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October 21, 2022

To be a parent, there will be a big changes that will happen in your life. Not all parents able to accept the fact and embrace the changes because not all mom to be are ready for the responsibility.

Are you a mom already?

You know, to be a full time mom isn't easy. You will always be tired of everything even just early in the morning that you open your eyes. But you don't have the right to complain because that's the consequences of the action you made. And for me, I can say that I am totally exhausted and want to have a vacation for a year but nahhh I don't have the right to do so because my baby needs me.

Having a toddler with all day will exhaust your energy. Your patience will be tested for how much you have in your pocket of patience. And I can say that I easily snap especially if my son cried a lot. Well, babies do cry a lot especially if we can't met waht they need. And as a first time mom, all I do was to losten to my instinct of what my aby wnats from me and sometimes, I admit that I snap and scold him. Soemtimes if that happens, all I can do is asked my self if I am a good mom. I'm not surprised that I am dealibg with post partum depresion, because since then before I got pregnant I have anxiety already and my mind was crowded with lots of things. And it happens to get worst when I gave birth. Maybe if my partner is not supportive with me, for sure I already was broken now.

True that I am tired all day doing household chores and then take care of our son, but that doesn't mean I don't want what my life now. I am still grateful that I have my son because he's the reason I'm firghting for my life nad have direction in life also. I able to focus on this I need to do especially on how to be productive everyday. One of the things that I can say productive to me is when I able to take good care of my son. Why? Because not all mothers able to do such thing to their chidlren. Some mother's are busy with work and some also don't have time for their children because they're not close. Taking care of my son 24/7 made me a blessed mom because I able to experience this tiresome day yet productive one. I able to see the milestone of my son which I know I will be proud of someday. Seeing him getting tall and talkatively singer, makes my heart pump with happiness. Because who's not? Mother will always be happy seeing her child developed into a fine one.

Even if I'm tired, I felt the happiness and love in me while holding my son. It's because I know that this experience will not stay long because he will grow someday and when that happens, I will not be his center of attention and he'll find his behalf. Well, that's life right? That's why i enjoy this tiresome day that for sure will be my happy memories that I will reminisce when I gets old. Thinking taht day to come make my heart ache but I always say to myself that time will come that it will happen. So now, I will enjoy the day that my son loves my smell and everything about me because someday he will love someone else other than me. My gosh, sakita man. But yeah as what I've said that will happen and I need to accept.

Okay, that's all for today. Gotta go and sleep coz my back is aching like my goshhhh.

Night night to all.

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Atong junakis murag di mahutdan og energy pero kita nagluya na haha ,laban inahan lang jud.

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3 months ago

Lisod jud kung naay toddler sis tapos naa pay buluhaton. Grabe jud ang kakapoy natong mga inahan.... Nakaremember ko sa baby pa akong kambal, grabe kalisod plus nagka post-partum pa ko that time pero worth it ang tanan nga karong nakita nako sila nga healthy ug happy nga nanagko...

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3 months ago

You are a super mom, and I can understand how tiring it would be to manage everything but still you are doing your best. A huge applause to you

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3 months ago

Mareng!! Una kong basa 3some HUEHYEHU. Me bad. Ahahahaha. Anyways, masaya na sa ginagawa mo talagang dibale ng pagoda no at least sulit pa rin.

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3 months ago

I feel you sis. I snap most of the time and minsan di ko na alam ginagawa ko. Gusto kong huminga. Hindi ko dn makausap mother ko about it kase the last time I snapped, sinabihab nya akong sana di muna ako naganak kung di ako ready.

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3 months ago

I can relate to this. I'm also a first time mom, and I can say that it's literally tiring mentally, physically, and emotionally. Good thing people around me helps me a lot, especially my hubby and my parents. Don't be afraid to ask help, lalo na may postpartum ka. Try to be open to your partner or parents of what struggle your facing. I'm sure they'll support you. ❤️

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