It is customary to make a judgment of that day as each day ends. Like what we dreamed about, what happened. Who has entered our lives, who has been out at the most unlikely times? Or I ask myself endless questions such as in which stops we spent the most time. And at the beginning of each new year, I intend to have a healthy life with my loved ones. Despite the events taking place outside, to love, to produce, to work and to add my soul to every moment of life. For this reason, I would like to share my own prescription with you.
Reading well what life brings
When an incident happened to me, I tried to decipher the sub-message he gave me. Sometimes it made me see my weaknesses and sometimes it made me appreciate myself. To be able to do this, not from the window of good or bad to all events, "What should I add to myself from this event?" it meant for me.
To show my feelings more to my loved ones
I can say that this subject was the leading role of the past. We made our family and friends feel more affectionate, sometimes by video calls and sometimes by seeing them from a distance, for whom we are sure that they are always in our lives and whose values we do not know exactly. The fact that the reality we live in can change at any time has made us be more courageous with our feelings and emotions. Likewise, we could easily remove people we could not get out of our lives in this mood. While we were selfish we multiplied without realizing it actually.
Realizing my inner potential
As we were alone, we became aware of our inner potential. Some returned to their old hobbies, some started new pursuits, others wrapped themselves in the kitchen. What seemed simple reminded us that we didn't spare any time for ourselves. While we were focused on not spending our time alone, the sudden closeness to the house enabled us to set off on a path towards ourselves. After a long time we started to think about our dreams, our hopes and what we wanted to do. We said hello to new projects and new plans in the uncertainty of tomorrow. We produced it constantly, inspired by the present and ourselves.
Simplify
We have become simpler, both within ourselves and globally. While looking for many prerequisites for happiness, at the beginning of this year, we were happy to be able to breathe comfortably in our four wall rooms. We regarded the moments we spent at home, the movies we watched, the meals we made as happiness. We quickly got rid of money, success, and the addiction to approval.
Thinking about our life purpose
And we thought more about our purpose of coming to life. We enjoyed being more useful around us, increasing as we helped. Without realizing it, we bonded with people we never knew. We sought solutions for events that did not happen to us. We remembered our humanity more.
When I look at it like this, the past has given us great gains as well as great losses. It not only took us on a journey towards inside, but also made us more aware of what we had. I guess we can say that it was a kind of awakening year for us, just as Carl Gustav Jung said, "The one who looks outward dreams, the one who looks inward awakens".
Drips of My Ink - A Small Essay
It's not that I'm running from the truth, it's your ink on my hand. I was afraid it might be infected. I was not neutral, but my heart was tired. I always ran away because I did not have the strength to shoulder the article. My wounds would reopen as my words spilled. My heart would face the memories of the past. But I knew that I did not like the easy at all, my legs were trained to make neighbors of difficulty and obstacles.
But I think my legs were standing, but it wasn't, my limping heart, my wasted Love. I have always been overcome by my mercy flowing like a river.
There were pains, I should have written. My heart wanted to be a breath of breeze. Maybe it was the way to silence the storms inside me. Or I was going to set the small fire to a lap of wood and set it on fire.
You know me as an amateur from the games I played on the ground. There was simply no tissue matching of the time and space I lived in. Quality plays professionally in every field, just don't be fooled by the smallness or the majority of the audience.
My boundaries were wide, from losing too much on every front. Love smelled in the air from heart to heart. Whenever there was a cloud, I would understand that I fell at the door of a heart again. Every time I lost, Işınlar was rising again from my heart. I die a thousand and I am born again every morning.
Writing is being hurt, even being deceived by the love you fell for. Sometimes it is to watch and sometimes to dive into the oman. I know a way and I know a bridge.
Writing is to flow from heart to heart and settle down. It is to beat the ink in the anvil and temper it in the fire.
