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Written by Β Β 234
3 months ago

June 29, 2021

I have read the prompt 6 of Ms. @JonicaBradley yesterday and it gave me an idea of what to write today. The new prompt is about "Cheating". And today I will write an article based on a true story.

This is a story of a girl who fell in love in the wrong time and with the wrong man. How will she dealt with the consequences? Is she ready to face the world full of mockery? Will she accept her destiny? If you're interested, please continue reading this. (Choooorr!, Go self! Haha)

I have known Leslie since we're child. We're not close coz we're not same with interest and we're a total opposite. Her mom is my Aunt. Since a child I always heard them bad mouthing my mom and me, well actually my family. I don't know what's with them.

When I was in high school, I was being told that I am a timer. To whom I heard that word? From my Aunt. She told me and our neighbor that I have boyfriends while studying without knowing that her daughters were the one who have boyfriends and one of them was a timer. But the timer one is my close friend. Coz even she's a timer, I can say that she's a kind one, is just that she's not into commitment. Unlike Leslie who's like a decent girl but sharp tongue. She will talk not minding if she'll hurt someone or not. She hates me a lot actually. They said I will not able to graduate in high school and will married early. I told myself, let's see.

When I was in fourth year high school, I learned that Leslie was already married and will have a child. How did I know? She went to Manila after she graduates in high school, I still remember that she was studying college but only for first semester only and she stopped. We just wondered who walked in front of us, she's thin that time and have a bulging tummy. I almost didn't recognized hear. When she smiled at me and said "Hi dai!" . And there I recognized her sly smile. I asked myself, what happened? Is she married, I answered hello to her. I am just cautious coz she's been so mean to me.

Our other Aunt asked her if where's her husband, but then she said that the guy was at work and that she's only the one who went home. Later, after a month, she gave birth and I've heard from our relatives that the guy who's the father of her daughter was a married man and that they can't be together because the legal wife was looking for them. What's inside my mind that time is that 'karma' is b***h , really! All her mother told me and those things Leslie did to me bounced back to them. I was a little bit sad for her coz I see that she's changing into good one but I was wrong. She's still the old Leslie.

When I graduated in college, she's trying to be close with me like her sister. Her sister is my closest cousin and my best friend. Though, I've heard lots of hurtful words from their mom, I can't leave Leila coz she's so kind to me and the down to earth one unlike her sister. I knew why Leslie wants to be close to me even their mom. But, I didn't mind them. I see how Leslie face other people hiding the fact that her partner is a married one. She embraces it whole heatedly but I always notice that she's hurting her first born. Her anger easily burst when she sees her child. I think all her frustration and anger was pointed to her daughter. That's why here daughter don't like to be with her. Her daughter now was with her parents. They're the one who raise the child.

Now, Leila talked to me that the partner of her Ate Leslie have someone else (kabit). And Leslie was so furious, they already have two children already. So, Leslie done another mistake, she did a revenge and have a relationship with her ex Jino. I don't actually know the whole story but Ate Leila is asking for my help to advice Ate Leslie and that hit me hard and laugh. I told Ate Leila, I can't coz I know that Ate Leslie will not listen to me. But then she insisted so I did. I told Ate Leslie to stopped her revenge with her partner coz cheating will not be a solution to their problem. That they should talk. I never thought that she'll cry after what I said. She said that she can't bear the fact and never expected that her partner was having an affair, the fact that they already have two children. Behind my mind was "Seriously? You didn't expect your partner to do that to you, which he already did with his legal wife with you?" , but I contain myself not to tell that to her. I told her to stop meeting Jino cause the children will be the one to be hurt she continue meeting him. She's mad with the woman his partner have a relationship, she nagged her like she's the legal wife but she's not. We just her be. But I and Ate Laila chatted the girl and the girl told us that Leslie's partner told her that he's single and no children. Haha lol, that kind of guys will surely be toasted.

Leslie went home to our hometown but after three days she went back to her partner coz she's pregnant for her third. I don't know if they're okay now coz I was busy this days and never replied with her messages. You know, she's trying to be close with me. Now, they already have three children but the trust was gone already. I still remember that her daughter asked me why she can't go to her father's side, grandparents, and I can't answer her same with Ate Leila. I felt pity for the children. They were hidden and felt lost.

Closing Thought

If a relationship starts from cheating, it will end up into chaos. Never expect to have peace in mind if you enter such relationship coz every time, you will always think of negative things. The what ifs and so. The insecurities will always be there. The fear that your partner will do same to you of what he did before.

The guy cheated to his legal wife, that is why Leslie is not assured to where she stands. I know she's been struggling now. Especially that the guy is a womanizer. How will she keep the relationship which starts from a mistake?

