Overthinking Cannot Solve Your Problems.

Overthinking Cannot Solve your Problems.

This is a saying I listened to in music. This is a fact because when you think too much, your problems cannot be solved but will keep on increasing more and more. 

Have you heard of something called hypertension? Yes, it can kill and it is not good for us all. When you think too much, the result is hypertension. Why on Earth must you think? What is causing your overthinking? To what extent would you remain in the realm of thinking? The only answer to these questions is to find yourself doing something. Keep yourself busy instead of remaining in that state of overthinking. Thinking too much can affect your life. 

The only advice to this is for you to work and do not be lazy. Do you know that when you work you can have the right to eat from your sweat? Yes…. Eat enough when you have worked so hard because no one would help you to eat your money. There are some people out there who are so stingy and do not want to spend their money. When you work without spending or eating your money, then who will. There is a saying here in Pidgin English in Nigeria that I cannot come and go and kill myself by myself. Remember that when you die, people will spend your money. The money you are not ready to spend will be spent by people who do not know how you made it. So, learn how to eat and your money because you work for it.

Why on Earth should I work without eating my sweat? This is why I must eat the sweat of my labour. When you labour, eat good food and ensure you enjoy all parts of your life because you have worked for it. 

A man in my area happens to work very hard. He worked and acquired lots of money. He has just one problem. He was just too stingy to himself. He never wanted to eat good food and was not ready to give to his children nor to his wives. He married four wives and does not attend to them all. He is not used to giving them money to feed their children. The only thing was that all his wives are not the lazy types. They have their respective business, but not with the help of the husband. They began to progress but the man refused to spend his money on them and does not want to eat from his money. This shows the level of stinginess within him. 

Death came and all his savings were used to arrange his burial while the rest were shared among his wives and children. His family members as well as his brother's and sisters also shared his money. He was not giving anyone his money and does not love helping people while he has the money, now that he is dead, people who he was not helping came out to collect their share of the money he has made. 

When you work so hard, ensure to enjoy your money. Enjoy your money to the fullest because people who do not know how you made the money will come around to help you spend your money. Life is just too sweet and enjoyable only if you make it possible or make it to be so. When you remain boring to yourself, then people will take you the way you are and when you're gone, those who you were not giving to would be the ones spending your sweat. 

Eat and give to those in need. Do not be stingy as this cannot help your and your children. Remember that what you are working for is your children's foundations. If you want your children to become the best in life, just ensure you give to them what you have laboured for because they are the ones that made you work. 

Why do you think we work? All the money we are making, who do you think they are all for? They are for our families and most especially for your children. We work to make them great. We work to make them become the best among their equals. So, keeping your money without spending it is not the best.

You will kill yourself when you think too much. Thinking cannot solve the problems but finding a lasting solution to your problem will go a long way.