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Misunderstanding is healthy if you can handle it with love.

Yesterday nighty husband and I had a misunderstanding. I also wrote an article about that and I said the we sleep with misunderstanding which is not new to us. Some users here and in noise.cash commented everytime I flex my husband and shared how sweet he are and how he is so responsible as the head of the family but like the other couples we also encounter problems and misunderstanding because even if we are one in the eyes of the Lord , we are still two individuals with different emotions and mood. So earlier this morning , he leave the house and go to his work and he didn't wake me up like he usually did every morning. From that moment I knew he still not okay. 11 AM came and he arrived at the house for lunch. Yeah we have a misunderstanding but I still prepared for his lunch and we eat but not the usually set up. We eat so seriously and didn't look at each other. He seems avoiding me and I just keep on observing him. After he eat he lay in the chair and take a nap. When we are okay I am there beside him and lean on his chest but that time I didn't do that and I go to the kitchen to wash the plate. I know he will leave soon so I asked him if he will going to prepare on leaving and he said he will leave because we are so noisy and he didn't fell asleep. I leave him after he said that and continue what I'm doing in the kitchen. 5 PM hes out from his work and still he didn't talk to me and I let him do what he want. He prepared a coffee for himself because I didn't talk to him too. My son didn't want the banana break I have him and I asked my husband if he wants the bread and he said he didn't like because he was eating the gardenia because the expiration is near. So I let him do what he want. If he is still mad then fine. I get the laptop and write an article. I go to our room and leave him outside. My son is playing that time together with my niece and the boyfriend of my sister so I am relieved that he is safe. I finished the article by 6:20 PM and he was on the Sala sleeping. I dont know if he is really sleeping or just pretending. By 7 PM my son and I had a shower and then I prepare him to sleep but he didn't want because he woke up late in his siesta. I go to the Sala and told my husband that the dinner is ready and let's eat but he said he will eat later. My son seems feel that we are not okay and he force his father to eat but he is not in a good mood so I told my son not to disturb his father in the Sala and we are the one who will eat first. It's 8 PM when I went to Sala again and woke him up and said to transfer in the room if he will sleep because it's already 8 PM then I leave. He go to the kitchen and eat then take a shower. I am busy with my son when he entered the room and I am singing a lullaby. When my son fell asleep I fix my position and because I am watching Heartful Cafe. I didn't look at him and like what I said I will let him do what he want but surprisingly be hug me and then kiss me and yeah, we make love. There's no such thing as saying sorry happened this night just love and were okay. We didn't dig what was happened yesterday and just talk about Bitcoincash ✌️ It's normal for couples to had a misunderstanding and has a fight and of you are experiencing those kind of moments it doesn't mean that you didn't love each other. Sometimes giving space to each other make the two of you think of your mistakes and what to improve to make the relationship better. Misunderstanding is healthy when you will handle it with love. I mean if you both are matured enough you will understand that those moment happened and never let that misunderstanding be a big issue. I mean the cause of break up or the cause of telling each other's shortcomings and sacrifices. For us , it's just a normal part of our life and even if we had misunderstanding we know how to handle it. Sometimes it will occur because of the mood swings and other reasons. What important is that you both are matured enough to understand why it happened.

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