They say that if you like someone, don't waste any moment and just tell them straight how you feel; but mine is different. If I like someone, I should make myself busy and move on. As simple as that!
As much as possible, I want to end the feelings right away because it's a total waste. Maybe not for you but in my case, it is. After my long-time crush 3 years ago that lasted probably 2 years, I vowed to never waste time with someone who says no. LOL. If that person says, "I like you but ......," then move on!
Why wait for a miracle to happen and torture yourself in the process when you can simply accept the sad truth and leave your pain behind? I know it's hard, but it's better than hoping for someone to fall for you when he already decided that he wouldn't even dare to.
Anyway, the reason I'm writing this is that I recently said something stupid to someone. LOL. Yes, I'm sure you have the idea what that was. I know, I know, that sounds so stupid and a very desperate move. Not to mention, that it is obviously against my motto at all. But people make stupid decisions when they are high; not in drugs, though, but with the L-word.
So yeah, I told that person how I feel. At first, he was trying to avoid the conversation. LOL. That's his polite way of saying, "Sorry, girl, but we're just friends." And I get the message. LOUD and CLEAR! But my stupid self has to provoke him to speak up, and the poor dude had no choice but to say something.
I just listened as he tried to explain something, and that's the time I realized that I made a wrong decision. LOL. But because we've been friends for years, so we still managed to set aside our emotions and continue being good friends. Yes, we are still friends and now, I feel a lot better. No more extra burdens because I was able to let it all out, and I also heard his explanation so we're good.
If there's something I have learned in this recent experienced of my stupidity, that's to stick to the plan. When you start feeling something stupid to someone, abort the mission! Because the more you allow it to your system, the more it's going to be hard to let go. And I think (hopefully) that would be the last time that I would ever try to be stupid again.
But we never know what's going to happen next. Just because some things didn't end well doesn't mean everything is going to fall apart. Well, the point is, that's not the end of the story yet. There's more to come I guess but one thing is for sure, I have no regrets about telling someone how I feel because at least now, I don't have to pretend.
Nothing has changed though. We are still soulmates. I mean besties.
Tatanda kng dlaga jan cge ka😅.. what if you meet someone onedeay toz u like him as he with you pero torpe xa, pano na? Jiji,, experiences tlga nkakatroma minsan.