That's one of the things before why I am afraid to have a relationship. And my standards was high. Haha, I still remember the time when someone will court me, I feel all the guys were committed already that is why I close my doors. I am afraid to be found by guys like Leslie's partner.

I am just glad that I've found someone who's single and loyal haha sana di magbago chooorr!. Anyway, we should be cautious when it comes to relationship and for those guys who wants us to be with. Never put yourself in the chaos and you might be drowned and won't able to get up.

The names I used were not their true names. Haha. I need tp hide their identity though. Anyway, what can you say? You are free to comment with this story.

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That's sad to hear, why did she let herself be a mistress.. well the kids are already there but if I may be the one on her shoes, once is enough ksi alam nman nyang kabit xa to which bumitaw na xa dapat

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3 months ago

Yeah I agree with you, nothing else will be good if the relationship or something starts with cheating. I won't gonna judge them though. Yeah you did the right thing to hide their name. It will keep the privacy and also we could know πŸ˜…

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3 months ago

Cheating can result to devastating outcome just like that . Cheating should not be executed in the first place .

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3 months ago

How did she go about having three kids to a married man? I'm not judging, but that's seriously eff up.

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3 months ago

I can't also tell. It's her decision though. But yeah it is hihi

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3 months ago

Ayy kaloka naman ito sis. Ako naman naexperience ko na din macheat, sabi sakin wala na sila nung jowa niya matagal na, mga 1 month palang kami non. Then nakita ko sa fb nagcecelebrate sila ng monthsary amp. Parang gusto ko din sumali s prompt na 'to. Haha

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3 months ago

Awtsss sakit naman nun. Pero ganun talag may mga manloloko marami hahaha Gawa ka tapos ilagay mo totoong pangalan para ma stalk ko sa fb hahaha

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3 months ago

Medyo masakit lang dahil saglit palang naman. Hahaha halaa stalk talaga? πŸ˜†

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3 months ago

Sabagay. Saglit lng nan haha. Kaya oks lang πŸ˜…

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3 months ago

Grabe.
At kapangalan pa ni mama πŸ˜… May kakilala ako lahat anak nya panganay. Iba2 tatay.. Lol.. I'm not sure though kung sino nagchecheat, kung sya or mga naging partner nya.. Pro ngayon my foreign BF na.. And I guess, he will be the last.. Accepted dn mga anak nya

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3 months ago

Ahy luh! Sorry mare haha. Coincidence lang na kapangalan πŸ˜… Buti namn at nakahanap na ng pangmatagalan mare

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3 months ago

I'm so used to cheating issues haha. Bakit paba ko lalayo. Ihalimbawa ko na yung nanay ko πŸ˜‚ De joke Lang.

  • Hmm , natry ko nadin magcheat , natry ko na din maging parang kabit , natry ko nadin na yung jowa ko nakabuntis at madami pang iba. Pero noon yon before ko mameet husband ko.

Kaya di ako naniniwala na once a cheater always a cheater kasi base sa experience ako , nakaya ko Naman magbago.

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User's avatar Yen
3 months ago

Pagbabae siguro sis, karamihan talaga nagbabago pero yung lalaki kasi parang kukunte lng talaga yung mga cheaters na nagbago. Alam mo yun kasi nakasanayan na nila.. kaya nga sabi namin dun sa partner ng pinsan namin, ikaw na gwapong gwapo sa sarili. Tapos yung pinsan kasi namin subrang marupok. Pero ngayon marunong na lumaban pero sa maling paraan lng din kaya mali pa din.

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3 months ago

Ewan ko Lang pero yung kakilala ko ayun may asawa na babaero padin . Ganda ganda ng asawa niloloko pa. Tapos nakakapagpost pa sa Facebook Yung asawa na happy wife happy life. Natatawa nga ako Kasi nya alam may isang fb account asawa nya.

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User's avatar Yen
3 months ago

Ayy bongga hahaha. Parang natutulog ng gising. Di talaga basehan pagiging maganda kung ang asawa mo di makuntento sayo ano sis? Marami ganun ehh. Haayy tas ang mga bata ang kawawa.

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3 months ago

Totoo Yun . Ex ko Yung tinutukoy kong babaero. Naipost ko yata sa noise Yun hahaha

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User's avatar Yen
3 months ago

Ay nako, tustado yung mga ganun sa kabilang buhay sis haha. Di na guro talaga titino. Tsk tsk. Ginugulo ka pa rin ba? Hahah

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3 months ago

Pulis e πŸ˜‚

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User's avatar Yen
3 months ago

Wengya hahaha. Exemption ganern? Ahaha ayy wg na.

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3 months ago

This story really reflects nowadays,there are some person who choose to be someone even though they are aware that he/she is already married or in a relationship. I fully agree to you that relationship started to a cheating can cause too much pain and it can't end up to true happiness.

