She said she caught me red-handed banging with the girl next door.
Familiar isn't it?
Let's talk about another exes this time. There will always be this one ex who was fond of putting up stories about us. I don't know what's their purpose for doing so but it freaks me out to hear stories about me that are not true, those that don't really exist. Some girls don't want break ups but why they keep on bringing up issues that will ruin the relationship? Can anyone give me an idea? Because I can't really understand this ex of mine. She seemed to remember my mistake including the time, month and date. What the?
Some girls forget where they put their keys but not the exact time you wronged them. Amazing!
I think it was 3 years ago when I had this encounter of paranoid ex. She was fond of overthinking and overreacting. She's the one who put burden on herself. I love her but her overthinking side ruined our relationship. I can't stand being with someone who keeps on accusing me like a dog keeps on barking at the wrong tree. I like dogs but not the dogs personified by human. They're more noisy and hard to handle.
How did our relationship ended?
You can tell by just reading the first line of the article. This ex accused me of something I did not do. She said she caught me in someone's room playing with fire. I asked where that room could be but then all she said was that there's no need to know the place because I will just go there and see the girl again. I told her if that's really me, she could have went inside and nagged me over there. But then her mind was so closed that she won't let me explain. She said her decision is final just because her friend saw someone with the same shirt as mine entering that room which made her think that's me. Come on! Where's the justice? I can't even go outside our home for my dad is guarding us so how can I be able to go to an apartment/hotel? It wasn't me!
There also one time, oh not just once but many times. I don't why this has become one of my ex' problems. She hated it when I told her I will sleep for a while. She accused me a lot of things. She said I was just making an excuse for us not to communicate and that I will just go talk to other girls while she was waiting for me to beep her again. As a result, we will end up fighting again because of her insecurities. Is it a big deal if I will sleep for one hour?
I can also remember how this ex overreacted when I forgot our monthsary. 😂 I did not knew monthsaries are very important to her. Like to me, it's just a date and there's nothing more. What matters is that we spend the days together without counting how long we've been together. Well, I am not against those who celebrate monthsaries. It's just not my thing. So yeah, it was our monthsary. She went to our home early and wore a red dress. I just woke up and haven't even brushed my teeth and combed my hair. My mom called me there's someone looking for me so I rose from bed like a zombie. When I opened the door, it's my ex staring at me with a wide smile and she seemed looking for something. She looked from my behind and saw nothing.
Few minutes later, her eyes became watery and cried later on. I don't have any idea why she acted that way so I asked her while I was hugging her. She said why I don't have flowers and cake with me knowing that it's our first monthsary. Oh man! I told her that I don't give a dam* to monthsaries and I don't know she likes celebrating it which made her cried loudly. My mom and dad went downstairs and asked me what's the matter.
I was planning to tell a different reason but then this ex explained everything. I don't know how but my mom bought a cake for her not to feel bad.
Geeezz! Was it my fault if my way of showing affection is different from hers? I mean we don't connect in many ways so it's better to let things go between us. I don't want to hurt her because of my way of loving. I don't like her ways either.
I told her she needs a man who can understand her and view things the same as her.
She needs a man who will complete her and it wasn't me.
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Hahaha. Dapat pala sa start palang ng relationship napaguusapan na ang monthsary. Baka gusto niya lang makaipon ng regalo from you kaya gusto celebrate monthsary. I have nothing against monthsaries lalo hindi ko din naman yun naexperience. Pero required ba na dapat may gift kada monthsary? Mas gusto ko pa yung bigla na lang may gift kasi naalala mo siya when you saw that item.