@Winx1988 11 November 2020 edited more from that month

Power of words

Did you know that we have one of the most powerful weapon? It maybe often underestimated ,it can caused of encouragement or disappointment, love or hate, it can make or break a relationship, and death or life. That's how traggic and terrible it is. Do you believe that words has power? It will influenced and affect our behavior, depends on what we hear from the people around us and with ourself.

Words are often used in our daily life, it can make a big impact to someone's life.if our words are full of negativity and discouragement that person we are talking could be devastated. Because that's what we are, human nature what we heard is often stuck in our mind and it takes a very long time to forget it. ***WHAT IS THE NECECCESITY OF RIGHT WORDS?*** According to Proverbs 10:8-20 **THE MOUTH OF A RIGHTEOUS IS A SPRING OF LIFE, BUT VIOLENCE COVERS THE MOUTH OF THE WICKED.*

When we speak in a righteous way it causes a spring of life, that's how valuable it is.For example there's a person who was discouraged, depressed, feeling abandoned and want to put his life to death. But when he heard someone's advice that tenderly speaking, he became alive again and not to continue to harm himself. But if we say so bad to someone it may cause violence and a bad day. Like a husband and wife were arguing speaking bad things with each other they end up broken and miserable. There's a saying that says, 'Less talk, less mistake'. *IN THE MULTITUDE OF WORDS THERE IS NO LACK OF OBEDIENCE, BUT HE WHO RESTRAINS HIS LIPS DOES WISELY.*

This usually apply when talking to someone especially when we are angry or having argue with each other, the more we talk the more we hurt our partner, husband, children, parents, friends.But if we are restraining our lips it is a very wise act of communication. Restrained lips means to think first before we speak. Words that create peace, and harmony, and will result to a good relationship among others. *THE TONQUE OF A RIGHTEOUS IS LIKE A CHOICE SILVER.*

Choice silver means pure, white, good intentions when talking to someone that's how should we talk. When we speak to someone or give our opinion first we must evaluate our motives so that it will not cause trouble. *HOW DID WORDS AFFECT US?* **HEART,.** The heart of a person is the most affected, it may remain forever and it takes too long time to heal, however if we are hurt like scratch or wounds it will heal within 3- 5 days, but the wounds of the heart will last longer. Resulting to our actions to the person we are hurt of, because what the heart fills will come out in our actions.

**MIND.,** If we are hurt with words it will affect our mind, the way we think ,decision making, and part of that , life after can be miserable.

**SOUL.** It also affect our soul,we don't have peace if we hurt someone,we are always bothered with our conscience. Be careful with the words **I AM.** Often times we say I Am weak/I am not beautiful/I can't do it/I am nothing.When you oftenly tell it to yourself it's not good to you at all. It makes us to have a low self esteem, and self respect, lack of confidence,it will bring us down, what you say is what you become. *WORDS THAT ARE GOOD TOOLS*

**I AM SORRY**

To someone else that we hurt, this has the power to give peace ,happiness and calmness in our heart. It reconcile broken relationship, restore friendship, love, unity and good companionship. I **LOVE YOU**

This words are powerful too. It can create a relationship to someone. How amazing it is,words has power. When a man says, I love you to a woman he loved, so flattering,especially when the woman says I love you too. Oh see, nice to hear it. I **FORGIVE YOU**

This words has a power to reconcile one's relationship that has been broken and break by certain point of life. **GOOD JOB**

It shows appreciation to someone who is doing well. It brings happiness in the heart and boost a person's confidence with himself. Say a word, with **love,** tenderness, to everybody is a good way to live. Never abuse the words that we have in insulting someone or putting somebody to shame. Say a word to the person that you loved right now, because words are so precious gift from God to us. I realized I should be thankful that I can speak a word ,bear in mind that words has power everytime you say it. Words are very useful in our daily life so let's use it for the betterment of everyone hearing it. What can you say now?