@acat 15 May 2020 more from that month

This explains nothing

In an inflection point in my life when I was struggling to put even mundane experiences into words, a dear friend abruptly cut me off mid-sentence saying "never explain yourself. Your friends don't need it and your enemies won't believe you anyway". It's solid advice. Cats never explain anything either. Maintain a little mystery. Let people wonder what you are thinking.