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How My Partner Treats My Family

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Even though I started sharing with everyone the idea of not prioritizing having a family on my recent blog, I still look at my partner as an ideal husband in the future. Sometimes in choosing a partner, you have to get to know them deeper and accept their flaws.

Sometimes I look at my boyfriend and reflect on whether he could be a good husband someday. But I did not get the answer sooner. Being with him means I got the chance to observe his actions and good deeds even if he knows I am not looking. I started to feel that he was an ideal man to spend my life with, if possible. How did I say so?

He takes care of my Mom.

Aside from his respect for my Mama, he took care of her in little ways. I remember when my Mama was washing our clothes, and he insisted on helping her by pouring water on the basins. Also, there was a time when she was sick, and we bought food for her. I didn’t know my partner even prepared it for my Mama instead of letting her do it herself. I saw his gestures, and my heart melted with the gentleness and simple action he did to my Mama. When your partner loves your Mom, it’s a different feeling.

He respects my older brothers.

My exes also showed respect to my older brothers, but my partner now showed it more decently. He always says “Kuya,” an endearment or term used for older brothers in Filipino, whenever he talks to them. Also, I like how he spends time with them by playing basketball and sometimes through drinking sessions. I have this enormous respect for my brothers, and I love how he understood that he must respect them more than I do. 

He fears my Father.

Aside from respecting my brothers, another man in the family needs to be feared, and it is my Papa. I grew up with so much respect for him, and I think I already explained this in another article before. He may not be a disciplinarian father, but he has an intimidating aura that can make you feel uneasy. When my boyfriend started visiting me in our house, he mentioned how my Papa looked at everyone, making him fear my Father. And I think it is a good start because I cannot be with someone who will and can disrespect my Papa.

He loves my niece and nephews.

My partner has a soft heart for kids. And that’s one thing why my niece and nephews loved him throughout the years. When I first introduced them to him, they felt shy. But as months passed by, I saw them playing and laughing together. And if you will ask me how’s their relationship today, there are moments when he visits me to see the kids. He plays basketball with my nephews for hours and sometimes treats their food more. Sometimes I pretend like I am already feeling jealous of their quality time, but deep inside, I am happy to see how he built a good relationship with them.

He understands my love for my parents.

Last time, I asked a question to him. It is about supporting my parents even if we already got married. I asked him if it would be okay with him, and he said he saw nothing wrong with doing it. He told me I could help my family whenever I wanted, even if I married him.

And again, I realized that he is a good man. I promised myself I would only marry someone who could understand my love for my parents, and I think I found him. He saw how I put my family first and prioritized my parents’ happiness every time. And he is always proud of it.

When you look at it, the things I have observed are the way he treats my family because it is what matters more. He could be a part of our family, so I must look at how he shows and expresses himself with them. I cannot be with someone who will cause division and conflicts within our family. I want someone who can care for my Mama, respect my brothers, fear my Papa, and love my niece and nephews. One of the ways to win my heart is to be good and respectful to my family.


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That's good. Marriage is not Only the two individuals involved, family is there. So an ideal partner is one who's interested in the welfare of the families. Your partner is a spec

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1 month ago

That's right. I need someone who can understand that I love my family so much. I am so glad that my boyfriend treats them well.

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1 month ago

Partners should treat each other's family like their own :) From the sound it, your partner is indeed an ideal one.

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1 month ago

Thank you! He really is. 😊

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1 month ago

I wish I could open my relationship with my family as well. I wanted to know if he is that ideal 😁Perks for having an open relationship.

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1 month ago

Awww. I hope you can introduce him to your family soon. Then, you'll see how he treats them.

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1 month ago

I hope so too. I'm waiting for the perfect timing. For now, we both keep our relationship low-key on both sides. But, I really wanted to open it already because I feel so insecure with the others flexing their partner hehehe

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1 month ago

It will happen. When the perfect and right time comes.

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1 month ago

Oh, I really hope. I hope when that time comes, he's still the guy my parents will meet.

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1 month ago

Of course he will be.

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1 month ago

Nice attributes your fiance got, am sure he will makea good husband

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1 month ago

I can see it in him too. Thank you!

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1 month ago

Your lucky to have him, I hope the both of you will lasts long and bring the best in each other...

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1 month ago

Aaaaaww. Kapag ganyan ang partner parang nakakaexcite pakasalan agad. Chaaaaar!!!

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1 month ago

Sinabi mo pa sis. Hahaha. Sabi ko nga eh mag-propose na sya sa akin. 😅

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1 month ago

I can really feel it in my bones that he is really the one for you sissy. it's rare to find a man like him. We are lucky to have someone who loves our families as much as we do.

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1 month ago

Thank you, sis. I am feeling it too. Huhu.

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1 month ago

Awww. That's so great I pray you both have a wonderful and peaceful lifestyle. I'm glad that you have someone who's making you happy dear. It's a beautiful thing

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1 month ago

Indeed. Love is a beautiful thing. It may not be too perfect, but it also gives us something to hold on to.

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1 month ago

Aba kaht ako. Kung ganyan ang jowa. Ay ofoforever ko na haha. Sana all nlng me. Invite kmi sa kasal ha. Hehe..virtually 😊

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1 month ago

Haha kung ikasal ate. 😁 Balitaan ko kayo, syempre invited kayo. Virtually nga lang 😅

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1 month ago

Those are good traits for an ideal husband, but I would say you will only know the real attitude of your man once you shared the same roof.. wherein you can witness his flaws and shortcomings. That's the time you can decide whether you chose him as someone you'll spend the rest of your life..

My husband is like that when he's still my boyfriend..and of course stays the same until now that we're married, it's just that one has some attitude you have to accept just like how he will accept yours.

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1 month ago

You are right in every points you discussed, ate. Na hindi mo makikilala ang isang tao unless nakatira na sa iisang bubong. You are lucky kasi hindi nagbago yung asawa mo, and sana yung partner ko rin hehe.

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1 month ago

Obviously heart has to be melted when your partner is treating your mother with such sweet gestures

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1 month ago

Indeed. I fell in love with him more when he took care of my Mama.

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1 month ago

Ganyan ang ugali na karapat dapat e treasure sis , sa panahon ngayon minsan nalang ang mga ganyang ugali. Mabibilang mo nalang sa daliri ang mga mabubuting asal na may respeto.

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1 month ago

Thank you sis. Oo nga eh, swerte na ako sa kanya. :)

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1 month ago

Finding a partner who fits into all these qualities you listed above is rare. I pray your relationship grows stronger

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1 month ago

I hope so too. I wish he's my future husband.

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1 month ago

I hope so too

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1 month ago

Thank you!

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1 month ago

Ganyan din ang asawa ko sa pamilya ko, at sa tingin ko mas mabait PA sya sa akin😁 sa pamilya ko at mapagbigay din.

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1 month ago

Hehe. Oo ate, mabait nga talaga si Darren. Lalo sa mga pamangkin ko. Love na love nya sila

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1 month ago

Eh di Lalo Kang kikiligin nyan, heheh kasi mahal pala sya ng mga pamangkin mo.

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1 month ago

Oo naman ate hehehe.

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