Know the costs that follows your choices/decisions as well as their consequences.
When you decide to do something, when you make a choice, calculate the costs associated with it to avoid a start without a finish.
At times we make decisions hastily, we fail to calculate the costs associated with them. So when things don’t work out as planned or expected, we complain. If you choose to go after something, try finding out what comes along with it, consider questions like, ' Will this decision bring me moments of discouragement, will there be times when I will get tired? What will I have to sacrifice? What extra mile will it compel me to make? '. You should make reflections in this manner, just to know if you really understand what you are deciding to do.
Some people blame others for the challenges they encounter as a result of their decisiton, when they get into the difficult times. Some blame the processes that should get them where they want to be, others may even blame God. When you have made a choice, be ready to accept and face what comes with it. This way, you will face it prepared and not the other way around.
Do you want success? Then be prepared for what she will cost you; be ready to pay her price. Also be ready for what comes along with it when you have it.
Do you want marriage? Then be prepared for what comes along with it as well.
Do you want children? You should be prepared for Parenthood, be ready to train your children right. It’s the responsibility that comes with it: providing for them, and taking your responsibility as a parent in all that is needed of you to do.
When we fail to calculate our costs, we may end failing with the excuse of, “I didn’t sign up for this”… Always ensure that you make your decisions in accordance with your capacity or potential capacity. Before you make a decision, sit back and think about what you are getting yourself into, examine if you are ready for it. Careful calculations can save you a lot of surprises and get you prepared for what comes ahead if you.
Thanks for reading fans. Please share if you were enlightened.