Obedience means feeling obligated to obey someone's wishes unconditionally. Sometimes we go against what is asked of us; however, we have a feeling of obedience, and we also feel guilty for not doing what is asked of us. When we feel guilty, let's see if our behavior hurts someone. If our behavior is hurting someone, we can certainly change it. If we feel guilty even though our behavior isn't hurting anyone, we can reflect on why we feel guilty.