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Written by   234
4 months ago
Topics: Thoughts, Lessons, Random

Have you experienced to have lots of hair fall? Cause I, myself, experienced it when I am five months since the I day undergo emergency Cesarian Section. I thought I'll be bald that time cause my hair fall is not normal anymore.

Lots of hair fall.

I have read somewhere about reasons why we experienced hair fall. Some say it was due to hormonal changes, aging and iron diffeciency. But there's also another reason behind massive hair fall of a woman especially those who just gave birth. The reason why a woman experienced hair fall is because of emotional stress, depression and anxiety. Experiencing these three is not really easy and not an overacting of the person. Emotional stress, depression and anxiety may lead the person to danger and they need someone to talk to. They need those love ones to attend her and understand her. But then again sometimes, those who loves you most gave you the stress.

Let us be aware about these especially to those who experience this situation. Emotional stress or depression and anxiety is not really a joke. Let us be observant in our environment especially in our home cause we might have someone we know who's suffering from emotional stress. We don't know what they're been through in fighting these stress. We don't know really what they're been feeling right now. We can't say if they're okay cause we see them act good and posting positive vibes in social media, but then again we don't know. We see them smiling and laughing but we can't tell what's deep within them. We don't know and no one knows. Only people who they trust can helped them open up. But who are those people? Their relatives? Well, maybe but not all cause some relatives will just say overacting and that hurts and one of the reason why they won't open up. Because lots of people will judge without knowing and what's worst? Your own blood will be the one who'll judge right away. Fighting depression,is anxiety or emotional stress or whatsoever the call it is not easy. It's so hard fighting it especially thinking of when will this strikes again. So hard thinking when will you last fighting it. So hard that only you, yourself, helped to make yourself alive and fine. You just want to be free with that cage inside you that's why you do on your own to be happy.

So please if you have someone who's suffering with these emotional stress, please bear with them and cheer them up. Let them open their self to you without judge. Try to listen and give suggestions. You can also tell that they can rely on you. If they need someone to talk to, let yourself free for them to be a company. Or, if they will not talk to you, just show them that your always there for them? They need someone, they need to hear other voice to listen.

Hair fall captured by during bath.

When I experienced emotional stress, my hair fall was not normal. And I always felt so tired and can't think right. I always self pity. I cried a lot almost at night. Though I have my partner, I sometimes can't open up. One time I got mad, to my partner and to my brother. I don't know what's got in to me but when I look around the house, I see messy things and it got me irritated easily. When I felt mad, I just cried and sometimes threw things I see. I know that was awful. Me either sometimes don't understand myself. That time someone told me it was postpartum depression and I need to fight it. When I can't voice out my feelings, I hit my partner so that my anger will fade. I don't want to stay like that so I fought it with all my might. I don't want to hurt someone physically especially my partner. There was a time also that I shouted at my son out of rage cause I felt irritated. It was the first time. When I noticed what I had done, I was the one who cried a lot and felt anger to myself when I saw my baby smiled at me after he cried. It was like, what kind of a mother am I? That day, I told myself that I will fight this emotional stress. That I will not let other opinion sink in myself. Cause some people in our neighborhood were really "pakialamera". So, I talked to my husband and he give me advice and told me what will be the consequences when I let it win. He said to just focus on our son so that I will felt fine.

I put this hair fall of mine in the box, I still have it after four months. Lol.

For now, I'm still fighting this stress but glad that my hair fall already stopped, maybe because I am not that stressed now and already know what to do when depression strikes. Indeed it's not easy to deal with this stress but I know, I will be so much fine soon.

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Gibasa jd n nko ky mao n ako problem nowadays😅 Hahay ma opaw njd kadogayan.

"My hair have crush on me, it always fall😂 ae waleeyy hahahahahahahha

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3 months ago

Hahaha ngeehhh maajo pang buhok nuh ma fall. Ja kumustang crush nimu? Na fall pud hahaha😂

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3 months ago

Hahhahaha no comment! Move on😂

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3 months ago

Ing.anah pud akong hair karun memsh. Kada human nako ligo grabe jud ang hairfall. Arang nipisa na gud sa akong buhok ron.

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4 months ago

I think wrong hair treatment can cause hair loss too, right? There are so many wrong products out there and they just mess hair up for people.

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4 months ago

Yes that's true. But I didn't change my shampoo and conditioner. I used those since before.

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4 months ago

Wow. I am so sorry about that. Someone mentioned using Castro oil too.

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4 months ago

Yes, castor oil is effective ☺️ But I rather not use it hihihi thank you for your concern. ☺️

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4 months ago

Hahaha. Any reason? Tell me please. I would love to learn

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4 months ago

I just don't like to to use it. Hihihi ang my hair is thick so I don't need it though I have lots of hair fall before. ☺️

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4 months ago

So sorry about that.

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4 months ago

I experienced hair loss too. Because of the medicines I am taking. I found this shampoo which helped me a lot. It's called Lauat. It's an herbal shampoo available in the supermarkets or drugstores. You may try it.

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4 months ago

I minimize using shampoo now. ☺️ And my hair already healed. I don't have many hair falls. Thank you so much for your concern Ma'am ☺️☺️☺️

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4 months ago

Shudi Jud kastress ate Kay mawa Ang ka gwapa ug ma kalbo na sig katangtang Ang buhok

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4 months ago

Haha mao lge dai 😅

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4 months ago

hala te😳 i.pa check na daw na te.. nakulbaan c.e ko nagtan.aw..

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4 months ago

Ok na mn ko dai. Nihunong na mn pud ang hair fall. Atu ra ng February hihihu. Karon ok na. Nibalik na ug labong ahung buhok. Dghan lge baby hair mao namarog hahah

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4 months ago

Nakaexperience na dun po ako ng ganyan. Pero hindi naman po ganyan kadami.

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4 months ago

Subrang dami ng sakin bhe. Feeling ko nun makakalbo na ko kaya pinaputulan ko na buhok ko. Tapos iwas na sa mga iisipin na di maganda at nakakastress. Buti ok na ko ngayon. ☺️

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4 months ago

Sakin po kapag mahaba na yung buhok ko saka lang sya naglalagas. Nagsimula lang po to yung nagsimula akong magpagupit sa salon. Nagtampo ata buhok ko. Hindi sya sanay sa iba eh.

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4 months ago

My hair, I hate it. He grows too fast, I just got haircut then next two weeks I need to do again.. It'sa waste of money haha

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4 months ago

Pa stress ka para no need na haircut 😅

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4 months ago

hanap nalang jowa, baka doon ako ma stress so iwas gastos hahaha

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4 months ago

Jowang jowa na tlga to ohh. Araw araw bukangbibig eh 😅😅😅🤣

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4 months ago

haha malay mo may maawa sa readers mo.. ahaha

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4 months ago

Haha hoping much. 🤧😅🤣

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4 months ago

Don't let stress gurl, drives your whole self.. Kay u know na it's not easy to feel that way. I'm experiencing also that but I tried not to let it dominate me, basta laban lang never care others, kay maka stress rana sila.. hahaha

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4 months ago

Mao lge.. kapuya baya. Wooohhh aywaaa!!!

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4 months ago

mao gajud dzae....

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4 months ago