Sad story
Image above is blurry for some reason, This happened few months ago. And i know its too late to share, i really dont have plenty of time to write an article for this, but this is the perfect time to think and write. So while having my lunch at that specific moment in that place, a lady caught my attention, she was a mom intertaining her baby with a ballon, walking around, touching the art on the wall and etc. She was the lady in a red shirt as you can see she was carrying her baby, and the left side of the picture was her family. The entire time her family enjoyed the birthday celebration with food and drinks and lively conversation. No one stepped in, to let her enjoy being part of the group. **UNSEEN-** care-taking of motherhood many moms do that leave us out of the group, either no one noticed the subtle work she was doing, or no one wanted to give up their enjoyment to let her have a taste of it too. I considered offering to hold her baby so she could rejoin her family a bit, but i knew that was gonna be weird. And people wonder why postpartum depression, rage, and resentment are common part of motherhood. They dont just need a better diagnosis and doctors to help new moms. They need their families and friends to notice them, and being patience and understanding are neccesarry. they also dont understand their feelings, they cant control their mind either. I know some of you dont believe in this kind of depression but please be more sensitive to their feelings and talk to them nicely. Observe their attitude and listen. So all to the ***MOMS*** out there who are suffering from this stage of depression, i salute you guys for being so brave and strong for your baby and also to all fathers out there who are so patient and understanding keep it up.
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