find a way to overcome them. be optimistic and focus on your goals every step of the way we have to be tough for the better future of ourselves and the family we surrounded.
I still have a remaining balance in my Gcash account. I will save it and focus on more grindings in the platform for this month. I have to make it double, the Christmas season is fast approaching I prefer to buy some stuff for my nephews and nieces to make them happy. Setting up some goals maybe in my next article, I can have some pointers on what I want to achieve in a new month.
Happy Halloween guys! Please keep safe wherever you are right now, and avoid some unnecessary movements that will cause a disaster like what happened in **Itaewon South Korea 🇰🇷.**
`That's all for today and thank you for reading!`
`The lead image and all the photos above were all mine.`
@maria_23
How do I manage my Sunday to be productive?
Article # 125
October 31, 2022
Hey guys, how are you today? I am happy and excited because tomorrow is another new month to celebrate and looking forward to the coming Christmas season by next month. Feeling nervous as well because as we experience in the past months and days, we are suffering a lot of disasters like ***typhoons and earthquakes in some places in our country.***
But I know God will protect us from any calamities coming into our lives. Many things we do not understand why this all happened but I always have faith that everything happens for a reason.
*How did I make my Sunday productive*?
Sunday is not new to me nor a special day because each second of our time is important. I have many plans and goals that I want to achieve no matter how long it is. ***Being lazy is out of my vocabulary*** I know it will never be easy in taking my path to reach my goals but at least I tried hard so that I will not feel regret and guilt that I never try.
`The first step, preparing a breakfast`
I woke up at 5 am and together with my partner we went to the market and buy some viands that we eat for our breakfast. Usually, on Sundays, we do not act so rushed in the morning because it's a rest day but not today and I need to be present at work for so many job orders to do. I promised yesterday to my boss that I will finish the product this Wednesday.
`Second step, at work`
After we ate breakfast, I did not waste any minute and I proceed directly to my workplace which is only at the front of our house. very convenient for me, and this work is such a great blessing for us all here. work is important because this is our source of income and gives us a better life for our family so be serious about what you commit. This is how I love and treasure my work.
`Third step, buying groceries`
Yes, these are my favorite activities that I need to do every Sunday. I only perform my work only for a half-day because there are also important things that I need to do. filling up some lacking stocks in my little sari_sari store so I need to buy some. So here at the counter, after my payments the cashier hand over the receipt to me and asks me to go to customer service.
My single receipt is worth 4,055.85 pesos or 81 dollars and the good news is the grocery mall celebrating Halloween week so they put on a sale. I go directly to customer service and I gave my receipt to the assigned girl staff and she return it with a gift certificate.
Wow! I'm very happy to have this gift certificate because it would be a big help in my next purchase of goods by next week and I have this now 3 dollars. I will save and claim it by next week.
`fourth step, washing laundry`
We arrived home from the grocery store at 4 pm so I decided first to do some laundry I set aside my goods and maybe I will organize and display them in the stall in the morning coz I don't have enough strength for now. all day at work is not easy but of course, I'm glad for all the things I've done today.
**My words,**
Sometimes we do multiple things because we want to reach our goals as soon as possible right? Like me, I always focus on things that make my day more productive, but it is not easy to fulfill what we desire in just one day. My way is that I made a plan of what would I do first and then what is next to avoid unfinished business and ending with nothing.
I am not bragging about myself but to inspire others who always believe in themselves that they cannot do such things instead, just focus and aim for your goals with timing and you will reach this all with a smile in the end.🙂
The lead image and all the photos I uploaded are all mine.
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
I need to work even holidays!
Article # 124
October 29, 2022
Everywhere in the Philippines is now experiencing heavy rain due to typhoon Paeng and it's sad because supposedly this day is the first day of the holidays for Halloween but how can people travel if the weather is not safe for us to go out from home?
Always put first our safety and be alert in whatever possible happens during this time. It will end soon just keep on praying for our brothers and sisters who are now suffering because of this calamity. I hope they can surpass this all happenings, I trust God in his power that everything will be fine and protect us from any danger.
By the way, hello my fellow bloggers how was your weekend so far? maybe many of you here were very happy since it would be a long week with your families and relatives to have bonding times and make memories for keeps.
This morning, my boss texted me about our work. He said that the buyers of our products were eager to have them next week and I know we cannot reach those dates if we don't work this holidays.
He said that we need to finish the product this coming November 2, Wednesday and I responded that okay and we will finish them on that day.
The buyers are asking for an evaluation of how much we can produce in one week, My boss will only come here to our workplace every Saturday to bring the salaries for us. That's why he keeps on texting me and he gives me 20 dollars as an allowance every week being a caretaker of his business while he was not around.
I responded to to to him that we will find a way to reach the desires of our buyers and also to impress them. I can handle overtime if needed.
Tomorrow is Sunday but we have to work and even this coming two days' holidays (all saints day and all souls day). I was sad because this is a chance to have a break and get some fresh air by traveling somewhere especially going home in the province but I also need to finish my work or else our work will be at stake. I don't want to be like that because many of us are just depending on this field.
We need rest, Yes but we also need this job to sustain the needs of my family. Sometimes we need to sacrifice and choose the better than decide directly without considering the consequences that might end up in trouble for us. Occasions are always there but work if it will lose then what would happen to us?
