@buknoytanad
I always hear or see these words.. I am not confident.. i cannot do that.. or if kaya ko lang e.. wala ako hilig dyan.. or its not me... these are lines of a very not so confident person.. so how will we counter this mindset.. let me share some about this.. WHAT YOU FOCUS ON EXPANDS... if you are complaining, it means you are focusing on problems which means it will expand to more problems in life. STOP SEEKING FOR COMFORT - most of us seek for comfort. Even if others see us with a comfortable life, we must always think that we are not yet comfortable.. so we make actions on that uncomfortable state... SEEK POSSIBILITIES ALWAYS - in our daily lives most of us thinks that we will not gain anything on what we do.. so think of possibilities that whatever you are doing will create us more gains which eventually to more opportunities because we drive deeper to that anything we do and make it grow... STOP BEING FEARFUL - we always hear or read people say WHAT IF IT DOES NOT WORK... better would be I HOPE IT WORKS... but what if we say I CAN MAKE THIS WORK.. the latter is a mindset that makes us responsible to what we are making to work.. instead of hoping or instilling fear that it will fail.. if we dive into that thing and make it work everything is possible.. The problem is the first thing that comes out of our minds is that it will always fail because we lack confidence.. Let me give an example : it is like making money.. once we make small money we feel that our lives are getting better... we gain confidence bit by bit until without realizing it... and it will make us in a momentum to do more because it is a good feeling... A better example - you are in noise.. I do not know what to write.. or i hate writing.. but once you started posting everyday... and you feel people are noticing your post.. you are engaging more.. you feel better in writing a post because it feels good.. you are thinking of writing more... this includes the more you engage the more monetary.. so it will brings you confidence without realizing it.. So what is the point of all of this.. just focus.. and expect positive on it, do not be comfortable and doubt if you are doing good.. make it as a motivation and do not think of doubts... once it enters just shake your head.. do this and you will feel more confidet.. and you will be confident.. small acts on a direction.. kaya mo yan..
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🤧🤧Lodskie bat ganito ay
hahahah bakit po
Ang haba nosebleed pa🤧
hahahah ahay naku ka.. naiintindihan mo naman yan e hihihih
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Naks naman, another inspirational post. Hehe Pero ako... this is just me ha, I chose to be vocal if I'm confident in something or not. Not because kulang ako sa confidence but to avoid false reassurance ba. Example na lang, may ipapagawa sakin na task, and alam ko sa sarili ko that it is outside the scope of my expertise, instead na magmarunong ako, sinasabi ko muna na di ako confident na magagawa ko pinapagawa sakin but if they're willing to take the risk, I can try my best para gawin yun. But yeah, agree ako on most of the things you've said in your post. 👍😁
Ay syempre if we are not dun sa field na yun wag magmarunong haha alahat tayo may kanya knayang expertise or alam.. di pwwdeng angkinin lahat.. tama ka rin dyan.. pero yung paghugas ng pinggan baka sabihin pa e baka may mabasag na plato ahahahaa. Gurabi na un..
lmao, excuse na tawag dun. 🤣 yung mga ganyang bagay na lang tapos di pa magawa. Di na lack of confidence yan, lack of motivation na yan at laziness.
Ahahhaha.. clumsy kasi ako enahahaha
Mga ganyang rason.... sarap sagutin ng "clumsy rin ako... minsan bigla ako nakakasapak ng ayaw maghugas ng pinggan." ✌😂🤣
Hmmm what if , your strength is not in the options? You have no other choice, but to continue doing it even you're not good on it? How is that? Good Evening, PH🌻
If need mo gawin i think you have to make good at it pa din.. napagaaralan naman lahat. Gaya din ng sbai ko dati...what is laid to you now maybe lalabas ng purpose nya un the future. There is always a reason bakit ganyan ang binigay syao now.. so what ever it is strive to be good at it always..
I see. Thanks for that. If I ask more, maybe I'm just making excuses. Hahhaa
Just ask baka nmana kaya ko sagutin e ahhaaha
Since ikaw nag insist. I'm doing something kasi na hindi naman ako magaling. Pero kailangan ko siya gawin, and may hinahabol akong araw. Diba. Although lahat napag aaralan, may ilang mga bagay na kailangan ng mahaba habang panahon
Well asked friends na marunong or seek assistance sa may kaya.. relay to friends din.. minsan makakatulong sila para mapadali buhay mo.. di naman porket humingi ka tulong e di mo na pinagaralan oinadali mo lang na malaman mo pano.. if need sya wala ka chocie.. so need mo sya gawin.. aralin mavisa or mavpaturo sa marunong.. if may goal ka na output.. just do the basic s first.. then saka mo na sya ayusin sa gusto mo..
I see. I just don't want to be like pabigat. We have different tasks kasi, iba naman eh mas wala pang idea kesa saakin. Hahays. Ang sakit sa ulo hahahahah
hahahah well baka meron kasi sila friend na marunong so ask pano then ikaw pa din gumawa info lang naman need mo ..
Tatanong ko nalang si Youtube. Hahaha kasi alam kong stress lahat ayoko na maka dagdag
nyeee its a group effort diba so dapat if may prob isa damayan din
Yeah lahat nga kami namomoblema pero syempre galing nga sayo. Focus,so naka focus sila sa part nila dahil importante rin naman yun. Anyway, magagawan namin to ng paraan hihi, hindi man ngayon. Malay mo mamaya hahaha
yown ayos galing yup kaya nyo yan
Pipilitin hahaha
Yang sa noise dapat sa FB yan kasi yan ang dahilan ng iba kaya ayaw dito. D daw sila nagsusulat. Meron akong sinulat nasa notes ko. Na kapag andito na sa noise, matututo tayong magsulat kahit hindi naman talaga writer. Yan ang sinasabi ko sa junakis ko "kaya mo yan". Ako naman isinasaisip ko kung kaya nila kaya ko din silang gulangan nyahahaha 🤣
bata pa naman sila.. so introduce mo lang siguro kasi if pinilit mo baka di pa nila talaga hilig.. or wala naman kasi sila purpose for that.. hihihih or set an example of minsan pasulatin mo sila sa noise mo ganun
It's okay kung ayaw wag haha. Poproblemahin ko pa sila haha.