Emotions Mixed in Decisions

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Two aspects you don't always want to mix, some times we go with our feeling, we swim with the moment, its just how I feel, I feel like calling him now just to hear his voice, or i just want to do this and do that, our decisions coming from our emotions should be matters that are not really serious, maybe just a harmless decision, what to eat, what to say sometime, what to wear, as long as its harmless then the action should or can be taken with the feelings of the moment and that fine. However we are often going to make tough decisions in life, not always life threatening, it could also be a big step to a new beginning lying behind the decision you are about to take.

A father has a company and his only heir quite unfortunately is a wayward son, who refuses to give his time and dedication to seeing how the business is run, so many test has been carried out by the father to test the competence of his son and only heir, but then he has only failed completely. Now the man is old and the company needs a fresh young hand to handle its managerial positions. The son is certain he would be sitting on his fathers seat, the father wishes the son seats on his seat, the full staffs are praying the father don't hand over to the son not just only for their selfish benefits, but they are sure the son would ruin the company as fast as the speed of light, and that's them losing a place to earn and feed their family.

What is the right decision, you can advice the father, the man is confused and hoping not to make a life error. If the family would still want to have a running and smooth working business bringing them money, then they need not to be sentimental about the decision they are about to make, the son cannot run the business. However he is the owner of the business by virtue of inheritances but the issues of who would call the shots must be left into the hands of an expert and respectable individual, who would respect the son as the owner so as to prevent any act of betrayal, or better still make a contract binding, one wise enough to protect the son to ensure he stays owner and enjoys his benefits while another individual competent enough runs the business without interference.

The time we are more prone to making bad decisions are times when we are overly excited or under excited, this two period we must beware as to know what we say or what we do or how we act. Wise men would always say to pay attention to a friends words when they are angry with you, that time they are likely to say all what they feel within, as the rage of the anger beclouds their thoughts to conceal some matters. The under excitements gets so deep when we are angry or sad, we already being in a bad mood wants to make others feel bad and feel what we feel and so we might do some hurtful things, its often the best time to be silent or work away, the emotions might be screaming loud on our heads but we just keep silent cause we are careful not to cause something we would only regret later.

So much for under excitements, how about when we are very happy, what do we say or do too? You just got promised a contract and you are already telling the world in boast promising here and there. You just met a beautiful lady that says she likes you and you are already promising marriage forgetting you have to study to know her too. Growing up some of the injuries we sustained were times we were running home due to excitement we forgot to be careful in roads we ordinary knew was bad. Being too happy is good but our actions should not be taken as a result of that.

More reason why many have made promises they don't keep, their level of excitement at that moment removes all sense of reality from their heads, they thought it would always be good, it can't get bad, don't worry I would do this or do that, but when they are more relaxed and recollect the actions they did, they would surely feel embarrassed. Many people have cheated on their partners whom they promised faithfulness to, because they were over excited, sadly few of them couldn't escape they wrath as some would be caught or like get impregnated, this is only leading to more hurting, let's be guided in our decision making when we are extreme in emotions.

The consequences however of our deeds might not be so lenient with us, we can't explain to nature saying it was only a mistake, so to prevent this let's be guided and know when best to act or speak. Intruding emotions into decision is not always bad, but with the level of the seriousness of the decision we must take emotions far away from it.

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ultimate self-control. when in a state of urgency and anger begins to peak. don't let him get the better of you, the best thing to do is stay patient and think that it will turn out all right. trouble won't take your life away. I also often use this trick when problems and emotions start to hit my life.

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2 years ago

It's a good trick to go with, because certainly at last all would be well.

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2 years ago

thank you hopefully this can be useful for us and everyone

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2 years ago

Decisions mixed with emotions cannot always be correct. Any decisions taken in haste can only lead to disaster. Better to calm your mind before taking decisions.

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2 years ago

That's right, we need to be very cautious with this, our decisions shouldn't be influenced by our emotions.

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2 years ago

Both requires extreme balancing.

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2 years ago

Yea that's right, extreme balancing is required.

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2 years ago

It's not a good time to decide something when we're too happy or sad. Ganyan din po ako noon which is nabago ko na sa sarili ko ngayon kasi madalas nagsisisi ako sa huli e.

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2 years ago

So true, we need to be cautious as not to act while our mind isn't settled.

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2 years ago

Hindi dapat talaga tayo gumawa ng desisyon if we are under in too much emotions.

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2 years ago

It's a bad idea to make decisions when ones emotions isn't calm and clear. Some decisions are so vital, we can afford to make mistakes about them.

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2 years ago

Human beings have a problem. They can easily get thrilled & flows with the emotions. In a good mood they promise to do this or that without even thinking about it's results & circumstances.

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2 years ago

Hahaha that's so true, it's when the going gets tough we suddenly realizes, who what I've I done.

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2 years ago