*What should you choose?*
For those having a travel vacation, please keep safe and enjoy the break ❤
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
The lead image is credited to Unsplash❗
Focus and motivation
Article # 123
October 28, 2022
How was your weekend my fellow writers and readers? So far, mine is not so good because the weather is still not okay and the rain continues pouring out the whole. I'm glad that the classes were suspended due to Typhoon Paeng. I will not be worried again unlike yesterday when the students are at school exactly that they have a first-quarter exam.
`What is my topic today?`
Unfortunately, I don't have any idea what would I write today because I feel demotivated and distracted by so many things that keep on bothering me. I cannot focus on what I need to do. Sometimes, I look in the mirror talking to reflect on what I observed and some of the changes in myself. Sounds weird but I guess this is the best way of coping and getting back on track.
`I am Always Grateful!`
Even though life is hard, I will always be grateful for what I am now. I never regret the path that I choose to walk on for the future ahead because I am so blessed to have this wonderful family by my side.
I am happy and contented with whatever life may bring to us as long as we are together every challenge we face can easily get over because I have this family as my strength and motivates me to look forward and focus on a better plan for tomorrow.
`Determination and perseverance`
Don't let yourself in the destruction that surrounds you instead make this your motivation to achieve your goals in life. All I want in this life is to have a simple and happy life with the people around me who always support and trust my capability to change for the better than before.
`Focus on yourself`
Be true to yourself, Don't waste your time on unnecessary things because you fought for a good life and you deserve to live freely without control on others.Be yourself of who you really are. No obligations to explain all the details in your life with our media and prove to yourself that you can do without expectations at all. When you step forward, focus on where you want to go, and don't ever look back on what has been struggling all along until you catch the end and fulfilling your dreams of what you want to become as an individual.
Realizations
I realized that, It is not good to feel down on ourselves instead trust and love yourself whatever you become. Start learning to appreciate small things and by this, better days await us on top of our journey. we all have values and deserve to be respected. From Now On, I will try my best to live with fe simply and stay away from those negativities.
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
The wilderness of Typhoon Paeng!
Article # 122
October 26, 2022
How are you today my fellow writers and readers? Me? Ohh! I am not good today because of the bad weather that we experience since yesterday. I am worried about my daughter who still needs to go to school because today is their quarter examination. The weather seems so aggressive and no cancellations of classes yet.
They only ride on a motorcycle going to school and I'm afraid something happens to them. the road is slippery and prone to accidents.
Supposedly their classes will end at 11 am, but my daughter texted me that they are out since 10 am already and she wait for her papa to get her.
Thank God, classes were suspended already, it is not safe anymore for the students will stay in the school during typhoon.
Because of the heavy rain, our place in Cebu City was experiencing floods and landslides and so other places are not in good condition. The establishments in the areas are now surrounded by water and transportation was not easy for them to pass the road. Yesterday, I heard from the news that there are three people died because they got electrocuted and one of them is a senior high student from Lapu-Lapu City. I was so sad that another life was been lost over again because of this Typhoon and we have no choice because this situation is Unpredictable to happen. All we can do is to be prepared always and If ever there is another typhoon that will come as much as possible we need to stay at home and be with our families until it's over.
Calamities are made by nature, we cannot determine when or where they will appear. I have a lot of realizations in life and I want to apply this in reality so that I will not regret that I do not tend to have actions when I have an opportunity to do.
Another thing is that people should also put in their mind taking care of nature that's the common reason why we suffer the consequences of our actions. We do not give value to our natural resources by abusing them.
I am thankful that by now, the weather is now constant. I hope it will not rain again today and the typhoon will continue to disappear. The footprints made by the Typhoon will remind us that material things are worthless when time and nature will ask the interest of our bad actions against our nature. This all happens should lead us to enlighten our minds that it is not good to abuse our nature. Because one day, they will our protectors when calamities strike again.
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
"They are not forgotten"
Article # 121
October 25, 2022
Time runs so fast and this week would be the last days of October. And facing another month is just an amazing feeling of moving forward for a new chapter of our lives. Every individual around has different challenges and problems being encountered but I know it will end up soon. it is just a temporary circumstance that helps us to build up our strength and skills to continue striving for our goals in life.
**Advanced visitation at the cemetery**
*Looking forward to this coming all Saints day and all souls day As an old tradition of Filipino culture we will go to the cemetery and offer a prayer to our beloved who passed away. Offering candles and flowers as our present for them. some families will go and spend the whole night at the cemetery. We make them feel that they are not forgotten even though many years passed.*
Last week, I traveled to my hometown with my younger brother because my Lola(grandmother) was on her annual death anniversary last October 18. Since I was already there, I took the opportunity to visit our relatives in the cemetery and put some candles in their graves.
The grave of our Lola, her name was still like that because we cannot afford yet to buy her a Lapida (tombstone). I asked the caretaker from the cemetery and it will cost 120 dollars for the customized size. As usual, no savings yet. I was a little bit sad and frustrated because we are several grandchildren but only me and my brother were there. But I understand maybe they are busy with their respective work and hustle.
After my Lola, we also visited my Lolo's(grandfather) grave. Finally, they reunited again in heaven for sure. He was gone in 20o2 and even though he left us 20 years ago, we still visited him when there is free time and extra money for the fare back and forth.
We go there at the cemetery in advance to avoid being crowded on the exact date. We don't know yet and no news if they will close the cemetery this November 1 and 2 like last year as we all know Pandemic is still present and to avoid continuous transmission of the virus. The government will release a memorandum for not allowing to enter the cemetery and even in crowded places.
