@calvy28 18 March 2021 more from that month

kudo's to note.com dami nila tip Let’s talk about RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS: 1. Comparing your ex to your partner. Eto yung wag na wag nyong gagawin if hindi pa kayo nakaka get over sa past nyo, please don’t enter into a relationship. 2. Treating your partner different when he/she didn't agree with something. You use this contrast against your partner's emotions para sila yung mag feel bad 3. Getting mad over late replies. 4. Consuming your partner's attention 24/7. Which is eto yung pag nasa even tyung partner mo or gala, you always want to give on an update. It’s not that bad, but let you partner enjoy time with her friends or family. Di lang dapat sa kanya iikot mundo mo. You have other businesses and responsibilities as your own person and that includes your freedom. 5. Doesn’t support your personal choices such as clothing, passion, etc. Be his/her number one supporter of your partner, kung sa sya masaya go! Kung don mag boboost self confidence nya at dun nya feel na maganda sya let her. Hindi yung pagbabawalan mo. 6. Ignoring your partner or giving silent treatments kapag may nagagawa syang mali or nagtatampo ka, sometimes it’s valid but nagiging toxic sya ng sobra minsan. Wag mo hayaan mapuno yung partner mo ng questions sa head nya. Learn to communicate in a right way. It helps your relationship grow. 7. Bringing up his/her past mistake. We are all allow to grow and change. Hindi porket nagkamali sya sa past is wala ng way para mag bago sya. Past na yon, wag natin ugaliin na ibring up yung past mistake ng tao just to prove a point. Grow up, di na tayo bata na para lang maging tama, nahanap ng butas. WAG GANON. 8. Manipulative sadboi/sadgirl na laging ginagamit yung: “sige iwan mo na ko, wala namna nag tatagal sakin.” “sige kasalanan ko na, wala naman akong kwenta.” “sige, IM A TRASH” Eto naman yung igaslighting ka to make you feel bad, para makunsensya ka. 9. Paranoid, which is lahat to. Guys we are responsible sa emotion natin, wag natin masyado idrain partner natin sa katoxican natin. Hindi pwedeng lagi na sila yung magpapasensya. Hindi na tayo bata. 10. “Toyoin” — it’s not cute tho honey. Fix attitude tayo. 11. Yung ikaw na may mali pero di ka mag sosorry, mamanipulate mo pa partner mo para sya yung gumawa non. 12. The ATM. Makiramdam din tayo laging nakadepende sa partner natin na palibre ng palibre. Di sila banko okay? 13. Getting mad dahil lang sa natulugan. Okay, minsan kasi pagod yung tao galing sa work or hindi na talaga kayang mag reply. Let Him/her rest. Madami pa namang time.