Parents can be worst!

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The purpose of giving birth to a child by all parents is to raise their child and teach them how to behave and how to talk to others. An ideal parent should give enough time to his child, discuss religion, color, society, country, life with the child. A child grows up properly when a parent cares for their child and keeps an eye on the child's every move.

But at the present time parents do not have the minimum knowledge on how to nurture a child. As a result of their irresponsible actions, small children are now involved in major crimes. I read in a news a few days ago, the parents were killed by a 16-year-old child. The child was a girl child and she was drug addicted. Although the girl was 18 years old, her parents gave her complete freedom. As a result, the girl had illicit relations with many people and some drug addicted boys mixed with the girl and completely destroyed her brain. As a result, the girl needed a lot of money for her daily drug and that money was given by her parents. But her parents did not know that her daughter was intoxicated. Who can say wrong here? I will never blame the girl for being intoxicated. I will blame the girl's parents Because whenever the girl has money, her parents have given it to her without any inquiry. If the girl's parents had been aware from the beginning, "why my daughter is taking so much money every day, then the bad time would not have come". When the girl's father saw his daughter taking extra money and returning home at night, he became suspicious. At one point, the girl's father found out that her daughter was drug addicted and had an illicit sexual relationship with the boys. Then his father forbade him to leave the house. But the drug addicted girl could not imagine herself inside the house without drugs so the girl stabbed both her parents to death. Now you can say it's all the girl's fault, but I'll say "No!" It is entirely the fault of her parents, if they had not given their daughter such unfettered freedom, nothing like this would have happened today.

Why are parents sometimes the worst?

For this, some of the activities of the parents are due to ignorance of technology and responsibility.

With the advancement of technology, the human mind has changed in all aspects of inhumanity, thinking, usage, knowledge of responsibility. When a parent is behind all these technologies all day, there is no time to take care of the child. They are busy day and night with mobile phones or computers and do not notice what the child is doing. Therefore, different incidents happen at different times A few days ago, there was an incident where a mother was watching videos on her mobile phone and her baby was sitting on the floor of the house. The mother of the child was busy with her mobile phone and her child crawled to the bathroom but the mother did not notice. With a bucket full of water in the bathroom, the child is attracted to the water and goes there. At one stage of playing with water, the child fell into the bucket and died due to not being able to breathe in the water. On the other hand, the mother of the child keeps watching videos on her mobile.

I have heard the example of the heinous act of another parent that a couple had one son. The husband was a private official and the mother was a government official. So they had to stay out of the house most of the day. But their son lived alone at home. Sometimes the middle boy's grandmother didn't really stay all the time. But the problem was, when the husband and wife returned home after work, they had a quarrel every day. But her only son cried all the time for their quarrel but his parents did not understand. Unable to bear the daily quarrels between the parents, the boy commits suicide and writes a suicide note.

"Dear mom-dad, we all wanted to live happily ever after. Since you have so much work to do throughout the week, we would play a variety of games and spend time together during the weekends. Sometimes we would go for walks in the village, fishing in the ponds, I'll have a picnic. It'll be a lot of fun! But the two of you are always arguing, don't give me any time. I don't have any more friends. So now I have go far from you mom-dad! I'm so tired listen to you both"

After seeing such notes, his parents can understand how much they have done wrong. They have lost their child as a result of their mistake. There is no better curse than this.

Another example of a very bad parent is drug addicted parents! Because when a drug addicted father has sex with a drug addicted mother, the child that is born as a result can never live a healthy life. And no one can be as disgusting as those who give birth to a child who has sex to get the pleasure of sex and that child is left in the dustbin unable to nurture themselves due to society. A child is a gift from the Lord, there are many parents who try year after year and fail to have a child, and on the other hand some abusive parents throw their child in the dustbin.

We all need to be human first, because we as human beings do not really have humanity in the world. It takes good education, awareness of responsibility knowledge and proper education to treat people honestly. Thanks for reading.

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There are many stories about this, it is the reason why there is a short course that should be followed by people who are getting married. In fact, there are many things that people around you can do to help each other.

I can't blame the whole problem on the parent or child. For me, life's problems are a test. We can choose what to do. We can love life freely but know that every action has a result.

But the example you provide is something that is difficult to answer.

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3 years ago

Hummm!

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3 years ago

Ann, you've seen many events and heard many stories, I hope you are the kindest person and the best parent for the children.

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3 years ago

Really profound!!!

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3 years ago

Yeah😐

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