Final words,
No matter how long our loved ones have gone, offering them prayer was a big help to their souls. Let's show them that they are not forgotten no matter how long they are away from us. Maybe we cannot see nor hear them but I know they see us from heaven. As a Catholic, I have a strong faith in all these matters. Maybe some people can say that I'm so sentimental and Yes I am! This is all I've learned in my religion on how to value and respect our beloved though they are not here anymore. shower them with the love that they deserved from us.
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
Finally, we are back at work!
Article # 120
October 24, 2022
Hello, my virtual friends around the world! Happy Monday to all of us and I hope everything seems so well. I know everyone struggling with a different scenario in everyday living. Just lift in God when you feel that you could no longer hold back all your worries and struggles. He only knows what would be tomorrow will come for us. ***Godbless and always pray!***
Let's cut the intro guys and I'll go directly on my write-up that I want to share with you today.
Since my life is just around the corner and I almost spend all of my time with my family, work, and side hustle every day. I always have a plan for our future and do what I can to make this goal become possible.
I am happy
Yes, I am happy today because finally after two months of no work, we are now back on track starting today. I prayed and asked our Lord that I badly need a job right now and he did not fail me.
Back to work!
This is only a job out order coming from the company under the subcontractor. Therefore, the way of payment is depending on how many items you can finish to clean and shine.
That woman is my neighbor, I heard that she need a job so I encourage her to be with me in this kind of making money. She also needs money to help her husband who works as a welder and they are renting a room in our neighborhood.
At first, you will find it hard how to finish it but later on, it would be easy when you learn perfectly what would you do to make it clean. It is hard in the first place, but if you have the determination to earn you can do whatever it takes.
I have had this job for almost 13 years, my father, siblings, and also my partner are my colleagues. This is our source of income since before. But sadly, we don't have insurance-like SSS, Philhealth, and PAG_IBIG funds but were thankful that we have a place to live in for free. The owner of this business is kind and has a good heart for all of his employees. We lived without an electric bill, a water bill, and a house to pay for rent. That would be enough for us.
I'm not picky in terms of work, as long as I can earn. And the good things are, I can take care of my daughter even though I work. And can manage my little sari-sari store while working because my store is just beside my working area. and mostly my customers are my colleagues and siblings.
Another bonus for me is that I can take care of my daughter even if I'm at my busiest moment lol. I can pick up my daughter at school after her classes. We just walk going back at home to save our fare. But it is not far it would be a walking distance where we live. then I will go back later to my workplace after lunch.
My words,
Even though our life has full of challenges and struggles, Just be patient and be grateful in every day of our life. When you feel like nothing and unworthy, always think that God has his plans for what he expects to happen to us. nothing would happen if we are just waiting for the blessings.but ofcouse, a courage to continue what you love to do in life.
That's all for today and thanks for reading!
@maria_23
Sunday is the busiest day of my life!
Article # 119
October 23, 2022
Sunday is one of my favorite days of the week, why? Because this is only a day when you can find peace and have your time depending on your mood of what you will do the whole day. Common day off for everybody. but for me, Sunday is my busiest day because of so many things I need to settle at home. Not totally, as relaxing as you think right now. I am a mother and a wife also so, I could no longer think about myself alone. I always do my obligations to my family and I had to make sure their necessities if it is already intact every time they need them.
**What do I usually do on Sunday?**
Since Sunday is off to work, but hey not being a mother and a wife!
I always wake up at 4:30 am, first I do is visiting my online hustle and read some articles from the platform and then after a short while, I watch some videos on youtube and Facebook until the sun goes to rise.
*Let's take the first step of the day with a cup of milk with a piece of a biscuit!❤*
Since Sunday today, no need to rush anything in doing household chores. therefore, I took a sip of milk before starting my goals for today.
***Cook food for breakfast***
Early time, I fried some eggs for our meals. we usually have breakfast every Sunday at 8 am unlike during weekdays, we take a meal at 6 am because I and my partner have to go to work and our daughter will go to school.
After breakfast, I will clean up our bed and fold the bedsheet, pillows, and blanket. I need to set aside them in a corner because we only have a small space in the area. Our home is just a little but not a problem for me, I just need to organize our things well so that it will be a proper consumption of space.
***Washing laundry***
And then after I cleaned up our area, I started to wash my laundry. I scrub first all the jeans last night, and then today was the T-shirts and underwear, I do it all in handwash because I don't have a washing machine. One thing that makes me annoyed is that our water supply is on and off sometimes no water will flow on the faucet the whole day until the next day.
Finally, I'm done and I hung it already. I took a bath first before I put all the clothes on the clothesline. Later, I will go to the market to buy some food and stuff for my little sari_sari store. Yepp!! I'm not done yet with all my activities today until the evening. So expect headache and muscle pain later😢.
So, that's all for today guys! I am running out of topics that's why all I can share you today is what I really do during Sunday. I hope you will like it and even though this is not as an informative topic.
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
In your day,you're the happiest!
Article # 118
October 21, 2022
Hey, what's up my friends? I hope everybody is okay and nothing bad happens in your respective home and places where you are right now. since today is the weekend, let's give time for our family to go to some places and enjoy every moment of being with them.
For today's article, Please allow me to introduce my partner who is celebrating his birthday today.
" *Happy birthday my loves, I wish God will always shower blessings on you and our family too. Please always take care of yourself and may your ambitions in life will come to reality soon in God's will. God always hears our prayers just be patient okay? You are the best father to our daughter and a partner to me. I hope you will never change and thank you for all the sacrifices you've done for us. Yang2x and I will always be in you side no matter what,* ***I love you much and enjoy your birthday❤.***
So today,I want to share about the birthday celebration of my partner and I will show you what we prepared for his birthday.Just a simple only because yan lang ang nakayanan ng budget ko hahaha.