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3 months ago

Right sis. Cause lots of negative thoughts will be lurking into our mind and we will not feel the assurance from our partners.

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3 months ago

That’s now the so called domino effect gurl. Hahaha We should never doubled the mistakes, looy pud tawon mga bata ani

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3 months ago

Tinuod much. Luoy kaayo. Maoy nag antus sa mga maling desisyon sa ginikanan.

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3 months ago

Mao gajud gurl, dapat wala na lang unta ming baws

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3 months ago

Baw unsa katinuod na d daw sa laki ang ikatulo. Naahh ija pud na problema if tinuod. Lisud man gud ng mubaws sa di pud maayo. Ako pa niya, nibiya na lng siya uie.

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3 months ago

Mao, samot sya ka way dignidad sa iyang gibuhat. It's something like wala syang pinag kaiba. Basin sakit na gurl haha

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3 months ago

Lol, I prefer to stay away if I'm in her situation than stay with that kind of man. Kaya ko buhayin mga anak ko kumbaga. Pero mao lage lahi lahi mn ang mga baje. Tapulanon man gud pud girl mao kapit na lng bisan ping it. Haha

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3 months ago

aww mao, sadyang iba2 talaga ang takbo ng isip ng mga tao. hahaa

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3 months ago

This is deep. One bad turn deserves another right?. What most people do is they shut down their consciences and only act with their head, if not when we have other eligible suitors you can go out with, why on earth do they destroy people's happiness.

You shouldn't be a reason why one should be afraid of being in a relationship because there are still lots of faithful ones out there.

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3 months ago

Yes you're right.

I am just glad that Ivey found a good man. Before, I am afraid they might cheat on me or hurt me. That's why I am not easily pleased by words.

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3 months ago

I also faced bad times when the person I loved left me alone. Btw I overcome that, though it was little hard but it's okay now 😌

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3 months ago

That's good to hear. Keep going with your life. You will be happy for sure. πŸ₯°

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3 months ago

Did you know that Psychological says, "An unfaithful man has the low IQ."

I didn't know what is the feeling to be cheated by Partner, but one thing I know some people in my surrounding did this to me also

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3 months ago

True sis. Ako never ko pa din na experience na e cheat pero marami ako kilala na ni cheat. Kawawa nga ehh.

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3 months ago

If lahat na experience ang cheat, may possibility kayang lahat tayo is nagccheat rin haha

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3 months ago

Hahaha ayy nako, magtatago na lng ako πŸ˜‚

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3 months ago

I agree with you, if you steal a man or a woman who was already tied up or having relationship with others we will never have peace and karma will do the same to us. What comes around goes around.

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3 months ago

True mare. And dapat isipin yung mga anak kasi sila talaga masasaktan ng subra.

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3 months ago

Yes, tama. Kids will be the one to suffer the most.

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3 months ago

Karma is a b****h nga tlaga tlaga, di ko alam kung maiinis ako dun sa babae kase nandun padin ung awa, kahit na sabihin na nagkamali sya at pumatol sa pamilyado at the second time ipinagpalit ule sya. Sakit nun, pero di tama na saktan ung anak para sa pagkakamali na ginawa ng magulang, wlaang kasalanan ang bata na ipinanganak sya dahil walang kamuwang muwang ang bata sa nangyari.

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3 months ago

Tama ka jan. Eh kaso wala ehh. Tama na sana yung isang beses lng nagpabuntis ano? Kaso tatlo ehh. Tapos yun nga dapat iniisip talaga ang mga anak lalo na yung sa unang asawa.

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3 months ago

baka libog pinapairal, alam ng hirap na nga buhay tapos papabuntis pa.

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3 months ago

Di ko rin alam haha. Pero baka mahal nya lang talaga. Tingnan mo oh d maiwan iwan kahit may iba ang lalaki.

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3 months ago

We always know this qoute, "what comes around, goes around". You will eventually reap what you sow. Indeed cheating brings no good in a family. It will just destroy their relationship. Nakakawa talaga yung mga bata.

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3 months ago

Kaya nga ehh. Hayyy pero wala eh choice nya yun πŸ˜“

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3 months ago

Oo nga eh. Wala tyaung maggagawa

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3 months ago

Wooh!!!😯😯 dali.a ra nakahimo si ate uie..πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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3 months ago

Hahaha nadugay gani dai. Dinalian kay naay atabs nag samok samok na

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3 months ago

di man halata nga dinalian ate uie, nindot baja☺️

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3 months ago

Hahaha nindot d i. Mura man gani nig toxic na topic hahha.

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3 months ago

pyts man te..

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3 months ago