It's Hard To Forget But Forgiven
I have written related topic on noise.cash and I gave some points on this topic and I decided to bring the related topic to read.cash, but in a different face.
Life is full of challenges and when one faces challenges, one will one day overcome them or let them slip over you. I just know that challenge does not last forever and indeed has a specific time which it will finally come to reality. People do think that can make them grow annoyed or angry and when you are in pain, you will find it difficult to forgive and forget.
Who Do You Forgive?
We were made to understand that forgiveness comes from God and through him, we were told and were made to forgive anyone who offends us. When you are offended, you can do anything that can make you wicked, whereas you are not.
Human beings are made to forgive anybody and indeed everybody who has offended you. There are no restrictions to the person you must forgive. Even after making you suffer from numerous pains, you just have to forgive because our creator has forgiven us several times. We might have sinned against him in many ways and after pleading for forgiveness, without hesitation, he forgives us of our sins. So, do find it possible and necessary to forgive the one who has wronged you to the fullest.
Another question ran over my mind again:
**After forgiving, must we forget?
Hm mmm... This is a difficult aspect of life. Let me take you to a scene that happened recently to a family.
The family is just a family of three which entails the man, wife and child. They have a neighbour which they have been doing things together. They have been good to each other and do pay each other visits where necessary. The neighbour has a boy who almost equates to the age of the couple's daughter. One day, their daughter went out to play in their neighbour's house. Something happened where the neighbour's child mistakenly used rubber in the form of the catapult to blind one eye. of the little girl. This made the parents grow angry been their only children. The boy's parents were arrested and when they were back from the police station, they had to go to their neighbour's house to beg for forgiveness. Their neighbour forgave them truly.
Anytime the parents see the son of their neighbour, they always remember their daughter's eye.
So, tell me, do you think this parent can forget what their neighbour's child did to their daughter? They have forgiven the family, but can never forget.
It is easy to forgive, but hard to forget. We are humans, and we all have feelings and blood running over our veins. So, it will be difficult to forget the pains someone has inflicted on you no matter what. When people always say that, we should forgive and forget, I still kept on wondering if it is possible to have the mind of forgetting.
I think you may have a different opinion about this topic. So let see in the comment section.
We can never forget what one did for someone especial when it comes to part of a body being hurt in the scene. Whenever one sees the mark on the body , you will surely remember the event but what we need do is to forgive and never boil the offence up as a new one. We can forgive but can't forget.