These are the foods that I prepared this afternoon, even if it is just a little I hope all can eat and enjoy the viands. Every year, I will make sure that I can handle his birthday with a celebration. I save money for their birthdays because It just happens once a year so, I will give my best to make them happy. I told him to invite his friends for dinner and have a short talk and have some drinks but in moderation only.
We have our dinner together with our families and friends. this is a common situation when all are hungry 😅 scattering everywhere and finding their sits where they can eat comfortably with their foods.
And after eating, I cleaned up our mess.syempre feeling visitors ang lahat kaya ako ang bahala na Naman lol but it is very okay then ako naman nag imbita ahh.
I am thankful that today's celebration was very successful and I saw in my partner's face how happy he is.
My words,
I always put my family first before anything else, even though I am busy sometimes but I make sure that everything I do is for them and I know they are proud of me as well. Like celebrating birthdays,I tried to make them memorable and happy.we only celebrate once in a year so I prepare this ahead of time so that no hassle will happen.
Have a good day to all and thank you for stopping by my write-up today.
God bless us all!
@maria_23
The lead image and all the photos I uploaded above were originally come from my gallery.
A mother and daughter bonding moments!
Article # 117
October 20, 2022
Oh! It's Thursday again and the weekend is waving at me! lol ako lang ba ang excited parang kayo din naman ah😅 but anyways, guys let's start our day with so much gratitude for all the blessings we received and use it in the best way we can.
Since my day sounds good, I decided to go to the mall with my daughter today. the weather seems so fine so I plan to have a date with my daughter as I want to go bonding with her. No matter how busy we are, we should give time to our children to make them happy and enjoy themselves.
I told her to take a picture to make her smile coz we are on the bus at that time and she feel dizzy because of the bad essence of air due to the smoke coming from the cars. She smiled but I can feel that she was not comfortable already. She does not use to ride the bus because we seldom go out together and we just ride a motorcycle when we go on shopping or go somewhere.
We go to the nearest mall in the city for a reason that she asks me to buy her new school shoes because the last time she wears them was destroyed while walking out of her classroom after classes.
She loves to wear high heels than flat shoes. Therefore, we roam around the whole market because almost out-of-stock from all the nearest malls in our place. I only bought that shoes from the sidewalk displays. I guess it was very good and not easy to be destroyed. While we are having window shopping, we stopped by for her favorite snack to eat which is "Santino's Pizza".
And after an hour, since it was lunchtime already we decided to have lunch at Mang Inasal so we go immediately there to take an order because sometimes when at noon many customers have their lunch, they are running out of table space there's a possibility that we cannot get our own table to eat.
Chicken Inasal is the best! With a hot sauce and kalamansi
We always go and back to eat Mang Inasal, our favorite fast-food chain. Aside from the cheap price, It is also very delicious and surely you will be full and your money to pay is worth it. Eating is one of our bonding moment together with my family but for now, I and my daughter only because my partner were at his work. But we never forget him even a minute. Since tomorrow is his birthday, my daughter wants to buy him a gift.
I didn't notice that she sent a picture in messenger to her father of the gift we bought for him. Her father loved to wear earrings so she decided to buy a pair of earrings as a surprise gift. My daughter is a very sweet and smart kid, she looked at us and make sure that we were happy and okay. She is the biggest achievement and worth that give meaning to my life. That way when I turn out so much busy, I tried to catch her up when I have time .her father and I will go decide on what we are going to do after our work.
My words,
Always find a way to catch up on our loved ones,especially when we are so much busy.take a break for a while and spend some times for the family because it is very important to have bonding moments with them. Time will pass and never turn it back so let's take this time now to prove to them that they are the most important than anything else.let your children experience the best care we can offer to them. So that, no regrets at the end!
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
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The things I've learned, happy five months and counting!
Article #116
October 19, 2022
Oh my G! I've been so glad when I saw my profile account flashing it there that I am at five months of being part of this community as a writer. Lol, Do I deserve to claim the term "*writer"?*
So anyways, I am not in the mood now to write anything because my body seems not feeling well and my mind does not cooperate since I arrived last night from the province. But I want to share the happiness that I feel when I
still here for about 5 months already. Sending my gratitude to this community and of course my virtual friends who always supporting my journey here on blogging sites.
Happy five months to me❗
Time flies so fast, I couldn't expect myself that I can stay here until now because becoming a writer is never come to my mind since then. These were very far from my goals or ambitions that I want to become in the future. In short, I'm not Intelligent enough to be part of and mingle with other writers because you are all professionals in all aspects of blogging.
Sorry but I can't help comparing myself to others, I'm just stating what's in my heart. I know it is not good to get low myself.
Lesson learned from the past four months
Many things I discovered make me encourage myself to continue and never give up. No easy ways to catching our goals in life. Sometimes I feel neglected but more often, many people push me to stand up and continue pursuing what I want to achieve in this journey of blogging.
***Be patient***
I am not the kind of person who put myself in a situation where I will be the one who gets pressured in the end. I better decline the opportunity even though I didn't try it. But now, I've changed a lot I've learned to strengthen my patience and I knew to wait until things turn visible and acted. This would be the best asset that I wish to have in myself which is patience.
