@Winx1988 21 February 2022 more from that month

Please Obey This topic is relate to obedience of children towards their children.If we have observed that there's a big changed with how did children obey with their parents in this present generation. It is very alarming nowadays with some young people,kids who didn't obey their parents,or elder siblings and relatives. ***Obedience refers to submission in another authority .*** Let me just tell you a real story; There was a kid who usually go to neighbors house every morning,she was just 6 years of age.At first,they were playing with her friends but after a few minutes,she had a fight with them because she didn't want to give one piece of marble with her playmate.She cries a lot,and even shout very loud. Then,an older woman came,she is the grandmother of one of her playmates,she told the little girl to stop shouting and don't throw stone to her companion.But,it's surprised with the old lady that the little girl shouted on her face,"I'm angry".I can't picture out how did the old woman react,but she really felt disappointed.Some people say,"does this kid didn't even told by her parents to obey,she's acting like a boss.Maybe she watched baby boss. I was just bothered,when a mom called her son or daughter a baby boss.It will gives the kid so much confident that she can ask what she want because she's the boss.Even if how many times she's been told to stop she really refuses to do so,until everyone get angry and makes her cry. Well,some people say that this girl was not given a right discipline by her parents.Some says,that she's like her mother.Kids have the tendency to disobey ,as their young age ,they are still exploring and learning new things in life.But of course there's should a guidance and giving them reinforcements of good values. ***Why do we need to obey our parents?*** ***Being obedient to our parents doesn't end , because it's commanded by God,that we should obey them for us to have a long life*** If we can count the works they did just to support is,we will be amazed .When I already reached at my age today,I have look back my grown up life that I became disobedient too with my parents.That's why I always beaten by my mom with a stick because I always come home late and even answered her with a very bad tone. And today that I became a parent,I have observed that my kids were disobedient sometimes,especially when they are in the face of gadgets,they always procrastinate when I need to have something to hand over.I feel disappointed sometimes when it reaches 5 o'clock in the afternoon but still they didn't do what I said to them. One time,I asked my daughter of why did she always refused when I told her some instructions,and she said that's",I am a nagger,and I just keep quiet when she said that.And I admit that I am a nagger,because I just want to finished the things right away,without delay,like gadgets. **Here are some reasons why kids disobey?** **They are often scolded by their parents** Personally,I know someone who feel hatred against his parents because of his growing up stage,he was often scolded by his father with a broomstick.In front of many people,visitors and even in public,in a very strong way of beating him.It started when he was just a kid until he grown up. Until such time,that there is a facebook app that is existing,he was frustrated and just wanted to speak out against his parents for scolding him which makes him embarrassed.He posted some inadequate words to let her heart out,in which his parents didn't know what he did. It seems that he wants to revenge,and he is a kind of young person who didn't want any bully.One way of disobeying his parents lately,was going home so late,like 2 am,3 am,and sometimes he didn't go home at night and he told her father that he has projects to finished with his friends.His father didn't scold him anymore because his already young now,and it's very inapproprieate to beat him with a broomstick.Instead of scolding him ,his papa told him to go away ,and bring his things,but he is a stubborn guy who never listens to what they say. As I used to think with this situation,I can say that scolding our child always really has a negative result as the days goes by.It is not guarantee that we are tough,and strict that our kids will grow as a responsible citizen.There is something in a good conversation that really unites a relationship in a family,not just by shouting,yelling and preparing a hard thing to hurt our children. **There's no time for kid**s Almost all parents are very busy everyday doing their respective works and businesses.Sometimes parents forget to talk,and have time to play with their children,to laughed and bond with each other.It makes the relationship having a space,even though they lived in one house but it seems that they are far from each other. We should always remember that time is love,if we give time for someone it means we love them. **They are not heard** Our children have their own opinion that needs to be heard,and if we just hear them out ,can surprise us on what they can say about us. Maybe it's good to give them time to explain and be heard with their opinion and reactions.They too,have something to tell that could make us enlightened. Children's are real blessings from God,and as parents ,we are just a steward of our kids,we don't owned them but we are here to guide,nurture and pray for them. I would like to thank all of you who frequently visits my article everytime I post,and to my sponsors,readers and upvoters. Have a great day everyone!