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I am indecisive, yes, that's me!

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Have you ever think of a characteristic that can make you say, "oh, that's me!"

Funny enough, of all the adjectives, adverbs, or even phrases that I can connect myself with, a word like this had come up in my mind.

I am indecisive, yes, that's me!

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Indecisiveness

The inability to decide, conclude, or resolve something on your own can be considered indecisiveness. Thus, for me, can be pictured out in this way:

Between two things, you have been torn apart because you wanted both. Choices do not mean a good thing, it just makes you want to have a resolution that you can't come up in mind.

Yes, I do have a hard time choosing between or among choices I have. It's like a constant battle that makes you feel regret some things at the end of it.

Is it good or bad?

Everything has its pros and cons. Likewise, with this unlikely behavior, there are good and bad effects.

In all honesty, indecisiveness makes you think a hundred times before actually making a decision. It could help you to make the good out of it but then, unlikely with its effects, upon deciding whether or not it'll work, there's a bit of doubt that still lingers.

Aside from that, indecisiveness makes you unable to do instantaneous decisions out of your options. It's bothering and unhealthy.

A bad attitude you have to work with.

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Some 'indecisive' moments of my life

Being indecisive means having a hard time deciding. It made a great impact on my life from a simple dine-out moment or shopping outside.

I tend to say 'bahala na' or maybe shop everything my eyes wander since I can't decide what to take. I do remember one time that I am with my mom and was shopping for some stuff. Being that shy kid I was, I can't help myself say what I really wanted. Being torn in between, I can't say that I do like that thing over the other since I was reluctant to do so. In the end, we just got an argument about it.

Indecisiveness took a toll on my life while growing up. A 'bahala na' or 'whatever' mindset made me indisposed of my life decisions. I always regret; unconfident with whatever I did. No matter how well things are, I always see that there might be better aside from it.

Even now, I have a hard time if when will I post it and write this.

This attitude is really tiring.

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Final thoughts

Not everything about us can be perfect. No matter how great I am over some aspects of my life, I do accept the fact that some of my natural habits were not. Perhaps, it's my nature to start with.

I am an indecisive person, I am not proud of it but it makes me feel myself. It is my nature, it is innate to me. I tried to change it but that behavior still lingers in me, making me think whether or not I've been making the right or wrong thing.

How about you? What character can make you say, "oh, that's me!"

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I can proudly say, "Oh, that's me!"

You're right. It's really tiring and it sucks. Being always stuck in-between choices.

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2 months ago

Dahil sa pagiging indecisive ko today, ayun nagkatampuhan kami ng partner ko. Dahil lang sa simpleng tanong na "anong uulamin ngayon", naging pangit ang araw ko.Wala kasi ako sa mood magdecide.😁

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2 months ago

Problem ko rin po yan. Madalas naiinis mga kasama ko kasi kapag nandun na biglang iba na naman. Ay nako, siguro normal lang talaga.

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2 months ago

ganyan naman ata kasagaran sa mga babae. hehe

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2 months ago

Maybe we truly are. Not proud of this attitude but somehow, it's a part pf me already.

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2 months ago

Hahaha I demotion the part where if I had the budget I would get the two, for I always regret not to have them both..🤭 I always think of possibilities what if I also had that one.. 😟

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2 months ago

I can be indecisive from time to time. And sometimes "Bahala na!" :)

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2 months ago

We all have this trait. To make decisions seems difficult at times, there's always numerous choices to pick from. To buy things takes determination because you will always find a better one.

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2 months ago

can not you take some help from other about your those matter which can not make you feel ensure

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2 months ago

I can be indecisive too. Especially now that there seems to be a lot of choices it's hard to choose. Even a simple bottled water have too many choices. That's why when I go to the store, I have a hard time deciding what to buy.

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2 months ago