***Trust your capabilities***
Every individual has their strength and capabilities. It's up to us how to develop this kind of ability in ourselves. I've learned to trust myself in what I can do. before when I am not part of this community, I am afraid of trying new things because I always say *" I can't ".I couldn't believe even in my dreams to become part of this online world".*
***Enjoy and Explore***
At first, I find it hard to mingle and make friends with other writers because I'm afraid of getting neglected. I'm not used to having a conversation with people that I never meet in person. But I was very wrong, I never expect that it is possible making friends virtually, and sharing of thoughts and experiences with people around the world. Exploring is now my new habit and I am happy with this.
***Be friendly and respect each other***
The best reason why I love this community is that I appreciate so much all writers here, especially those bloggers who are always there to keep on motivating me and inspiring me to write more and more.No judging at all, they are all respectful to each other. I like them, even more, when they also give tips and Upvotes to give positive thoughts and express their support for me. Thank you so much, guys!
*My words,*
I am very thankful to all my virtual friends around the world, Even though I'm not good at writing, but still you keep on supporting me guys. This community gives me a big help not only in earnings but you give me a home to lean on and depending on times of trouble. When there are problems, you are always there to give advice and coping me when I'm in a state of doubt.
Long live read. Cash community!❤
A prayer for more blessings and success to all writers🥰
Thanks for reading!
The lead image is originally mine
@maria_23
A very exhausting kind of travel, a little bit disappointed
Article #115
October 18, 2022
Today is the death anniversary of our grandmother, I traveled yesterday from the city in the very early morning because our province is far away from where I stayed. Almost 5 hours of commuting, riding on a bus for 3 hours and our place is far away from highways, therefore, I need to get up so early. Since I only have two days of staying there, I tried to go there as much as early so that I can make a chance to have a small talk and bonding with my cousins,Aunties and Uncles.
We only visited here so randomly because aside from it taking much time to travel, it is also far away from highways and the road is narrow and rough it is not safe especially if you have a child with you riding on a motorcycle with no safety gear to wear like helmet and padding.
My mother and his two brothers(Uncles) rode together going to our house at the top of the mountain. As you have seen in the picture 4 people in one motorcycle is too dangerous but we have no choice because these are their source of income. the driver should pick up 3 to 4 passengers to earn and the fare was 1 dollar for each person. It is one of the disadvantages of continuing the high price of gasoline, people should double their efforts to gain money from picking up passengers. But anyway,
I feel happy that I can also visit my relatives there and meet up with my cousins for an as long time we do not have a chance to get to know each other. But when we got home, my happiness turn out to be a disappointment when my house look like this.
When typhoon Odette hit our place last December 16, 2021, this was my first visit here and I was so sad to see the fruit of my hard work turn into pieces. Only my uncle watches my house when we are in the city for work.
This small house is very memorable too because I built this when I was 21 years old and the money I used was my first savings when I started to work. many years of savings become meaningless but I know God always had a good purpose for us at least during the typhoon my families are all safe and sound.
At this time, I am on the bus riding back to the city now while I typing this article. I want to ask your consideration that I can't visit your articles guys because I'm still traveling at this moment maybe I can catch up by tomorrow.
The lead image and all the photos I uploaded are all mine.
Thanks for reading!
@maria_23
How do you celebrate a birthday?
Article #114
October 15, 2022
Hello everyone here! How are you all today guys? It's a weekend again and has time to relax and rest for a while to recharge our bodies to regain the strength that we spend the whole week working and grinding to earn more.
***Let's have a short talk about birthdays!***
When you heard about birthdays, what would you feel?
Birthdays are supposed to be happy occasions where celebrations, being spoiled, and positive reflection are all part of the day. However, **some people feel a sense of dread every time a birthday approaches.**
Even though we celebrated our birthday in simple ways, as for myself I would be very happy and feel special. There are mixed feelings like nervous and excited when the exact day will come. Prepare some food for family gatherings and as a Thanksgiving for an additional year in our life.
*How do we simply celebrate birthdays?*
Celebrating birthdays is part of our culture up to this modernization. we cannot deny the fact that our generation today is very much appreciated in having some parties and appointing some gatherings in restaurants or any place that surely everybody will enjoy and have fun. But it will possibly happen only when you have money to pay and spend on it.
Please allow me to share this celebration, today is the birthday of my Uncle (my father's brother) supposedly, his birthday was on last Thursday, October 13 but he has no money to celebrate it, and since today is Saturday and his payday also. He has a chance to celebrate even though it was passed already. He bought 2 kilograms of pork meat and grilled it for our dinner tonight.
Grilling pork is one of the common food being served on special occasions. "*masarap pang pulutan" sa inuman.*
Serving time! Eating together!
The serving food was served in a piece of banana leaves as our plate Lol. They look timid at first, but when they eat already they act like no tomorrow lol.😂
After eating, they took a shot of beers for relaxing and enjoy each others company by sharing their different thoughts and experienced from the past.Some past memories made them so much fun to remember and reminiscing those funny moments they encounter during their childhood days.
"*We are all full now! Thanks a lot Almighty God for the food we eat and for Good health as always".*
These are how we celebrate a birthday with every member of our family and friends.It doesn't matter how simple it is. The most important is you are happy and you're feeling special on your birthday.
Have some small talks and enjoy on others present, have fun and appreciate what you have, and value the people around you!🥰
Thanks for reading!
The lead image ang all photos I used were all mine.
@maria_23
Finally! I can cook better now❗
Article #113
October 14,2022
Happy Friday to all!
