I can see fear in Child's eye Locking doors and a loud sound of dropping things inside the room,her mom's crying while her dad is crying too.The child couldn't resist to see his parents get quarrelled on that morning.That's why he go out and find his friends ,he talked to his friends with a teary eyes that his parents were in trouble inside the house.Its her mom who got mad first with his dad,and she throw away things and cry. The child tried to comfort himself and play with his friends.He runs through with his friends in the backyard,but still he just suddenly stop and wanted to knock on the main door of their house,but it's lock and there's no sound inside.
The boy is about to cry but his keeping himself strong and calmed and he told his Auncle to go to his grandmother and asked her to talked to his parents.After a few minutes his grandparents came and knock the door,it takes a few seconds after they opened it,and they have a conversation inside the room,the child felt calmed when her lola came. **Afraid to be broken**
Every child in every home were afraid to have a broken family.Each child that is born deserves a happy home with his family.There are a lot of things that they can foresee once their family is not okay.One of it,is their security ,in terms of basic needs like foods,shelter,and education.The feeling of emptiness that they may experienced in the long run that misses the happy moments of being a family. When I see the child's eyes,I see his anger of why did it happened to them,he don't want to see his parents arguing and hurting each other. **Afraid to be left alone** Maybe it's impossible but there are some children who are left alone after a family has been broken.I remember those times when my parents are in trouble everyday,I and my siblings were not comfortable staying at home.My brothers will go away and keep those sharp utensils at home.We cry and hide our faces on pillows so that we couldn't hear them shouting and yelling with each other.Everytime mama go away when she get mad,I always think of myself,"how I'm gonna feed myself".As a child ,I can't provide on my own,or find work,and will end up to some close relatives.How miserable life it is being a child when the family is on the grudge. **Afraid no one to care** Have yours seen a kid living with no one to care?How depressing life they have living each day,especially when they get sick,go to school ,who will be there to guide them,when they have struggle,when they have been bully.As long as possible kids needs attention and care from parents,they will become more sickly once they are being neglected by their family. This is one thing that everyone must consider,every child that is born is not an accident.And each of them didn't choose to exist , they were born all innocent,they just live and they deserve living worthwhile. I felt the fear in Child's eyes,it touches my heart,even if his tears doesn't fall,but his eyes was saying,"why did it happen?,what will happen to me?". In child's eyes there is purity,they just defend on their family to be with them,to provide for their needs,they are so helpless and in need of love. In child's eyes I can see the longing for love,and the importance to belong.I can see his pain,that seems his crying deep inside. I can see he felt worried ,he never enjoyed playing with his friends when he saw his parents in trouble. This is for real,I don't want to see any child crying losing his home.What a happy life to live when the family is at peace,and everyone is just loving together and enjoying each other's company. More than everything that we want to desire,its also very important that we will desire to live with our family full of love,and understanding ,where the kids where free from fears. Have a happy ,happy love month everyone,not just for your dear,hon,and sweety but also for your baby,and kids and every one in the family.
Thanks everybody.
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If there will be a chaotic happened inside at home, when the parents are in serious quarrel, the children will be the most affected. They are still ignorant and they don't know how to face it. At their age they want a happiness and peaceful living at home. It's really sad sis. Some are parents didn't mind that everytime they are fighting the children will heard and it can hurt a lot to them. Children are really sensitive because of their age and they are still in stage of ignorance.
Your right,they don't understand how did it happen,all that he know is that one of his parents is bad.Its really not healthy,it can effect mentally and physically as the child grows his views will be affected.
Yes sis. I felt pity those children who experience like that.🥺
It is really one of the many painful experience a child could have maamsh. A facebook quote says that, " A child cannot choose his parents, but we can choose our partners." Let us make sure we are choosing the right ones so that there will be more happy kids in the community because they have a complete family.
Yes sis,everyone must be responsible especially when we have kids,we can make or break someone's innocent heart if we choose to destroy our relationship.