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I Chose Myself

I don't think we should question someone who finally chose herself over the others. I mean, it's not selfishness.

We may know half of her story but put in my mind, there's always a loophole in it that we didn't know. The struggles, the sacrifices, and the pain she endured before finally focusing on her self. She shouldn't be blamed after removing toxic people in her life, after walking away from the people and things that doesn't help her grow. If she stood by herself and told you she's all alone in her battles now, just be happy. If she stood in front of you telling you that finally she started seeing her worth and realizes how important self-love is, you'd say you're proud of her. And I'm proud of myself, 'cause I'm already one of them. Thank you for reading. Now, may I know your thoughts about choosing yourself? Do you often choose on saving yourself first, too? — charmingcherry08

7 comments

@bbang 28 August 2020

Well, in my opinion, there's nothing wrong choosing yourself first. But be careful with what it may lead you. You may not see it at first, but it will slowly drift you to selfishness. You may always think of your own worth but not the others. It's a lot more toxic than you think. And actually, there's also nothing wrong being selfless. Just be aware of the things around you. And balance it. Know your worth as well as the others. 😊

@charmingcherry08 28 August 2020

Noted! Thank you for this.
- @bbang 28 August 2020
  
  Sure thing dear. You're very welcome. ❣️

@minorarea 29 August 2020

Indeed, loving yourself more and putting yourself first is not being selfish. It's called self-love. Ladies are bound to be independent nowadays, because we no rely to anyone for our happiness anymore 😉😉

@charmingcherry08 29 August 2020

Very well said. This is exactly what I pointed out in this article. Thank you so much for this!

@Jewel 30 August 2020

Nice photographs and you write very nicely well decorated. Thanks😍😘

@charmingcherry08 30 August 2020

Thank you so much!!! I hope you enjoyed reading this article. This is so special to me. 😍

@bbang 28 August 2020

Well, in my opinion, there's nothing wrong choosing yourself first. But be careful with what it may lead you. You may not see it at first, but it will slowly drift you to selfishness. You may always think of your own worth but not the others. It's a lot more toxic than you think. And actually, there's also nothing wrong being selfless. Just be aware of the things around you. And balance it. Know your worth as well as the others. 😊
- @charmingcherry08 28 August 2020
  
  Noted! Thank you for this.
  - @bbang 28 August 2020
    
    Sure thing dear. You're very welcome. ❣️
@minorarea 29 August 2020

Indeed, loving yourself more and putting yourself first is not being selfish. It's called self-love. Ladies are bound to be independent nowadays, because we no rely to anyone for our happiness anymore 😉😉
- @charmingcherry08 29 August 2020
  
  Very well said. This is exactly what I pointed out in this article. Thank you so much for this!
@Jewel 30 August 2020

Nice photographs and you write very nicely well decorated. Thanks😍😘
- @charmingcherry08 30 August 2020
  
  Thank you so much!!! I hope you enjoyed reading this article. This is so special to me. 😍