Hey what's up my fellow writers? I know we've been all affected for the sudden change of our BCH continuing to drop so low.Im not knowledgeable so much about crypto but I have my sympathy to all because some of us here depend on earnings made by read dot cash and I am one of those lol. I need more earnings though it is hard to pursue things that you are not capable of as a writer I will not give up I know I can improve better and better, and as time will pass I'm pretty sure I can get a good appreciation as a blogger in this community.
*"I am the type of person that is not easily giving up without battling. and that's the spirit!*
money is very essential in our daily living and sustaining our expenses and needs therefore,we should find ways on how we can cope with the problems we are facing all the time.
Since the income from my partner is not enough for all our necessities so I did my way on how I can help him so that he can feel that I am his backup char!
Yesterday, I was dropped by @Jeansapphire39 article she's about to sell some viands in their place and then I commented that I sell also here in my partner's workplace and I am shy to share this mine because I am still in the process of learning on how to cook. Only simple dishes I know. Shes the one who give me an idea to share this and thanks to you sissy.And now, I dare to show this because maybe I can get some comments or suggestions that might can help me to improve in cooking.
Dishes I cooked
These are the recipes that I practice more to learn because aside from being easy to cook, it is also at good prices in the market you can sell them at a cheap price to the customers as they can minimize their budget also. I only cook one or two dishes a day and thankfully it was sold out every day. Kapag may problema hanapan ng solusyon at huwag hintayin na ang grasya ang lalapit sa atin.
**In every problem, there's a solution and I know God is always with us, especially in the hardest time. All we have to do is find that solution by taking action. I know it would not be easy but that's life walang madali sa pag achieve ng mga goals sa buhay at least sinubukan natin.di man tayo mag success the important is we tried.**
Mostly, people are born with extraordinary skills that everyone has the talent and strength to achieve in life but it depends on how you act this in good purpose.
Selling is a job that you can be proud of. Even if it is just a small business at least you are earning. Always make a way to improve your daily life and live with peace and contentment.
Thanks for reading!
The lead image and all photos above are mine
@maria_23
Life is hard,but it is simple
Article #112
October 13, 2022
"*No matter how you keep yourself to be tough and strong, there are times that you feel like wanting to give up everything for the reason that you're tired and have no more strength to fight back against all the challenges you've been going through".*
Good morning read dot cash family! How are you today guys? Me? Oh! I'm okay then even though sometimes life is hard but this is part of our journey to face some hardships to experience and as your stepping stone to pursue your goals in life.
Hardship in life is not a hindrance to achieving your ambitions, it's a matter of time and courage to improve your visions in life for a better future.
Before, when I am at a young age I have a lot of plans and ambitions in life, I won't deny the fact that I was once dreaming to become rich someday lol. But not all are destined to become one, but I am not complaining about what a life I have today because I am happy and blessed. Even if we do not have much money at least we have peace of mind and healthy as well that's important.
"**Life is short"** Ika nga diba, we don't know what would happen tomorrow when the last part of our journey is here in this world. No one knows our fate when it last.
Live simple
I used to be happy even in small things comes into my life, I won't complain nor reject those opportunities that have passed my way. I am contented but it doesn't mean that you will stop your ambition it's your choice on how you manage your life to be more comfortable and worthy.
Avoid negativities
Yes, we got easily distracted when we heard something negative talk about us. Some words can affect our focus on what we do and we're not handling properly our emotions that's why some people turn away from negative feelings of unworth. then it will start falling apart and forget what's your purpose why you working too hard on your ambition.
Avoid toxic people
For me, this would be the saddest part of our life because usually, the person who doesn't trust our capabilities and strength are mostly our families and those people around us always. Their words are like venom that poisons us and turns us intoxicated.
Be true to yourself
Accept and love yourself for what you are. Look at the bright side of life maybe now is not so good for you but all of your sufferings is just temporary and it will not last forever. Life is wonderful to live when you keep on believing that there's a change in the way that you want to achieve and that all your desire will fall at the right time. Be yourself,it will leads you to attract people who will accept,love, and appreciate all your hard work. We cannot please everybody and we are not in the position to explain anything to them just focus on your goals and start feeling worthy because we all deserve to receive the best of life has to offer.
By the way,a special thanks to this wonderful virtual friend of mine since day one she is one of a good motivator until now she's supporting me and keep on renewing her sponsorship, and no other than sis @BCH_LOVER thank you and more blessings to come in your wallet❗❤
Thanks for reading!
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Awareness at home: parents should be a good reflection to the children
Article #111
October 12, 2022
Hello, Wednesday!
Oh my! It's almost half of the month today and I'm so excited about the coming events that we celebrated every year like All Saint's day and All souls day this coming November and the most awaited and exciting part of this year in is Christmas day ❗❤
Before anything else ,I would like to send my gratitude to all my beautiful and friendly sponsors displayed above in my sponsor's block. You are all amazing guys! Thank you so much for the blessings you showered to me and on others also.God bless you all🙏
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Let's talk about relationship between the parents and the children.
In our new generation today,as I watched some videos on facebook or some social media sites there are many changes in how children treated their parents and how parents treated their children. Disciplines must come inside our home and this is the most needed for our children to learn how to adjust themselves on adopting what is happening in the real world.
But, some circumstances are not suitable for our children to see or to be heard that might get them wrong. And they do not know whats the point on all happenings surrounded by them.
Look at the picture below,
I saw this video on Facebook a while ago and to make this things to be clear, I will give a short summary in that situation.
