December 2019, I saw a quotes for a parents. The quotes consist of how good parents are. So, I shared the post and put a caption on it. The caption was intended for my parents for how am I so proud of them. For not giving me the pressure to work and for giving them money when I have nothing. I also put there that I am blessed for not pressuring me to pay DEBT. Though my parents debt was not big. Ahm, as I remember that time, my parents debt was only 8,000.00 pesos. But then, my husband's Aunts (father side) got mad at me. They went to the house where I and my husband was living together. Yes, we're living together when I resigned from the private school I am working because I got sick. Now, they went there and they nagged at me. They were three. The eldest and the two youngest siblings of my husband's Aunt. There, they shout at me with hurtful words. You know why? Just because of the word DEBT in my post. I wondered why they got mad. And there, it hit me. They want my husband to pay his mother's debt, the debt my husband doesn't knew. His mother never told that to him that she have debt to them. And if there was really, then it should be paid because the money his father received from the insurance was bug enough to pay all the debt. And of course, his father told them that he gave the money to his elder sister, though my husband wondered why, he didn't ask why and where the money went.
That time, my husband protected me. He protect me from the hands of his Aunt who's willing to hurt me physically and emotionally. I saw how he stand as a man. That time, we decide to go away from that place. I called my Aunt who was in Hong Kong, and I borrowed money. I don't want to call my parents because I am ashamed and afraid that they might got mad with my husband. My Aunt was got mad when she knew. She called my other Aunt who's also in Hong Kong, they told me to go to their house and stay there for how many days, as long as I want. So, we went there together with my husband. It was December 21, 2019 that it happened. It was almost Christmas.
We planned to find a house near the school my husband was working and to stay away to his relatives. We planned to find after Christmas, so we stayed at my Aunt's house for 3 days and went to my parents house after 3 days to celebrate Christmas. We didn't celebrate Christmas to my husband's family because he don't want to see his father's face who was like a dog with leash to his siblings.
We're thankful that around December 26, my husband's salary for 3 months came. So we went back to where we're living to get our things. We already found a house to rent, and it is the house we're renting until now. He paid his debt to his Aunt. Those debt was the money they give for his review and for processing his papers. You see, how cruel they were. The thought that they give my husband money before was a debt. And they didn't directly give the money to my husband but to his father, so how will we know that those money he paid for was really intact when he had it before? We know that the list they shown was just new written that time. But we stayed silent as they talked bad things to us, especially to me because for them I was a brain washer to my husband. But they didn't knew that my husband was angry to them since the day his an elementary pupil, it was when his mother always cried because of them. And the reason why he's mad with his father because his father didn't even protect his mother from its siblings.
My husband prepare paper and write something on it. I saw it was like "kasunduan" , he even put a witness there. It was a note as an evidence that he paid ALL the debt. It was 34,000.00 pesos and the husband of his other Aunt was the witness. So it was cleared that they can't just go to us and ask for more because they signed it.
January 5, 2020, it was the day we start to live in our new rented house, away from his family thought that not far but atleast I can't see their faces everyday. It was the day like we felt we're free especially my husband cause he felt like they're putting him on leash like his father. My husband want to be free from their hands cause he don't like to experience hus mother's suffering because of them. It was the reason why he don't like his father.
We live so happy since the day that we stand on our own. Thankfully he was already a regular public teacher that time. I also told his father that if he ever told me something bad same with his siblings, I am willing to give my husband back to them, but the question is, "will my husband go back to them?", I know my husband so much. He'd been telling me before that he will leave his family when his mother died. But I am telling him that his siblings need him. Especially that his siblings were still little though the second one was already 18 years old. I am glad that he understands my words.
Around February 25, 2020, we learned that I am pregnant. That time we're excited and worried at the same time. We're worried cause what if we can't provide our child's need. And I don't have work yet, cause I am still applying for Deped that time. But our ranking was suspended during the lockdown so, we got worried. But my husband told me that we can do it. And true to his words, he did everything for us. All things was smooth, not until the day his father went to our house.
His father asked money to us because he needs to pay 90,000.00 pesos. It was all the debt. My husband wondered again, why he have that big debt. And then his father told him that it was the debt before his mother died. My husband want to tell him about the insurance, he want to ask his father where did he used it but I hold his hand. I told him not to do so. So, he sighed and asked his father how much he want but the truth was we don't have yet money too. His father also doesn't know that I am pregnant that time. I don't want him to know. He's father told my husband that he needs 100,000.00 pesos, intact and that he will not ask again to my husband regarding about debt. My husband said okay and that he will have a loan credit. He told his father that it is his first and last loan. I know, his father got something in his mind, and I don't care. It was his son's words so he can't do anything with that. We really wondered where the money from insurance he used for. We know it was big because my husband's mother told us before she died.
So my husband got a loan and he went together his father in paying those debt. But his father got mad at him, cause why my husband went with him in paying, doesn't my husband trust him. When my husband heard that, he went home. He got disappointed with his father.
I will continue this story tomorrow. Well, for those wondering why I am sharing this story of mine, well, I just want to express what I've been feeling inside. The anger, disappointment, and all the feelings I felt for my husband's relatives. It is because, the pain inside was still here. I want to be free.
Thank you for reading guys, please don't judge me by this work. Lol.
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