Love …………………………………………………………………………………................................................ An indescribable feeling for most. The intensity of emotion that is hard to describe and good to live with.
If it is said to start with love and fill the gap, everyone has sentences to write.
What about the family, the people who have been bound by blood from the moment we were born to this moment, for whom we have no right to choose, but who have been with us all our lives from the moment we first opened our eyes.
Everyone has their own particular life experience. Now I don't want to tell you about Love or Family. Because you already know what that means.
What I'm going to talk about is "if your family doesn't accept the person you love", what will be the result?
Whoever our mother or father is when we are born, it never changes because they are our permanent parents. We cannot change it, we do not have the right to choose it. Likewise, we cannot choose our brothers. Whoever our brother is today, he will always be. But the person we fall in love with can change, it's in our own hands. Or we can break up when we have problems with the person we married, and this can change. If we have children, it is not possible to change them. They will forever remain our children.
At the end of such an evaluation, of course, most people will choose family, but what about our LOVE?
How many times does a person fall in love in their lifetime?
You know what purgatory is. A brief explanation for those who don't know; "The place between heaven and hell"
At the moment of such a choice, you are in complete limbo because of being together.
On the one hand, your family, on the other hand, the person you fell in love with and dreamed of for the future. If you have made future plans with someone, you have responsibilities to them. You cannot leave him alone on this road. First of all, you destroy their trust and dry their hopes. You destroy all the plans at once.
Even having to make such a choice makes your heart ache. In both cases, it targets your heart. Family and your heart, your love and your heart.
This is not a movie scene, but rather one of the period challenges in real life. If this difficulty is overcome, a new one will emerge. In short, life comes at you to make you give up and you get bored.
I hope you don't have to make such a choice, but what if you stay? It's hard to even imagine this, but if you were to try and dream of it, which one would you choose?
Is it your love? Your family?
Well, this is really hard, but with what I just read, I guess I'll choose family because this post points out things I haven't thought of. As you have said, family have been with you right from the start, and will always be there. So yeah, Family.