The father of this girl is in the army and was missing a quite long ago, all his family members, as well as his wife, thought that he was dead already but one time he came home with little changes because of trauma during his mission. Isabelle sees everything that her mother having an affair with his father's brother.His daughter seems so angry and not happy about his return. Shouting and has a bad temper she faced his father with an angry face saying"*Couldnt you just stay dead"?*
Can you imagine how was a child saying that phrase to his own father,his blood?
The father was shocked looking up at his daughter with so much anger to him and he almost hit her. confused and frightened at that moment of confrontation between them.
Isabelle saw on what has happened inside their house while his father was out.
Her mom and her uncle,(the brother of his father) having an affair.
She tells to everybody about the affair with her mom and Uncle. You can see in the face of Isabelle how her frustration going through. She'd burst out all her anger because of everything she witnessed during those times before her father come home.
The situation contributes a big impact to Isabelle,expressing her painful emotions including sadness,fairs of abandonment,misconceptions ,guilt, and etcetera. And Im sure she's afraid that someday she will also experience that kind of pain of betrayal like she saw on her parents. these are some outcomes would happen to them.
Trauma
The trauma caused by this kind of scenario seeing by our children at home will remain in their minds that could hardly for them to move on and some questions are hanging on their minds why do those things exist on their lives?
Hard to trust
They lost their confidence and have a low self-esteem. they try to get away with other companions. They used to be alone and trusted only on themselves. Possible thinking that anytime or anybody could hurt them or betray them one day.
My last words,
Parents should be the one to guide their children to take the right path as a role model for the better tomorrow and have a bright future someday. Love your children and make the best thing that we can offer to them because when we destroy their trust ,they will lose interest in so many reasons. Parents should be responsible the way you act as a parent. We as a parent they look at us as their reflections on what kind of person or a parent you are to them.
That's all for today!
Thanks for reading!
The lead image and the photos above are from the screenshot of my Facebook account🙂
Unexpected blessings I received from sis @Jeansapphire39 🥰thank you so much gi add ko nimo sa imong list.God bless nimo sis❗❤
Debt is Debt
Article #110
October 11, 2022
Welcome, Monday!
It's so nice waking up every morning with happy thoughts and a positive mindset should be intact in our personality. On a contrary, we do experience not so good all the time but we have to stay in order because not all the time we suffer such undesirable situations. It is just temporary and when things get good, we can realize how "*God prepares us to become tough in facing the reality of life".*
For today's write _up.
I don't know how to start this blog because I do feel not comfortable and I'm so annoyed for some reason that made my day so dissapointed. So no further I do the story goes like this,
When I started to have a small sari_sari store at first,It was all fine and go smoothly. every payday when I have some extra money I will buy some additional stocks to be displayed and we should take advantage to gain customers.
Lol,Di naman kalakihan itong pinagmamalaki kung business😅 pero I tried to make it improve and " Palaguin" little by little. But in doing this kind of business we cannot avoid that some of your neighbors will ask for credit and they will pay when its payday.I had no choice because I also understand this kind of situation.I was been there when I don't have enough money for our needs.I also ask for a credit on my "suking tindahan".but it is our obligations to pay it on time.
I also offer a **Gcash cash in/cash out** for just a small capital only.as we all know it will be very useful nowadays and offers a good and easiest transaction for money and even load,pay bills,online games,and etc. everything went well until I met this new neighbor of mine, she has a local furniture business and she's also a Gcash User. She is a gamer in online gambling and she's my regular customer in Gcash until she just text me nalang if she needs Gcash.Syempre kailangan natin pagbigyan in mind ehh she can afford naman because she and his partner running a business so she has a lot of money.
When she texted me,she only ask 1000 pesos for cash in and then she make a promise to pay on the afternoon. But I observed that she keeps on promising but she do not fulfill . Until it will become tomorrow or another day.I tried to understand her maybe she's busy thats why she cannot pay.
These was the latest text that I received from her and She ask for a credit in gcash.It happened on October 05 but shes not gonna reply on my text messages I always texted her and ask for the payment and she always promises but she did give her payment just this evening.
I don't like those people who keep on promising but do not want to pay. credit is debt so we must pay it on time.I am tired of asking her payment all the time.
I think mapera naman sya because of their business they also have some cars for the delivery but one thing I realized is that not all the time can a debtor will pay you formally.
My conclusion,
In doing business we should take long our patience to sustain a good relationship with our customers. some people are good at making Depts but are hardest to pay even though there are a lot of money. Something comes up in my mind that a good payer is not a matter of money that they has,It's an attitude.
"Minsan kung sino pa yung maraming pera sila pa yung matigas magbayad ng utang."
Sunday update:A busy life!
Article #109
October 10, 2022
Oh! It's Sunday again and seems I had a Hangover for a long day yesterday. Sunday is supposedly a rest day, right? But not everybody can rest so calmly because Sunday is my busiest day of the whole week.
However, I woke up at 6 in the morning and have some coffee first before I cook food for our meals. It is my rotation every Sunday. I firstly cook some rice and after that I will go with my LIP to the market to buy some meat or fish we have a little conversation about what we are going to buy for our viands.
I decided to buy 1/2 kilograms of galonggong fish for tinola and he choose to buy also 1/2 kilograms of lechon for breakfast and also for lunch na din.mahirap mag hanap ng ulam pag tanghali malayo din ang palengke.
These were the viands I prepared this morning for our breakfast, it very important to have meals because it gives us enough strength for all the activities we do the whole day. And as I observed that the clouds are so blue and I'm sure we got a high temperature of heat today that's why after we eat our food, I take a bath first before leaving the house. Today is Sunday and Our schedule is for buying some groceries for the whole week of consumption and some stocks for my little sari_sari store.
