Causes Of Misunderstanding In A Relationship

Causes Of Misunderstanding In A Relationship

There is no relationship that is perfect on earth. This means there is always one problem or the other in a relationship, but one just need to use wisdom to make it a perfect one or to make it work. I have seen a relationship today which are seen to be perfect outside but fire inside. You will be thinking they are better mere looking at the way they behave, but when you draw close to them, their relationship is a crying type. They say that if you do not stay with a fowl, you will not know if it is breathing.

I'm another way, some relationship is always having great problem which the couples always voice out for help. They always cry to people who are ready to help and sometimes, when you take your issues outside, it becomes a problem to either the man or the woman.

• Jealousy:

A man who is always playing with people, including the women and men. His wife has been observing him playing with these sets of people without complaining, but keeping it as secret. One faithful day, she went to meet her neighbor after seeing her husband playing with her neighbor. She questioned the neighbor and ask her not for her life to play or allow her husband to play with her. She did maintain her stand and was earnest about it. The husband was very furious for he has no intention of playing with people, most, especially the women. He is just free with everyone. This truly caused problem and misunderstanding I'm their house.

Sometimes, been jealous is not the best, but can make you feel uneasy. You can one way or the other develop hypertension while thinking of what is not happening. Even if it is happening, the best is to talk to your partner about it, and you will fine-tune the problem and become one again instead of making a problem with your neighbors.

- Lack of trust:

Trust in relationship is very much Paramount and important. If there is love in between a couple, they should be able to trust each other to the brim. Many women, when asked, will say I don't trust my husband, or I don't trust my boyfriend or girlfriend. In most cases, the men are not always trusting their women, most, especially Before marriage. After marriage, the woman will turn out to lose trust in her husband. This should not be so, as marriage is complicated and an institution where we learn every day.

So, learn how to trust your partner and also as a man or woman, what are you looking for outside when what you are looking for is inside? You should not have the mind of hunting for something you are seeing all the time. Some men will tell you that they would love to change oil, which suppose not to be so. Which oil do you want to change, when what is out there is of no difference.

• Not Contented With What You Have:

Many women are always not satisfied with what they have, but are ready to make their husbands go the extra mile to hustle and even to the point of borrowing from people. This kind of problem can cause misunderstanding in the house. Be contented with what you have so that your family will not go to hunger. A woman who has the passion for high things can make her husband go bankrupt and can cause serious problem to their relationship. An average man who got married to a woman who has high demand will not continue with such relationship.

• Not giving attention to your partner:

Many women today lack character and are not ready to give their husbands' attention. This is equally to the men as well. Many men today are carried away by work and when they are back from work, they will always feel tired which will make the to feel weak on bed. When this is happening, there will be complications in the relationship. After this, misunderstanding will be introduced.

• Taking your issues to a third party:

Most of the time we do have issues with our partners. It may be a normal issue that can be solved within minutes and within your partners. So, taking your issues to a third party can cause misunderstanding in your relationship. When I wanted to get married, I was advised to always solved any issue at home with my wife instead of letting someone solve it for me. My relationship is moving smoothly just because of that advice I had from someone. In another way, I heard a pastor advising his member who was ready to get married to always settle his issue with his wife in the house and with the wife, but must not for ones take their issues to a third party. Third parties can cause troubles in the homes most of the time because there are some people out there who do not want your relationship to hold. So, you should not take your matter outside, but learn how to settle it within. Do not get your in-laws involves when there is a quarrel between you and your partner.

So, be wise and do not do things that does not go in line with your partner. Understand each other and do know what each of you needs, which is in form of your likes. There may be something I don't like, and you must find certainly to avoid doing those things.