@chikspere13 7 November 2021 more from that month

WHEN COMMUNICATION WEAKENS, LOVE WILL GRADUALLY DISAPPEAR. They say.., Love is an Encounter....the loving encounter always presupposes the appeal of the other to one's subjectivity..A call always goes out from him..this call being embodied in a word, a gesture, a glance,or a request..or a plea.." Be with me." They say Love is Silent..many great things happen in silence. Love is so powerful, so great, that it happens in silence..that's what I am nobody knows I'm loving you in silent.. They say, Loves seeks for union..it is a fact in human existence that we always want to be with our beloved.It is very painful to detached oneself from the beloved. That is why we shed tears of goodbyes. To be unified with others indicates that a person was hook to love. They say Love is Giving..self- giving is the name of love. But since man cannot give love if he has none, he must have to acknowledge, first of all, that he is lovable. As they say..Love is Growth..when you're in love.. accept it's flaws including pain,.misery and agony..if you don't feel this while loving..then you are not Inlove..you will not grow.. because loving is growing. Love is Action..for love to be love, it must be expressed. Though words are powerful,love makes action more powerful than words. Actions speak louder than words..some in love becomes heroes..some becomes rebels..I feel the latter some time...I want to be a rebel because of love. Love as they say is Creative..Love finds its own way ..it creates a union of two unique human persons who are seeking for the new meaning of life. Love makes persons discover things and reach for new heights and dimensions. Love is a creative force that motivates persons to be more productive. Love is Mutual.. to love someone is the community of a person's in general is like a gamble. The gamble here lies with the very risk of loving. To love is not an assurance of being loved in return...ouch! It hurts! I was stabbed directly into my heart. Love is Mysterious..love can never be captured in capsulized characterizations.. so we can say it cannot be analyzed and dissected into components..because love belongs to those intersubjective states refuse to be fully caught and circumscribed in the concepts.Since love is indeed a mystery, it can never be understood but only...FELT. Love is not an enigma to be solved but a revealed thruth to be lived. Love is a Decision..as I mentioned in my previous post..falling in love is different from being in love .The first one is not permanent because feelings may just come and go. The latter, calls for PERMANENCE so that when one has decided to love, he must continue loving even the one he loves appears to be no longer lovable. And..it's my decision to love you in silence even though the feeling is not mutual..but..it was so painful to remain in fantasy so I decided to weakens the communication as they say love will gradually disappear ..I don't believe so but it is the only way to heal...one last time I say...I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH.. And no relation to this content..I guess ..I'll drop a song by my favorite YouTuber and singer...Teddy Swims.. https://youtu.be/1LP0U8I6Zrk I can't get enough of you..you have become my addiction..but enough is enough.. no turning back chikspere13..no turning back please..