While riding on our motorcycle heading towards the Department store, we saw a coconut juice vendor on the street and we stopped for a while for a drink.
Buko juice is one of our delicacies in Cebu City or everywhere around the Philippines. It is very yummy and sweet especially when it is cold. It can satisfy your thirsty. Anyways, after we finish our buko juice we go directly to the department store and buy all the products that we need for the whole week.
Luckily,we headed so early and only a few customers fell in line at the counter. I am happy coz everything going smoothly unlike some other Sundays, we fall in line for almost an hour for so many customers, especially when it's payday.
My "chaperon" Lol. Buti nalang he has a good temper in falling in line,sya talaga yung matyaga pumila and I will roam around until our turn to the counter.
It was around noon when we finished purchasing our goods. Since our daughter left at home, she will be happy when we bring her a "Jollibee" as compensation to her. Lol
For me, Sunday is the most tiring moment for so many things I've been doing. But I will never be complaining because it was a great blessing and it is also for the better of my family. When everything seems fine and happy. Tiring days and all the struggles I've been facing will all be worth it.
**Everything I do is for my family, All I want for them is to have simple and happy contentment in life. Even though we are not so blessed with Money, were still thankful to our Almighty God for giving me a chance to live and enjoy exploring the world with my wonderful family.**
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Happy Sunday to all❤
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Life and money
Article #108
October 08, 2022
*How are you read dot cash family? I hope everything is fine and that have more blessings to come for our homes and Good health for everybody.*
*Every time wakes up each morning, I pray and thank God for all the good and bad things that happened in my life.* **Good,** Because I still breathing, alive, and kicking for he gives me a chance to do more things in the future it is not yet the end to make a change for a better life. **Bad,** I should be glad also because these are the reason why I turn into a strong person and all the bad thing*s* that happened are just a weapon to learn and achieve my goals in life.
Since today,I am not in the mood to write but still I want to stay positive no matter how laziness attaches on my "katawang Lupa". Dapat di magpapadala dahil may pangarap ako na gusto kung abutin para sa sarili at syempre kasama na dun yung family diba.
Sometimes,I feel so disgusted knowing that for every situation or goal that we want to achieve, **Money is the center** of all things around the world.
All I want is to have a stable financial status as insurance for the future we want to. Some people say that "***Money cannot buy happiness" and*** we heard these words over and over again. I used to believe in this statement but when I started to live on my own until I have my own family right now, I slowly understand and realized that we do not happen to live without money.
We all have the ambition to earn money practically speaking, I don't want to be a hypocrite by saying that money is meaningless because it is. But we should not forget that it is just a material that can sustain our needs like food and other *necessity.* ***Life is the most valuable on earth, we only live once therefore always choose life and make the most memorable one until the end of our journey".***
Life is not all about happiness, when we feel that we suffered a lot there are times that we want to give up everything. But I realize that Life thought us how to be patient and courageous on what our plans in the future.when everything is falling apart don't ever surrender because I know it is just temporary and it will pass at the right time. God only prepares us for the bigger battle that we have to face behind bars.
Ang daming dahilan para magpatuloy sa buhay, salat man sa pera ang mahalaga marunong tayo mag angat sa sarili nating kakayahan upang guminhawa ang ating pamumuhay. Mahalaga sa tao ang pera but we should put in our mind that proper management is important to learn because some people born with much money and wealth but they dont have skills on how to keep it stable. But when you have the ability to manage your skills you will be a successful and achieve your goals with a progressive life as well.
Thanks for reading!
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Massacre incident from Bangkok Thailand
Article #107
October 07, 2022
Have you heard the trending news world today my friends? It was so shocking that no one could ever imagine it will happen in just one blink of an eye 👁️
Why do people come to this point of killing? Are they not afraid Of God?
Yesterday, I was shocked watching the news on tv and also trending topics on social media about the incident that happened somewhere in **Bangkok Thailand.**
The massacre took place at the **Child Development Center in Nong Bua Lamphu Provinces Uthaisawan Na Klang district.**
The name of the suspect is **Panya khamrab a 34-year-old and a former Police officer.** He got dismissed being a police officer last January because of using illegal drugs according to the investigation, He got to school to find his 2-year-old son but he did not find the boy, and then the attacker enter the room where the 24 children are sleeping because it happened at noon and other staffs from the center are having their lunch.
According to the eyewitness, the attacker enters the premises without a word and took the gun from his wrists pulled the trigger, and killed the children using a gun and knife. He stabbed the children and the staff resulting in their death.
After the horrific incident, the suspect was going home and he also kill his wife and son before committing suicide.
A short background,
Thailand rank as the Southeast Asian Country with the second highest_gun homicides after the Philippines, according to the Institute for Health Metrics and Evaluation(IHME) at the University of Washington's 2019 Global Burden of Disease of Database.
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While reading the news this morning, I feel so terrible imagining that scenario of what exactly happened at that time. Watching those parents almost lose their senses because of so much pain of losing their children supposedly at school is the safest place for them.
How come there are kinds of people who can kill innocents even children who are living with big ambitions for future generations?
No matter what his reason is, No one has the right to do that kind of brutal killing. God forbid, no more incidents like this everywhere in countries all over the world. The government should be aware of this and secure the safety of our countrymen.
If you want to read for more and exact details you can search it on google and read the news from **CNN.**
The lead image and all the photos above came from google at CNN news world.
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