Join 75,784 users and earn money for participation

Attributes of a person you need to have in life. (1)

4 25 boost
Avatar for Zhyne06
Written by   226
3 weeks ago

September 21, 2021

Lead image

What kind of person you want to hang out in life? Or whom are you wanna be with? Do the people beside you makes you grow and makes you a better person each day? Do that person makes you look life in a positive way? Or does that person gives you a better vision of a future you want to have?

A person can't live without other people. Accept it or not, that's true. That is we always have this atleast one companion in our life who helps us to mold into a good person or not. It's depend to us to whom we want to be and of what community we wanted to stay. Parents were one of the example of a person who mold us to what we are today. Without them, we were not able to be us today. Everything they tought and showed us will give us big impact in our life as we grow older. That's why, to have a parents is an essential part of us. Now, think of what kind of parent do you have? Do they give you the knowledge and mold your character into a better individual which helps you how to understand and look beyond things that happens and understand other people's choice in life? Every person is unique that is why, no matter what explanation you have now with my question, that's okay coz as long as you know you are good into yourself and to others, then your parents mold and nurture you through best.

What are type of person you need to be with?

*The inspired

Why do we need a person who's inspired? Because when we hang out with them, they tend to teach us how to be inspired too. There were times that we always lost and have no inspiration to move forward in life. Like, we want to achieve to soemthing yet we felt that we can't make it and felt like it's not for us. We need someone who can inspire us. Like for me, my parents is my inspiration since before. Without them, I will not think of achieving my goals. And now, I have my own family, they added the fire I felt in my heart to move forward in life and no matter how hard it would be, I will not be tired of achieving my goals in life for them.

My goals in life are not just for me. I am inspired to do things everyday because I know someone need me and someone's future will be in better shape if I am working on things that I know will help us in the future.

And if we have someone who's inspired to do things, that's energy will also be passed to us. Because those inspired people tend to achieve their goals in life and with that we are abale to be inspired of what they got into life and we also want to be like them.

*The motivated

Once you have someone who's motivated in life, for sure you will also be motivated. Why? Because they can share things why they are motivated. As for me, I have someone who's always motivated to do things in life coz he wants to achieve his dreams despite the fact that he's not a professional. And that's my father. Ever since I was a child, I saw how he struggled just for us, his family. He did his best to give us comfort and nurture us on his own way. I can say that I am lucky to be his child coz without him, I am not to where I am now. And without him, I will not know how to face life strong despite of hardships.

My mom also is one of the person that I always need in life as she is a motivated person though she's at home always. She's motivated to take care of us coz she said, she's happy to love and care her family and children coz that's what she can do. She can't earn money that is why she showed her love for us without giving us money but her love. She's motivated to show her love to her grandchildren too. Despite the fact that she heard some gossips for taking care of her grandchildren. Maybe other people were just jealous of her coz she's so kind to her grandchildren and she can endure taking care of a child. And that's the reason why I am proud of her. She's motivated not because of money, she's motivated because of love that she received in return.

My partner is also a person who's motivated to give better life for our partner. I am just lucky that his doing his best for us his family and for his siblings. His motivated coz he don't want his family history to be repeated into his own little family. He don't want to give problems to his son when he grow up. All he did now is for our little son. He's my motivator coz there were time that I am unmotivated and easily to give up. He's the one who gave me reason to think why I started doing things and what's my purpose. He's my eye-opener. He always said not to be frustrated of things which is not reachable yet and that I should wait while working things out. I sometimes think, owww I think he's older than me when thinking about life. You know, I am always telling myself before that I am mature in thinking about life but when I knew him, I felt wow I am still immature. Well, I am thankful that he found me and he's my partner. I am also glad that we have the same vision and goals we want to achieve in life. We both are helping hand in hand. We always talk of what to do. Sometimes we don't understand each other that lead to quarrel, yet at the end we always think that we will both be losers if we let our pride eat us both. For now, our focus is our son and of what we can give to him in the future. Our focus is to give him better shape of life.

***That's all for today, actually there still more I need to write and add to this article but my baby needs me now so, I decided to write another part of it tomorrow. So, have a nice day to everyone and good night. 😉

9
$ 6.71
$ 6.46 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.15 from @bmjc98
$ 0.05 from @Jher0122
+ 2
Avatar for Zhyne06
Written by   226
3 weeks ago
Enjoyed this article?  Earn Bitcoin Cash by sharing it! Explain
...and you will also help the author collect more tips.

Comments

We should surround ourselves with people who will help us grow and be a better human being 🤗

$ 0.00
3 weeks ago

Tama mare. Kaya need natin mga tao na ganun tapos tayo dapat meron din ganyan na ugali 😉

$ 0.00
3 weeks ago

Before we can have this kind of person in our lives then we need to be that kind of person first. So that the person you want will Also be attracted to your personality.

$ 0.00
3 weeks ago

That's why I am thankful of my parents for teaching how to have this characters. Though soemtimes it's hard especially if there's happenings in life that is out of our control.

$ 0.00
3 weeks ago